temper, temper......whats wrong with me?

gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

lately, ive found im losing my temper really quickly over all sorts of things, and i dont know why, its not like me, im a pretty laid back, cheerful jokey kinda guy.

for example, tonight i went to look at a van that i was hoping to buy, and found it was sold, which was disappointing but didnt bother me........but then on the way home, i got cut up by a black bird driving a big van, pulled right out in front of me, high beam and horn and she finally saw me and stopped, looking genuinely suprised that i was there. "what the fuck is this for??" i yelled pointing at her mirror [blank look] should have left it there, but i'd already snapped and kept on till she argued back, then i, er, attacked said mirror with my fist as she "obviously dont fucking need it" Embarassed

the ride home from there on was full of red mist and a few other arguments with drivers...

last weekend, i had a really really bad time with it , blowing up and getting aggressive and abusive with anyone at the slightest little thing.

i woke up the next morning with a feeling like someone had been standing on my chest all night Shocked

and im rather worried its something physical, as i know it sounds like emotional stress but i feel fine.

any ideas? im off to the docs tomorrow to see what they say........
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killa · Won't Shut Up Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Karma :

Right, you need to have some time off or fuck off somewhere for a few days.

Don't take anything the Doc say's will help....it won't.

Calm down...it's only a commercial.
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dainesefreak · World Chat Champion Joined: 04 Apr 2003 Karma :

It's male PMS mate! Shocked

Quick stuff some old news paper in your pants and lie down with a sloppy film and eat a tub of Häagen-Dazs whilst feeling sorry for yourself. You may also find yourself randomly shouting at anything that passes by and laughing at episodes of friends. Wink

gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

well i think your suggestions on here are at least as good as the docs Evil or Very Mad

he reckons i need anger management counciling Shocked

dismissed any physical cause, didnt examine me ( pulse, BP etc) despite there being family history (uncle died of a heart attack at 45 and grandad died of the same thing at 65)

im beginning to think the £400 for a Bupa MOT is better value than the half hour ive just wasted Evil or Very Mad

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FreshAL · Sir Crashalot Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Karma :

Can you get away from everything for a few days? Getting out and doing some physical exercise always helps me.

I ride my bike into the middle of nowhere, walk up a hill and feel like I've got above everything.

Sometimes there's stuff getting to me that I hadn't even realised. Gotta step back before it becomes obvious.

Don't try and force yourself to be calm without knowing why you're not. It'll build up and get worse

Stay cool

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Annabella · Like a person, only smaller Joined: 03 Feb 2002 Karma :

Sounds a bit of a silly question, but how much exercise are you getting?
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dainesefreak · World Chat Champion Joined: 04 Apr 2003 Karma :

As Siggi marches off towards Poland.

king kong · Nearly there... Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Karma :

Is there a girl in the background somewhere?

17-in-87 · Trackday Trickster Joined: 07 Feb 2006 Karma :

Have you increased/decreased consumption of alcohol/caffeine/nicotine/illicit substances recently?
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gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

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Hooky · Trackday Trickster Joined: 05 Feb 2004 Karma :

Gavin, go and have a damm good wank, forget the past (FA>ETC Laughing

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Wanking always works for me when I get stressy , I do it LOADS Thumbs Up

stinkwheel · Bovine Proctologist Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

A quote on the subject of anger from Terry Pratchett:

" Genuine anger was one of the worlds great creative forces. But you had to learn how to control it. That didn't mean you let it trickle away. It meant you dammed it, carefully, let it develop a working head, let it drown whole valleys of the mind and then, just when the whole structure was about to collapse, opened a tiny pipeline at the base and let the iron-hard stream of wrath power the turbines of revenge."

gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

all i can say stinkwheel is.......++?????++ Out of Cheese Error. Redo From Start. Laughing

and andy

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ColdInsomnia · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 Jun 2006 Karma :

Good lord, my karma took a nasty hit from the obscenities that I typed in the above post Shocked

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peppa pig · Scooby Slapper Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Karma :

Get some Bachs Rescue Remedy and try to get more excercise. I go to the gym a couple of times a week, not so much for the fitness side of it but because I find it really helps me to calm down.

gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

maybe the doc was right......ive just been cautioned for assault Embarassed

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gavin · World Chat Champion Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Karma :

well, yeah. but the adrenalin and endorphines are still flowing and making me feel a whole lot better! Laughing

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TheShaggyDA · Repost Police Joined: 14 Jun 2004 Karma :

Quick, crack one off and complete the set Thumbs Up

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