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hellkat wrote: | My gears are particularly ground today, so much so that I had to "go for a walk" to chill out in my first new day in a new office-share arrangement with a bunch of research-scientist types.
I think it will all work out okay, its a bit of a squeeze (but I've been in worse), and its a nice sunny corner: the view is lovely (fourth floor view of Chelsea rooftops, nice)
And my officemates (so far) are nice friendly normal-seeming people.
I'll just have to learn how to work more * compactly* for a bit.
It will all work out somehow |
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Went fishing today.
It’s colder than it has been lately, water was gin clear, very bright sunshine.
I caught f/all .
Gonna go out on the bike in the next couple of days to cheer myself up.
Gonna look for new fishing venues.
Bet it fecking rains .
EDIT: it’s raining , fair weather biker = bike stays in the garage ____________________ I am the sum total of my own existence, what went before makes me who I am now!
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The senior consort reports that his ex-wife referred to me as "That Woman" today
I have to admit, I'm a bit worried about the fact that she has such a malign influence on his life that he says things like :
"I wish I could move to the dark side of the moon..." ;
Me: (but you can)
or
"It's just a matter of flying under the radar"
Me: (I am not prepared to be on the verge of another relationship in which I have to "fly under the radar" again.) ____________________ Not nearly as interesting in real life. |
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hellkat wrote: |
The senior consort reports that his ex-wife referred to me as "That Woman" today
I have to admit, I'm a bit worried about the fact that she has such a malign influence on his life that he says things like :
"I wish I could move to the dark side of the moon..." ;
Me: (but you can)
or
"It's just a matter of flying under the radar"
Me: (I am not prepared to be on the verge of another relationship in which I have to "fly under the radar" again.) |
At some point in the near future & before it gets too late, you need to sit down & discuss with your wise sage of choice exactly what it is you seek from a relationship.
I get the impression you're attracted to men with attachments. Are you sure you attracted to them & not to their attachments (in denial) ???
Only once in my life did I ever find myself attracted to a girl carrying 'baggage'. Once bitten, twice shy & all that bollox, but the deeper I found myself wound into her web, the deeper her troubles became.
One day you wake up to suddenly realise that it isn't a boy/girl relationship they want. It's emotional turmoil & grief & violence & massive displays of emotions & stand off's with ex's & public slanging matches & anything that feeds their need for negativity in their lives.
If all the partners you end up in a relationship with, all turn out to be b@st#rDs, then you need to sit down, quantify & understand why you are attracted to b@st#rDs. ____________________ I clean my guns with the tears of the snivelling, left wing scum. |
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I am definitely not attracted to attachments, dear.
I know what I seek from relationships. I have spoken v.severely to myself about what I should/not be looking for, at this late stage.
So mostly it's stability.
Steady, sturdy, sensible.
Preferally reasonably deviant (of course).
Oddly enough, my first husband was that sort. But I got married very young and realised I had all my living to do and not be stuck in NZ forever.
It's clear to me (now ! ) that I need a sensible down to earth type so that I can continue to be the flighty and bright but darkly sensual and intelligent creature that I perceive myself to be. What I need is for someone who can be the Richard to my iconoclastic and eclectic Hyacinth.
The senior consort is very much closer to what I need than most of the assortment of ratbags* in the last 30 years or so.
It's a shame I didn't meet him 20 years ago.
Its just that his poxy ex-wife of 40 years lives closer than I do.
I'm less compromising than I used to be.
So I can just walk away. But right now, I don't want to.
That's not to say the bastards* didn't have value: they added colour and experience to my life, mischief that I would probably not otherwise have managed to get into by myself.
*this is what other women like to call them. I prefer the term "ratbags" because for the most part, mine have been likeable idiots rather than nasty calculating shit-heads. ____________________ Not nearly as interesting in real life. |
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hellkat wrote: | I am definitely not attracted to attachments, dear.
I know what I seek from relationships. I have spoken v.severely to myself about what I should/not be looking for, at this late stage.
So mostly it's stability.
Steady, sturdy, sensible.
Preferally reasonably deviant (of course).
Oddly enough, my first husband was that sort. But I got married very young and realised I had all my living to do and not be stuck in NZ forever.
It's clear to me (now ! ) that I need a sensible down to earth type so that I can continue to be the flighty and bright but darkly sensual and intelligent creature that I perceive myself to be. What I need is for someone who can be the Richard to my iconoclastic and eclectic Hyacinth.
The senior consort is very much closer to what I need than most of the assortment of ratbags* in the last 30 years or so.
It's a shame I didn't meet him 20 years ago.
Its just that his poxy ex-wife of 40 years lives closer than I do.
I'm less compromising than I used to be.
So I can just walk away. But right now, I don't want to.
That's not to say the bastards* didn't have value: they added colour and experience to my life, mischief that I would probably not otherwise have managed to get into by myself.
*this is what other women like to call them. I prefer the term "ratbags" because for the most part, mine have been likeable idiots rather than nasty calculating shit-heads. |
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People following like sheep the car infront in 'traffic calming measures' (or indeed situations like overtaking a parked bus).
They don't give way and then give you the finger! Twats. ____________________ CBT: 12/06/10, Theory: 22/09/10, Module 1: 09/11/10, Module 2: 19/01/11
Past: 1991 Honda CG125BR-J, 1992 (1980) Honda XL125S, 1996 Kawasaki GPZ500S.
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 2 years, 241 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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