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PostPosted: 12:41 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 13:39 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

ZX-7R wrote:
A cock ring?.

Actually, that's something I'd have done years sooner than I did if I had a chance to chat with young me.
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PostPosted: 13:50 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I retired at 53. Had 20 bikes since then. Def 43 is the absolute max - you are still young enough to feel young. Dying men rarely say, "I wish I'd worked more!" Buy houses, do up, buy more. Retire young. Working with those you hate is not fun. Ride the biggest fastest best bike as soon as you can. Better a young king than an old prince. But most of all, take all the young women who beg. One day there will only be memories and lots of old ladies.
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PostPosted: 15:45 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

pepperami wrote:
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Would you tell him not to get into bikes? I might, it's too late now as it's under my skin, but I'd be a lot healthier and in a better position (work wise/financially) if I'd never taken up riding.


Ok so no bikes, would you have not found another obsession?
Would that have not of got under your skin and cost you a fortune?

Financial as in not being able to take promotions at work due to biking injuries. I'd probably have remained a cycling freak, nearly did, whilst mulling over getting a motorbike I decided against it (due to the cost) then that second the bike I wanted rode by (it was pure chance fate).

chickenstrip wrote:
I've had great times on bikes, so wouldn't want to deny him that, if that's what he wanted.

As for me, I've done what I've done, and am where I am. Regrets now are pointless.

Don't get me wrong I've enjoyed it, but I can see how it hasn't been beneficial. Neither has doing a physical job for years. I'm full of regrets Razz I'd probably tell my younger self to jump through the bullshit hoops I thought I was smart enough to avoid, do some bullshit A levels, a boring degree and then get a meh office job.
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PostPosted: 16:36 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, financial stability, yes.
How could I forget "Do not trust your mother with your money".

*bangs forehead*
Duh!
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PostPosted: 17:32 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd tell teenage me "Bicycle brake cables don't last forever, one day they'll both snap when you're tail-gating a car at 25mph."
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PostPosted: 18:33 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

1, don't crap on yourself!

2, look after you more and stop putting others first.

3, take all opportunities that are thrown at your feet.

4, if you know what you really want to do career wise, pursue it relentlessly like a shark don't let people say no!

5, if you can work for yourself and be poor but fulfilled it's pure gold!

6, when it's all gone to shit and your done for, don't let anyone take you alive.
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PostPosted: 18:55 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

M.C wrote:


chickenstrip wrote:
I've had great times on bikes, so wouldn't want to deny him that, if that's what he wanted.

As for me, I've done what I've done, and am where I am. Regrets now are pointless.

Don't get me wrong I've enjoyed it, but I can see how it hasn't been beneficial. Neither has doing a physical job for years. I'm full of regrets Razz I'd probably tell my younger self to jump through the bullshit hoops I thought I was smart enough to avoid, do some bullshit A levels, a boring degree and then get a meh office job.


Thing is, I don't know what else I would've done. I didn't get into long distance walking and fell walking until after I left the RAF. Bikes were my only interest since the age of about 15. I'd still be lost without them. It would have been nice not to have smashed myself up on them, and I should have got into touring earlier, especially when I was in Germany with the RAF. But that didn't really interest me back then.

I tried A levels, but had to switch schools to do them, and the school I went to had clearly done a lot of different stuff at O level to the one I did them at - there seemed to be a lot of gaps I couldn't connect between, so I jacked that in and went into the RAF instead. I'd have been no good at university, didn't have the self-discipline to study off my own back. But the RAF was by far a better option than the office job you're talking about I reckon, and without so much time studying and wondering how to scrape together enough money to live on. And as I went straight into tech level training rather than mech, after just 18 months of trade training I was on good money, aged 19 and a half years. Food and accommodation was ridiculously cheap too, so my pay was basically all pocket money. So it's really just a couple of details I'd warn a son to do differently, going from my own experience. But those details sure could've made a difference!
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PostPosted: 21:00 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pass bike test on 250 in 1980 instead of selling it to buy a mini 1275gt even if still my fave car.

Buy loads more copies of all those classic rock vinyl so you would have made an even bigger fortune selling collection.

Have more sex with that 18 year old girl when you were single aged 48

Learn to play guitar.

Don't smoke, (given up last three years)
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PostPosted: 21:28 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Take more risks but just remember that racing bikes aren't designed for jumping.
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PostPosted: 21:34 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Either join army when young and fit enough

Or keep in the 6-2 job that paid well and when the sold it I would have gain a fair few quid
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PostPosted: 22:30 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's all about confidence.
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PostPosted: 23:07 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thought of a couple more to tell the young and impetuous me:

* Cigarettes are not cool.
* Talk to more boys. Boys are too shy to talk to you 'cos of your tits. Men are not.
* Finish the HGV course.
* Don't bunk the piano lessons.
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PostPosted: 23:11 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

andyscooter wrote:
Either join army when young and fit enough

Yeahhhhh I kinda thought I might want to go in the Navy when I was a mere sliip of a girl, but my dad (who already was) discouraged me, I think he had had enough of it by then Laughing

In hindsight, I'd have preferred the AirForce though. I would have done better with a bit of military training.
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PostPosted: 23:24 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh dear, starting to think about mistakes or bad decisions I have let go by.

