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Think I kind of get where Hellkat was going with her suggestions, but that wouldn't work for me, though I do appreciate being out alone in the countryside on a quiet day off looking at nothing in particular etc.
Think the feeling down for no reason thing is overplayed for most people, youd have to have a predisposition towards depression or be a diagnosed case sufferer like say a manic depressive, or another mental/behavioural known condition IMO. You do get fairly even keel people where nothing really excites them, but equally nothing really makes them down IMO too.
OP has qualified his feelings quite clearly in second post I'd say and I can really relate to it. If you've got money coming in but no time to do things or all your would be free time is automatically allocated by you or others to helping others or caring for them, you get really fucking low after so long.
The bit about buying the sports car so that OP's kids could come out with him on days off illustrates this well. I'd say OP is kindly putting the needs of everyone else before himself every hour/day.
I've got friends that are married with kids, and family life is bloody busy and hectic. Even so each adult even with double the child care thing on their day off, gets at least half a day a week free to do something away from the whole family. That might be anything from keep fit classes or swimming to a day of shopping or an afternoon of shed time or mountain biking etc.
One of my best mates has had to give up bikes for pushchairs etc, but no bike is not depressing him. He says to me normally when he's out of earshot of his Mrs, 'Stevo you know we had some good days out on bikes years ago, well I guarantee that when the kids are older and I can afford to have a toy again, I'm having another bike and she just doesn't know it yet'. I know he'll do it too, but when we chat he's not like at all resentful or really missing bikes here and now, but he's just parked the having a bike thing until the time is right again. |
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 6 years, 288 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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