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Jesus, Paul. Can you not just be a man and start handling your life with some sense of maturity. It's like constantly dealing with a 13 year old schoolboy in short pants.
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That's a good question, he was a bit 'nice' for this place mind you. Perhaps he's found a different forum? ____________________ Currently enjoying products from Ford, Mazda and Yamaha
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nowhere.elysium The Pork Lord
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Pol's admission comes as a surprise to no-one, I see.
Pol:
No-one likes a braggart. It's a shit way of trying to gain any form of social credit - even bodyguard has largely given up on it. Being vindictive only really works if you've got the witticisms at your disposal to manage it, and the initiate to see when it's going to work against you. I walk a fine line between making people laugh and being seen as a cunt, and it takes a fair bit of work and self-checking.
Follow Smiler's path - get out from under by making a big move, and just getting on with life. Don't go putting yourself out there forcibly, let people gravitate to you. Sure, you won't be surrounded by legions of people, but so fucking what?
More to the point, trying to be the biggest dog in any situation doesn't work - it just makes you look insecure as all fuck. Remember how awkward you felt when you came to the bbq years ago? That wasn't anything to do with people making noobs uncomfortable, that was because people have no time for idiots who claim they're gonna knock everyone out. It's the exact same problem shereen had - the desperation for recognition and acceptance just makes it impossible to achieve.
TL; DR - drop the bullshit, and start over. That might mean you have to move away from your Jeremy Kyle family situation too (assuming any of that is real) - having moved halfway up the country myself for entirely different reasons, I can tell you that it's really not that hard to do.
You'll get the hang of being a functional adult eventually. Once you've dug yourself out of the pit of your own making, then you can start to work on the mental state. ____________________ '10 SV650SF, '83 GS650GT (it lives!), Questionable DIY dash project, 3D Printer project, Lasercutter project |
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Gary.
In dry.
Out wet.
Sorted.
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Why don't we all PM him? I get an email when I get a PM even if he's not looking at the forum his email should still be switched on.
If he gets a dozen or so notifications maybe he'll log in for a nosy, I've just sent mine? Did I miss an Arcane debacle?
Bugger! What happened Paddy?
Oh, and did the other bloke jump? Didn't see anything on the news so I assume it was the usual cry for help rather
than a serious attempt. Genuinely suicidal people usually write a note then follow the Nike mantra and just do it.
Assuming not dead, get yourself on the phone to Samaritans or something or get some counselling
elsewhere cos your brain is a bit broke pal, but thats not to say there's no way back from there. But if you're struggling
to cope, there are organisations out there that can help you, Citizens advice should be able to point you in the right direction. ____________________ Currently enjoying products from Ford, Mazda and Yamaha
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winz World Chat Champion
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 6 years, 58 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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