There's rather a lot of them Shocked

But then, if I hadn't have done some of those things, my life would not be how it is now.

If I changed even a small thing, I might have ended up not having had my lovely Anita Wub and that would be just unimaginable.
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PostPosted: 23:45 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

When a tiny obscure software house run by a nerd called Bill Gates starts issuing share, buy each and every one.
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PostPosted: 23:51 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Andy_Pagin wrote:
When a tiny obscure software house run by a nerd called Bill Gates starts issuing share, buy each and every one.


I remember advising someone back in about 1997/98 to buy shares in Sun Microsystems.

Bloody wish I'd taken me own advice Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: 23:54 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

nothing really just follow your instinct
I have had a few major changes of direction in my life that have came about from being in the right place at the right time and saying f*ck it why not
I have 3 wonderful kids that have their own life's now. a reasonable future and roughly where I want to be right now
53 years old kids moved out leaving me & the Mrs and the cats
better off than I was when they were here
get to go runs on the bikes with my sons no real debt to speak of and not many items on my bucket list to tick off

all in all if the 63 bus splats me tomorrow I don't have any thing's I would change if I could apart from not stepping out as the bus was going by Laughing
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PostPosted: 23:55 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Probably this:

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PostPosted: 23:58 - 22 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Johnnythefox wrote:
Have more sex with that 18 year old girl when you were single aged 48

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PostPosted: 00:10 - 23 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

hellkat wrote:
Thought of a couple more to tell the young and impetuous me:

* Cigarettes are not cool.
* Talk to more boys. Boys are too shy to talk to you 'cos of your tits. Men are not.


Cigarettes are very uncool (and I really have to stop!).

IMO most men are still rather shy when it comes to women they really like.
I had years of doing well with the ones I didn't really care about but very rarely got together with the ones I really wanted to.
Maybe that's just me though... Embarassed
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Less drinking, more fecking and don't procrastinate. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 00:14 - 23 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

hellkat wrote:
I would have done better with a bit of military training.


Don't bet on it Laughing
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PostPosted: 01:12 - 23 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Howling Terror wrote:

Stop sniffing your finger.

Stop it, now.
I see this thread has gone 'grown up' so to keep with the flow....

Do everything you feel is right at the time of choosing, because if you don't I won't end up with who I'm with now and I won't have offspring that turn out to be a decent human...(I/you/me will hate spending hours at those horse stables....stick with it cos you get to shag that fit bird.

Speaking of shagging....It isn't your fault that the au-pair (the blonde) didn't like sex oh and let's talk about losing your virginity. You'll be waiting till you're 18..soz mate...wasn't for lack of trying...then again you can be choosy.

So when that 'special' night arrives and you're about to make the plunge remember it's not like the grainy VHS porn film you got off Rob and hid in the loft! <<<Why the loft?...didn't have a loft ladder so each wank was fraught with physical danger using the banister to stand on and itchy insulation FFS!

So, take it easy...it isn't a race and you don't get rated on pumps-per-second..that's why you end up shagging that poor girl's head down the back of the settee...stick with her. for a bit.she teaches you loads and let's be frank about this..she is what many consider to be 'a dirty girl'.
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PostPosted: 01:22 - 23 Jul 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think there's two classes of advice one could give: don't do that bad thing, or do do this good thing.

Advice to not do the bad thing is predicated on it being done between younger you and you today, so that advice isn't broadly applicable.

Advice on doing the good thing is tough. If you had a hard time figuring out what to do with your life, what you were good at, then advice on what to seek out would help, but it's still not broadly applicable.

Time-travelling advice difficulty is compounded by the lack of context and agency that young people often have. It's all very well to recommend to make more out of opportunities, but often that takes skill and knowledge, not just a suggestion. You have to recognize an opportunity when it comes, and know that it's decent (to avoid opportunity cost), which requires calibration, which young people don't have until they're older. See the Secretary problem for a mathematical way to think about this.

On lack of agency: the standard treadmill for young people goes school, college (course chosen based on aptitude and interest), job (chosen based on education and interest), life partner, house, children, etc. What we do is path-dependent on how we arrived at that point, all the way back to choices our parents made. But you can't advise selecting your parents!

The single biggest thing that would have helped me in my early days isn't anything I could advise my early self to do; it would have been to be mentored by a well-placed professional in industry. What could have helped make that happen? Living in a different area, parents with a different social circle, going to a different school and making friends with children who had relevant parents, etc. There isn't much actionable here, beyond writing personal letters to people I had no personal connection to, or even knew how to find the addresses of.

But if you could choose your parents, that would be my advice: choose differently. Not because the ones I had did anything wrong in particular, but rather that their life choices were quite a distance away from what would have been best for how I turned out (not in any way they could have predicted).
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