Help with attracting the attention of a woman

[MinhDinh]

Well, I have been attracted to this woman for some years now, and I have been subtlety hinting that I like her. I believe she may like me, but how much I am not sure. She has not rejected me fully, but nor has she said she wnats to go further.

The main issue is, she isn't single, and I may not be her type. She makes my world a happy place, puts a smile on me when I think of her, and there isn't a day I don't think of her.

What should I do? Man up?

Thanks.
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[D O G]

Do what she wants you to do - leave her the fuck alone.

[Fairies attack]

If she isn't single then, just be her mate.

Ask her out for a pub lunch or something. As i've always believed you don't know unless you try.

Play it cool, and think of something to say to her before you start putting on the charm. But don't try steer a conversation right to the way you have planned.

The most sporadic and interesting conversations with girls that I have had, have been completely random, and sometimes ended up in just banter at each other whilst having a drink.

[Clanger]

Sorry just laughing at the idea of you being subtle. Do you even know the meaning, I mean I've watched you hit on HK on here for a wee while now, and even had a direct hit myself.

Not at all what I'd regard as subtle.

I am guessing if this is your style in the real world, then this lady you know fully knows how you feel but is just enjoying the banter / your company as is.

If you are indeed really subtle with her, she's maybe waiting for you to ask her on a date. It is the only way you are going to know one way or the other. Because for females, we are happy to have male mates and are sometimes completely unaware of their indirect attentions.

Ask her for a date and see the reaction. If you get the face and the excuses, you'll know she only ever saw you as a friend.

Whats important to know is some females cannot handle the knowledge that their 'friend' would happily bone them given the opportunity, and will subtly drop you off, and never see you again.

Some will be wary with you, waiting for you to ask again, because unfortunately male friends do that, despite rejecting them before, and because they didn't get it last time - the female is forced to being downright rude the next to ensure it sinks in. So if she rejects you, do yourself a favour and take it as read she ain't interested now she won't be three months down the line - despite still being single.
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[Pete.]

Send her an email:

Dear xxxxxx,

TITS OR GTFO

Sincerely,

MinDinh
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[Rogerborg]

1,000 words of reply:

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If you're not balls deep in it by now, you'll need rohypnol to hit it.
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[dodsi]

Seconded, if nothing has happened yet then it wont, give up and move onto something else.

[RichieZX6R]

[Redoko]

Personally, if she's with someone else I'd back off.


Clearly she's happy if she's with him. One would assume.



Hitting on blokes missus' is a prime way of p!ssing them off.
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[Wilson12345]

Lol

Man it up you woman, get her drunk.
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