divorce help for people in the know ?

brettking24 · Trackday Trickster Joined: 12 May 2004 Karma :

Hi to cut a long story short im getting divorced and have got some papers from the ex solicitor,im not sure if im right or not but theres a section that talks about what the applicant intends for eg a lump sum order etc..does it look like she doesnt want any other the boxes she has marked?

i have inc a pic

thanks

LustyLew · World Chat Champion Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Karma :

Ahhh the good old FormE05! (30 odd pages!!)

From that it looks like you're being taken to the cleaners mate, sorry. Crying or Very sad

Are there children involved? If so, the chances are that she'll file for it all then you'll come to an 'agreement' futher down the line.
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brettking24 · Trackday Trickster Joined: 12 May 2004 Karma :

well if you look on there it says delete as appropriate.thats what im not too sure about

LustyLew · World Chat Champion Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Karma :

Give me a few mins, I'll log into work and pull up some info.
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LustyLew · World Chat Champion Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Karma :

Right, the * applies to the 3 options. Two of these should be xx'ed out. The X's in the six boxes below outline what your spouse is applying for financial assistance for.

(Oh, and it was FormA!) Forgot how much paperwork there was to a divorce!
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RealNinja · World Chat Champion Joined: 18 Mar 2004 Karma :

Just a quick note on divorce....

You are aware that assuming you don't want to take her to the cleaners or she wants to take you....

You don't have to have a solicitor for a divorce, you can do it your self, just get the forms form the court, job done.

My wife divorced her ex like that
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Kwaks · I'm not a fast rider Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Karma :

That form says she wants it all, I assume you rent as division of property is the only thing she isnt going for Sad

Get a lawyer now, you need someone to guide you through it, hopefully you will qualify for legal aid.
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queen of string · World Chat Champion Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Karma :

Me and the ex husband did ours ourself and there was a child involved , but we had agreed on what we were doing so no solicitors. If I had done as the solicitor suggested when we first split up , I doubt we'd be talking yet, 10yrs down the line !
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LustyLew · World Chat Champion Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Karma :

Right, I have double checked with our legal buffs. The more boxes that contain an 'x' the more your wife is wanting from you.

If you want any other info, you can PM me, I'll see if I can help. I'm no solicitor, but working in the legal sector and can ask various friends etc.

HTH
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