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dransy
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PostPosted: 20:32 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: My mate * need abit of advice* Reply with quote

Well if any of you can remember the posts i made about my ex , basically my mate has been seeing this lass called rose for 2 years.

She went to uni in London where from leeds and theres pics of her on the net with her tits out in nightclubs with guys holding them. She came up for the weekend and she finished him in front of all her family then her dad assaulted him and they phoned police and they arrested my mate dave because it was his word against her family.

Anyway in the past shes thrown phones at his head , slept with his cousin while he was downstairs ! Borrowed laods of money of daves parents and not paid them back and its added up to a grand easyily , a new phone and a holiday abroard!

His parents hate her *obviously* but he still insists on getting back with her! these past few weeks hes been with me weve gone out a lot to pubs*etc* and been workin together on a few jobs and ive never seen him as happy

And tonight hes told me hes got back with her just to use her , but its obvious he hasnt done that.

He wont listen to anyone im his best mate and he wont listen he knows ive been threw it all before.

And just now like theyve just got back together there talking and shes saying shes in shit cos she has no money in the bank! how obvious is it shes just using him!

Anyway to my point , what can i do?

I know i didnt listen to anyone , im not gona fall out with him cos hes my best mate, should i just wait and let him learn? or try help more?

cheers everyone
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PostPosted: 20:44 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

been there before..... in my experience if they dont listen the first time you tell them they aint ever going to listen. Just be there to catch them when it all falls apart.
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PostPosted: 20:51 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: My mate * need abit of advice* Reply with quote

dransy wrote:
Anyway to my point , what can i do?


Nothing, he'll never listen no matter what you say. Just leave him too it until he's finally realised he's being a twat.
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PostPosted: 20:53 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: My mate * need abit of advice* Reply with quote

dransy wrote:

Anyway to my point , what can i do?


Not a lot, you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink.

Eventually he will wise up, he's obviously not ready to face facts at the moment. I reckon she will ridicule even further soon, and hopefully he will get the message.

Stop worrying about him, he isnt your responsibility.
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PostPosted: 22:03 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

You sure you aren't the script writer for 'Shameless'?

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I doubt there is anything you can do. Perhaps try to get something on her that will make him see sense, other than that you will risk losing your mate, if you keep at him too much. Sad
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PostPosted: 22:21 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Anyway to my point , what can i do?


You could smash her face in with a brick. Perhaps he'll not find her quite so attractive then.

BTW, where's this pic on the net you're talking about?
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PostPosted: 22:39 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Got any of the photos?
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PostPosted: 23:45 - 13 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

pics are on a site called www.thatnite.com
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PostPosted: 00:15 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dransy wrote:
pics are on a site called www.thatnite.com


Thats just not very helpful is it now, there are loads of pics on that site and we all want to see HER pics.
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PostPosted: 02:40 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

A had a little shifty for the pics, couldnt find em.

A) Link the pics biatch.

B) If shes fit fuck it, just make sure he dont give her any more money and gets his knob wet back home while shes fucking about.
If she aint fit... well... stone her!
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PostPosted: 10:30 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell him he's being a retard, if he doesn't listen, then just stand back and watch the fireworks, it's his choice.

He's obviously been thinking with is cock. Would I be right in assuming that this slapper was his first 'proper' girlfriend???

Would explain a lot if she was. In which case, take him away for the weekend and get him laid, that might be a quick fix.

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PostPosted: 16:01 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Link needed. Need to see if she is worth the trouble or not.
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PostPosted: 16:12 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I forget which episode this is. Is bwfc4eva86 the "mate" in this one, or do we have to wait and find out next week?
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PostPosted: 16:20 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I forget which episode this is. Is bwfc4eva86 the "mate" in this one, or do we have to wait and find out next week?


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PostPosted: 19:21 - 14 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: My mate * need abit of advice* Reply with quote

dransy wrote:


She went to uni in London where from leeds and theres pics of her on the net with her tits out in nightclubs with guys holding them.



In retrospect Dransy it was probably a mistake mentioning this at the start of the thread as now most people on here are more bothered about seeing the said photos than by your mates problem! Laughing
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PostPosted: 00:29 - 15 Nov 2006    Post subject: Re: My mate * need abit of advice* Reply with quote

Mockey wrote:


In retrospect Dransy it was probably a mistake mentioning this at the start of the thread as now most people on here are more bothered about seeing the said photos than by your mates problem! Laughing


His mate has a problem?
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PostPosted: 02:24 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

link please. cumon dude!

Jus tell him hes being a rimmer. have a quite chat with her, telling her to fuck off. If that fails. pay someone to shag her and record it, then show him......
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PostPosted: 16:29 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Keir_K3 wrote:
Just be there to catch them when it all falls apart.


ditto that.
There is no point beating your head against a brick wall time and time again. Just let it run its course, then be the good mate if/when it falls apart again.
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PostPosted: 16:48 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheShaggyDA wrote:
I forget which episode this is. Is bwfc4eva86 the "mate" in this one, or do we have to wait and find out next week?


Nope im happy with my gf ta, and her parents haven never assualted me. Plus Dransy (correct me if im wrong) lives in Yorkshire i live in Manchester Thumbs Up And have never even met him.

Im happy as can possibly be right now, just need a new job Smile
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PostPosted: 18:35 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="bwfc4eva86"]

Nope im happy with my gf ta, /quote]

Thot u said somewhere else the other day that you were single and were going to stay like that for a while??
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PostPosted: 18:55 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="Rawker"]
bwfc4eva86 wrote:


Nope im happy with my gf ta, /quote]

Thot u said somewhere else the other day that you were single and were going to stay like that for a while??


Hmmm i changed my mind. I liked the idea of being single, but then got too know some one and seems like a really sound girl.

So we'll see what happens.
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PostPosted: 20:25 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

oooooo, can't wait for the next episode Smile
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PostPosted: 22:15 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheShaggyDA wrote:
oooooo, can't wait for the next episode Smile


Wont be from me, after than bitch from Blackely who lived in a pub, after 4 months of moaning in this section. Something clicked in my little mind. My mates and family and myself mean more than any woman.

So i will just take each day as it comes with her Thumbs Up sex is good tho Laughing
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PostPosted: 23:24 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

bwfc4eva86 wrote:
after than bitch from Blackely who lived in a pub


I thought she was your soulmate but her family was the problem?

Sickpup stirring just because he's bored.
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PostPosted: 23:29 - 20 Nov 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

sickpup wrote:
bwfc4eva86 wrote:
after than bitch from Blackely who lived in a pub


I thought she was your soulmate but her family was the problem?

Sickpup stirring just because he's bored.


Still love her, just think she's a bitch with issues who needs a dose of reality. But im not gonna waste my life waiting for her, i decided had to move on and thats what ive done. 2007 soon. New Year fresh start put this one behind me Smile
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