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PostPosted: 14:16 - 22 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

A tad morbid...

However, much of it rings true with me also. I'm 58 and in reasonable health bar the usual excess of cuddle-muscle, failing eyesight, failing hearing, borderline diabetic, tablets for my blood pressure etc. Point is, barring the odd exception I am one of the healthier people in my peer group. I can still walk the dog for 10 miles provided I have something sugary on me for 'wobbles'. Most people I know in their late 50s struggle to walk to the pub...

Point being, make the most of what you have left with the people you love. The buggers have a habit of dying, and once you reach your late 50s, it happens far too often.
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PostPosted: 17:22 - 22 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

I dunno. When I was younger I used to hear about men in their 50s and 60s popping their clogs all the time. Now far less so. Less smoking and red meat consumption seems to have aided life expectancy. Now we just have dementia to look forward to.
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PostPosted: 18:12 - 22 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeremyr62 wrote:
Now our relatives just have dementia to look forward to.


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PostPosted: 18:30 - 22 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

hellkat wrote:
Yeah I think a lot about that.
I may go a bit Teffers on the subject ... Thinking

I don't mind that I'm gonna die, everybody does.
Provided it doesn't hurt too much (for too long).

I'm 63 next week, and I carpe diem more - don't sweat small stuff.
Worrying is pointless; I've experienced so many highs and lows in life that I rarely worry about anything.
Apart from gerontophiliac serial killer rapists coming through the glass of my back door in the darkest part of the night ... Rolling Eyes

I got much more cosmic about stuff after laying in a field one night looking at the stars, realising the universe was huge and my life was very tiny and inconsequential.

My daughter is an only child - her father is already dead, but she's grown up into a sensible and mature woman. She has a nice life, lots of friends and a decent, solvent, boyfriend now: hopefully she will have kids soon and that will take her mind off things when I peg it.
(The Italian side of her family have a history of early cardiovascular incidents in youngish adulthood and I'm slightly terrified about that - but at least I've faced the reality that it *might* happen - I sincerely hope not, obviously, as I absolutely dote on her)

What freaks me out is the possibility of loss of independence or capability when my body gives up on me, as I am still reasonably spritely for a fat old baggage.
I don't know how my body hasn't given me a lot more grief than it does, but somehow I manage to carry on in reasonable comfort. For now.
If it looks like I am going to die slowly and painfully or with immobility I plan to take up full time weed smoking again and doing A LOT of mindbending self-medication. So look out for more funky mic-drop moments by hellkat if that happens Laughing

My fabulous year of keto was going so well but has fallen by the wayside in a flurry of broken-hearted comfort eating.
Hence my heart is so scarred that I am pretty cynical about finding someone who I can trust to look after me in my old age.
Thus when I drop dead as a lonely old widow - I fully expect that the cats will eat my eyeballs and I will dissolve into the sofa in a langorous pile of mushy biochemistry.

So yeah ... v.Teffers, sorry/notsorry Mr. Green


Ocht dear. You need a cuddle. You can come visit me we can get wrecked together.

You are so lucky to have a daughter that is getting on well in life.

My daughters 30 in December, only see her about 3 times a year. She's a good girl that's done well for herself.

My son was on Keto diet for a while when he was about 4, Too much cream and bacon. Never worked as has nothing else he tried. 22 year old now and still fucked.

