Be more romantic.................

andrea · World Chat Champion Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Karma :

I actually agree with Colin1's first post Shocked

I've never been romantic in my life before now, and i've been married! It's all about finding the one for you and the right things to say just kinda come out without you even trying.

Love shouldn't have to be such hard work Smile

sickpup · Old Timer Joined: 21 Apr 2004 Karma :

Got to admit people I'm a bit disturbed by what I'm reading here.

Haven't any of you ever met someone and thought, I want to have babies with this person. I want to go to sleep at night holding this person in my arms, I want to wake up in the morning and watch them sleep across the pillows?

When a womans in love with you she'll do just about anything for you and when you love her back she won't need to. Its not about the things you do or the things you say.

Loves not hard work its a lovely thing. Like when i used to get home from the workshop and the one at the time used to pull off my overalls to jump my bones not caring that I was filthy and tired but just wanting to be close and feeling me. Having some food then cuddling up on the sofa to relax watching a film, no need to talk just be there to feel the other breathing. Its not the things you do or the things you say its the feeling you make each other feel without those things.

Don't any of you kick back with a nice whisky, a cigar and listen to some old soul music just to remind you why you get up in the morning. Dont you smile at that attractive person you see every day on the way to work just to get a smile back? So many good things in the world and so many bitter sounding people in this thread. I may not fix Harleys then go home and cook fabulous meals but I haven't forgotten how to smile at an attractive woamn just for the sheer joy of her smiling back or how to make a baby smile and laugh just for the feeling.

So many things in the world to make you happy, go find them.

But who the fuck wants to listen to me?

stevo as b4 · World Chat Champion Joined: 17 Jul 2003 Karma :

Well i suppose it makes for a nice film or story maybe?

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Paivi · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Karma :

Sorry mate, never happened to me. I think I scare men. Sad

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sickpup · Old Timer Joined: 21 Apr 2004 Karma :

stitch · Scooby Slapper Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Karma :

Sickpup is right,

women dont alwasy need the flowers or the gifts, but they do need the knowledge that a smile or a casual touch is enough.

If you can't sit in the same room at opposite ends in total silence and be comfortable with the fact that you dont have to talk to each other all the time then forget it.

Any woman would have that so called one upmanship over their girlfriends if they carry the knowledge that to somone they are the one, they are the other persons life. flowers can't compare to that.
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queen of string · World Chat Champion Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Karma :

What sickpup said.
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andrea · World Chat Champion Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Karma :

Couldn't agree more sickpup

oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

I've bought my fiancee to tears with words before, (those are tears of happiness bfore you lot start Laughing

) if you ask me, what to say comes with emotion, i just tried to put into words how she makes me feel, and no matter how good the words were they still didn't quite do it.

She makes me feel more alive, my soul and life force don't stay in my body but expand like an aura that surrounds me, makes me feel bigger than i am. The magnitude and the intensity of the love i feel dwarf every world, every sun, every universe. She fills my world, makes it better, she makes me breath, makes me live. Every second i spend with her makes me feel reborn, purer and better, its the best feeling i've ever experienced.

Which is why i asked her to marry me.

Apologies to anyone who found that too overwhelming.
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oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

She does say i have a way with words, but i think its more a way with emotion. Its true, if you want to impress, come from the heart and aim straight at your partners. Truth is i wouldn't be able to say anything without her to make me feel.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

we are talking about two different things here

Real romance that comes from the heart, and fake romance that might please the lady but if rumbled as fake she will be sad.

Obviously the ideal is to have someone you really love so its genuine, but if you cant have someone you really love, then (in the words of the song) "love the one your with"

In which case a bit of fakery can be ok if its subtle.

To be honest tho i think women hate fake romance more than no romance at all.

I used to work with a girl who worked in a flower shop. She saw so many guilty looking men buying flowers for their girlfriend (cheated maybe) that she swore that if ever a boyfriend of hers bought her flowers, she would dump him.

oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

Never be in the position to have to fake it. Like i said i love my girlfriend, everything i say is true.
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JonB · Afraid of Mileage Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Karma :

As I have come to realise recently, all a girl really needs is a bit of attention now and again. Take some time out from your daily lives and show your girl how much you appreciate her. I know as men we can get sucked into our own little worlds. My own little world being the internet. Get way too engrossed into what I am typing rather than listening to what my girl wants to say to me.

Simple things like doing the odd chore whilst she is out and getting home and getting that realising smile on her face and the warm hug of appreciation afterwards is definitely worth the effort of scrubbing round the toilet, pulling my own pubes off the rim of the toilet and chucking them in the bin. Even clearing those last few plates off the worktop and sticking them in the cupboard. Fair enough I might not clean them to the same exact standard as my girlfriend would do, but least I can hold my head up and say I have tried.

I don't think this makes me metro-sexual, maybe just slightly more appreciative of what efforts some girls in love will do to make their man happy. Perhaps being romantic to some people is having a lovely meal on an odd Friday night in a year, but why put in that extra special bit of effort, which costs way too much money, instead of like what Sickpup said, stick on a DVD in your cheap little flat and appreciate the luxuries in life, like a lumpy sofa and a 14" TV.
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oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

I'm guilty of idolising my girlfriend. I worry about going over the top, but shes my entire life so its hard to stop. I've noticed i get really paranoid if shes not as cheerful for some reason, even if she assures me shes perfectly fine Embarassed

She knows how much i love her though and she loves me, so all is good.
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sickpup · Old Timer Joined: 21 Apr 2004 Karma :

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Born2bVile · Spanner Monkey Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

I think I've bought Kel one lot of flowers in 9 years. Never done poetry, don't do bollox 'chat up lines'.

We've just got on from day one.

You either do, or you don't.

Cheers,

Byrnie.
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oddkid · Nitrous Nuisance Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Karma :

Have a hobby, sing and play giotar ina band and i race in the Formula 400's (in a privaterr yamaha team).
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