Another Boyfriend Question

bindy · Borekit Bruiser Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Karma :

Ok dears,

This is what Im going to do.

I will write him a letter listing all the things that I need/want ie. more romance and then ask him if he make me happy in the relationship by doing the things that I want. I will ask him to think about it and ring me once he knows.

From a male's perspective would this work?

From Bindy

killa · Won't Shut Up Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Karma :

Just prepare for the worst, thats all you can do with men.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

veeeffarr · Super Spammer Joined: 22 Jul 2004 Karma :

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Harold_Shand · World Chat Champion Joined: 07 Jun 2004 Karma :

I've just seen that you are from Australia.

Having spent a year over there, I am afraid that ALL blokes over there will be like this. Be thankful he is at least spending some of his Booze/T.A.B./Pokie time with you.
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Harold_Shand's theory might be the best explanation.

colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

msgander · Brolly Dolly Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Karma :

do I detect a slight bitterness towards women there colinwall? Hmmmmm, sounds like that could be the reason behind your negativity on being a nice loving soul..... Laughing

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bindy · Borekit Bruiser Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Karma :

Thanks for sticking up for me collinwall! The reason I write him letters and am writing him a letter is because its easier for him to take in, and if I talk to him hes less likely to remember or take in what I have said, because I talk a lot once I get going! I can do it via a letter if thats how I want to do it, I can also talk to him about my feelings but due to the reasons above this time I will not thank you very much. I hope it makes a difference anyway.

Oh yeah, and, Aussie guys are pretty hopeless in general.

colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

anders · Banned Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Karma :

If he doesnt want to see you in the University centre, I think he is embarrassed of you! I am sorry you need to confront him, bet you his mates don't know of you!
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SP2Rus · Two Stroke Sniffer Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Karma :

From what you are saying here, it seems he does what he wants, when he wants. You seem to be excluded from a large part of his life and really you are there at his convenience whenever he needs you to be. If your happy to come a poor second to all the other things in his life and you want to spend your life hoping he will change, then carry on with him. If however you want someone who treats you with respect, gives you all the things that say you want/need, then knock it on the head and move on. Maybe the letter will show him how serious you are about it, but if you have spoken about this many times before, I wouldnt hold your breath.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

i dont see why everyone thinks the girl should have it all her way ?
If she can get it all her way, good luck to her, but its not like he's unfairly depriving her of her right to have everything her way.
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distortion · Nearly there... Joined: 08 Mar 2005 Karma :

Keep a stash of XXXX at your place and im sure he'll wanna spend more time with ya Laughing

bindy · Borekit Bruiser Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Karma :

I am not wanting everything my way at all. I am not making excuses for him but he has been really busy with his degree which is fifty times harder than mine, with heaps of work. So Im understanding of that. He did all his homework yesterday while I was at work so he could come and see me straight after work and stayed with me all night, even though he had an early class and a test. So that made me feel a bit better. I gave him the letter and we agreed we are going to find something like a hobby to do together. I told him to take some time to conisder whether or not he can fit me in his life, and I really need to consider whether or not I can handle being with someone who is working a lot. I understand because Im at uni too but im a bludger and never do any work! I dont want people to think he is nasty and im a victim. I just want more I suppose.