Anyway life is good, it is amazing. I think therefore I am.
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PostPosted: 07:56 - 23 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

Old boss who retired 3 years ago died this past weekend at 67 or 68. Stroke or heart attack. Very sudden sort of thing. He was overweight but not overly too much. He hated smoking and only ever had a half if we went for a drink. It can happen at any time people, fit, or unfit.
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PostPosted: 10:24 - 23 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

Indeed. I am a great believer in that when it is your time, it is your time, no matter what.
In view of that, I also believe that any health improvement measures we take are worthwhile for the single object of improving our quality of life as we age, not for prolonging it.
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PostPosted: 22:12 - 31 Aug 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

Skudd wrote:
Well I know I haven't much time left, was living on borrowed time in the first place. I have started accepting things, It is what it is. I don't take shit, but I let minor fucks slip by. Lyrics in songs become more meaningful and I go back to music I haven't listened to for years. I have tried to spend more time with the Grandchildren, hopefully they will remember me as they are only 3yrs and 6yrs. I'm starting to sort my crap out, throw crap away, it may have a meaning for me, but no one else will know. I'm hoping to last till I'm 60yrs, but in all honesty I doubt it this time. As I say, It is what it is.


Fuck me, sorry to hear that. Always in the area if you need anything (apart from this Monday to Wednesday)
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PostPosted: 23:01 - 10 Oct 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm 64 now. My hair went briefly grey, then turned to titanium blonde and I still have zero grey pubes. Also my eyesight has improved to 20/20 from about 18" out. Hearing tests put my hearing at the age of a 50-year old, though I think that's due to too much loud helmet music recently because a year ago the tests said it was of a 25-year old. So, fear of death? I'm now more fearful of still being around at 100 (in a wheelchair with somebody else wiping my arse). The old man reached 86, topped himself in the next room (knees gone from arthritis, wrists starting to go and he missed his wife), old dear 86 and just survived covid, still going. I've read and watched hundreds of NDE accounts and have absolutely zero doubt on the subject of consciousness surviving bodily death; I'm more concerned the 'other side' will be desperately boring. But so's life on this desperately limited rock. I live in a perpetual existential crisis about which I give zero fucks. All the physical comforts, toys and finances, own a luxury house surrounded by beautiful countryside in Japan, two bikes and a flash car, still in love with my wife, fit and healthy but fucking BORED! Lol. As the old man was fond of telling me, "Kiddo, you'll think yourself up your own arsehole if you're not careful".

It's a video-game, a simulation and we are metaphysically crippled. So, as Hellcat says, carpe diem and give no fucks (while counting one's blessings). Smile

Oh, gratuitous video plug. When I can no longer do this I'll know the writing's on the wall. Very Happy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyYnIWxK7tE&t=7s
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PostPosted: 22:04 - 12 Oct 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

struan80 wrote:

Ocht dear. You need a cuddle. You can come visit me we can get wrecked together.


Laughing oh how did I miss this? Shocked
I'm always good for a cuddle Wink

Well, I say that, but I fucked-off some idiot who took liberties a month or so ago, sent him packing at 3.30 am, didn't care about night buses but I had made it clear there were to be no no shenanigans and I hadn't invited his late night gyrations ... so he had to go.

I think Scotland is probably a bit far to go for them, on a regular basis though, dearie. Lovely though that sounds.
(although I live near London City Airport from which I've flown to Edinburgh before now, when I went to see MCW)

I do miss cuddles, intimacy of any sort really. Its been a while since the last of the consorts disappeared, its a fairly testosterone-free zone at hellkat towers these days. Laughing

... the cats havent eaten my eyeballs yet, so I must still be alive.
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PostPosted: 22:05 - 12 Oct 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:
I still have zero grey pubes


Dude, you made me think of your pubes Shocked Shocked Shocked

Laughing

You may think you have zero grey ones but they're probably round the back where you can't see them Laughing
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PostPosted: 19:23 - 20 Oct 2024    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have not checked out BCF in a long time, so I thought I would do so to help with boredom and came across this thread....

I turned 38 a few days ago and am currently stuck in hospital after a heart attack. 3 years ago l also ended up having emergency surgery on my spine (cauda equina syndrome).

My 30s have been a shit show even though l have always been healthy and physically active, never smoked not fat, good diet, etc. It's all down to shitty genetics.

Fu*k knows what 40+ is going to look like, but it sure looking like time is running out a lot sooner than l expected.
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