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Posted: 18:37 - 13 Jul 2007 Post subject: Fuc* me I sound emo =/. |
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It's near enough enough 300 miles away.
We did do it for a few weeks before when he had work experience in his hometown, and that was really awful.
What made it easier to deal with was that I knew he was coming back.
With this I don't know when he is coming back, if ever.
I really hate the idea of a few months down the line meeting up with him and all that closeness being gone.
I've never had this much trust or been this comfortable with someone, I don't want to lose that.
It's weird to explain but with him I feel so secure and great, he's given me so much confidence in myself and stupid as it sounds I'm scared that's all going to go when he does.
The rational part of me is saying yes I'm young this is my first love? but for the most part of me I can't be rational about it.
It hurts thinking about it, how's it going to feel when he's actually gone =/.
My girl friends wouldn't understand as none of them have had a relationship spanning more than a month.
What makes this harder I think is that he's my first proper boyfriend, yes I've had a few 'boyfriends' but I wouldn't call them relationships.
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Ok totally confused by that last sentance lol may have something to so with my mate being eaten by the dog and barking and me getting annyed and roaring, i kinda lost the plot after that.
meant you may feel differant as time goes on when your apart, who knows you may even want each other that much it will work and yuo will get a nice place together and then it may even go the other way where you drift apart and you meet someone else. thats what i was trying to say. No one can say how its going to turn out, its how you make it. ____________________ All the breast.
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I'm gonna be the git here then. I know it seems like it'll be death, but the relationship is only 5 months old. You will get over it after not too long if you have to.
Not that you necessarily will. Try the long distance relationship, but I have to say I wouldn't hold much hope. If you're already wondering about jealousy or drifting then odds are you will. As I say, sorry to be the git.
Last thing - I hope it does work. Really. But if you feel it going, pack it in. Don't hang on, don't waste time. Trust me, I know that one well.
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Posted: 20:28 - 13 Jul 2007 Post subject: |
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Awww , young love...........so hopeful so fresh , sooo cute .........
Itchy says a non commital maybe , I briefly considered dating UG , 1300 miles away in the South of France, but
even though there might have been something there it would be impossible to work it,though some obviously work it,
see Mary Jane? , she emigrated to the UK to live with her BF and strangely has become absent,
I'm with Seph , but have an extra option.
try it and see,
OR
Enjoy it now while it lasts and end it, so that you end it on a high point much like playing one less round of golf
than you intended , or one less lap of the Nurburg ring, so that you don't destroy what you have by trying to save
it. ____________________ Spain 2008France 2007Big one 2009 We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will. In the end, your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it is worth watching. |
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Posted: 20:33 - 13 Jul 2007 Post subject: |
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take note!
There's a voice that keeps on calling me
Down the road, that's where I'll always be.
Every stop I make, I make a new friend,
Can't stay for long, just turn around and I'm gone again
Maybe tomorrow, I'll want to settle down,
Until tomorrow, I'll just keep moving on.
Down this road that never seems to end,
Where new adventure lies just around the bend.
So if you want to drive me for a while,
Just grab your hat, come travel light, that's hobo style.
Maybe tomorrow I'll want to settle down,
Until tomorrow, the whole world is my home. ____________________ Spain 2008France 2007Big one 2009 We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will. In the end, your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it is worth watching. |
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my first ever boyfriend stayed quite a while away and we went out for 3 years .. never lived close to him though but met up every so often. but eventually we lost contact but it was worth it for a while although i wish i had ended it a bit sooner! ____________________ Suzuki SV 650 (blue of course!) |
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Me and my missus lived together from the word go and it lasted almost 4 years until she moved back home. The distance wasn't that great at all, she was in Leeds and I was in Manchester but we only really saw each other at weekends. We developed our own lives during the week and then began living our old life at the weekend. It was a bit odd.
As soon as we moved away from each other we started to drift apart from each other, I started having almost two different lives, I acted as if I was single during the week and then I was in a relationship at the weekend (not on purpose, thats just the way it felt). That last about 6 months until we both realised it wasn't working.
Maintaining a relationship with any kind of distance is tough and I wouldn't recommend it.
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I would never say he's the one .
I'm not even sure I believe in that kind of stuff.
I just not I feel quite a lot for him and it's going to be a hell of a wrench to see him go.
5 months may not sound like a long time on paper, but when your with one person everyday for 5 months it's a different story.
There's so much that I need to take care of, my education most importantly, I want to do a higher NVQ.
Also if I went there I'd be relying on his parents to feed me and pay for general things until I could get a job, and I'm the kind of person who hates being dependant on others =/.
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 16 years, 309 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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