4 guys, 1 girl *not what you're thinking*

[killa]

Ok, ill try and keep this short. (names changed for privacy)

The four guys include me, as a four we are pretty close mates, go out partying, drinking. Share good times.
Rich meets a girl through Myspace who is local, they hook up a few times, he keeps it pretty quiet.
She is pretty hot by all accounts, a good laugh. They go into town together clubbing usually with her two best girlie pals.
We hear snippets about this and it does sound like she’s using Rich for money, maybe likes him as a mate, but is good to have around when out on the lash.

Fast forward to the present…..

She’s interested in meeting the rest of us, so we have hooked up a couple of times out on the town. We come to the conclusion she is a bit of tease, although nice to chat to, she has a bit of a dark side. Now Rich is pretty innocent, no proper relationships since school (if you can call them that) so not much experience in how they work. We warned him of her, and we have had arguments when out about her being a dick head as she does flirt with all of us. Thing is, he’s caught up in it, very much ‘into her’.
I came to this conclusion, from what I’ve heard. She likes him like a brother, a good laugh together when they’re out but she’s not interested. I’m single, so there’s nothing happening there. Jake and Lee knew she is a bit of a tease, but as they are single anything could happen I guess. And it has….

I think that Jake actually likes her mate, so he’s happy with what he’s doing. My best mate Lee, doesn’t like how she operates, and didn’t like how she was treating Rich. But they got drunk some weeks ago and they got between the sheets. Still very much into her I didn’t know what to do about it, my mate said that he’d mention something to Rich, he didn’t want to creep around.
Saturday night it all came out, she told Rich about it. Something’s were said about each other that might not have been called for.
Now he wasn’t going out with her, but likes her very much. He’s not sure what to think about it all, i.e.who to be pissed off with, if anyone…..he asks me.

So I wasn’t sure what to say, I mean they are all really good mates. A cock tease has been thrown in the mix and this has happened.

Ergh
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[fenton]

If i read that corrently you already warned him about her and her type. So tell him in these words, " i told you what she was like, i didnt wanna see you get screwed over but you ignored me/us and you got fucked over, shit happens!" well maybe not in them words, but words to them affect.

He shouldnt be pissed with his mate, shes a cock tease and they were both pissed. Plus its bro's before ho's. He's never gonna get with this bird so theres no point losing a mate over it as well.

Fent
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[JonB]

Friends before girls like her anyday.

Things have been done, but if you are all close mates, should be a bridge over troubled water if you ask me.

To be fair "Rich" obviously doesn't have much experience in the field and meeting a girl off myspace was a recipe for disaster anyway, just tell her to feck off and carry on having good times with your mates.
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[killa]

Yeah definatly, i did think of getting us all down the pub, lads like and just make sure they're all cool. It would be a shame for this to make things awkward.
I just didn't want to seem like im sticking up for Lee because he's my best mate.
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[fenton]

Yeah killa do that. Make sure you all get together and talk about it in a non gay manly way. The dude will soon get over it if hes that into her. When he realises shes a she devil.
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[hellkat]

*chooooo-chooooo*
(pulls the whistle)

That girl needs to pull a train with you guys.
Or see if she's up for a bukkake party.

Get her out of ALL your system at the same time, and get her the fuck out of your lives.


Yikes, she sounds like a nightmare.
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[fenton]

hellkat, that was dam funny. Just all get her pissed on seperate nights, bang her. Then get rid. Win win
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[killa]

No garry?

you guys are slipping...
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[hellkat]

The Garry is soooo 2007.

Pulling a train is the new black, for all your tiresome cocktease wench relationship woes

NB OBVIOUSLY I am NOT advocating rape, which is very bad form - most ungentlemanly behaviour. She has to AGREE to pulling the train, one at a time, or all together is her choice
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[killa]

Choo CHOO!!!
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[trevoriv]

pics?
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[LeeR]

Is her name Wendy, does she work in graphic design/I.T and live in 'Nam?
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[st3v3]

Been here with a mate myself before(in your kinda position), Just be there to help him get over it and you stick up for who you think deserves it, but be sympathetic to/at the others, you all need to get over this together and notch it down to experience.
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[killa]

Awww the poor kid, it's just got worse

Seems as though on Saturday, not everything came out....

Lee and this girl had talked and they thought it would be best to say something about what's going on.
Rich actually went round to Lee's sunday night to watch a film and have a beer. Lee called me the next day and said that was good of him to come over etc etc....

But this girl has just said that it was a drunken kiss

Brilliant, muggins here put his foot in it last night when he was asking me stuff, i thought they would have come clean that they've done the dirty. FFS

This is where it goes all Hollyoaks.
It's his birthday Friday, we had arranged a while back that we all go out, this girl included, into town. This is gonna be interesting.
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[Shay HTFC]

Go to the strip club and see if she follows.

IF she does and visibly enjoys it, then sir, you may have a mass orgy on your hands with that little minx when you all get back!

[hellkat]

Yes, Shay, quite.

[st3v3]

Yes Shay. But if she doesn't you all get pissed and sort it out there and then, it will be better and cleared by morning.
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[chris-red]

Pics? I could take her off your hands.
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[colin1]

I think Lee has been a bit disloyal. He knew Rich liked the girl, he didnt really like the girl himself, but he shagged her anyway.

It needs to be spellt out to Rich again, that this girl doesnt fancy him, and she is gonna be sleeping with other blokes so he should get used to it, but I dont think Lee needed to rub his nose in it by shagging her.

As a wigga MC might say

"Bro's before Ho's"
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[YUN]

ooh~er...sounds like a messy situation for defo.
Saturday is gonna be interesting for sure.

Hopefully "Rich" will get over it as he wasn't with her in the 1st place. Plus it was evident that she didn't like him in that sense.

"Lee" does sound pretty disloyal. But 'mistakes' can happen esp if alcohol related.
I don't think its worth throwing away a friendship...esp if the girl doesn't last. Sounds more like a passing phase.

[Visitor Q]

Haha, bros before hoes. Yeh right.

Male friendship is very shallow compared to female. Generally anyway. Tends to be more mediated by the loss of utility (wind up your friend and they go) or the fact they'll thump you (applies to all males, but friends get more touchy about treading on toes).

To be fair if she was hot, came onto me, and i was drunk and fancied it i doubt id think twice about the mate. Nor would most guys i garantee. If he planned it, then abit sly but meh, saves the other guy some hassle.

Had a girl recently i vaguely fancied (in a one night shit cunt sort of way), who had shagged one of my mates before. She sent me texts whinging about him not leaving her alone, and sent him texts about having to 'settle' for me.
Guess who's ignored by both of us. But if we werent close enough to go 'look what this demented cows sending me now' we wouldnt of known.
Snakes with tits my friends, snakes with tits.

At the end of the day naivety is no reason to alter your personality around people. She probably did it to be sly, the guy didn't. But just because a mate fancies a girl too doesn't mean its hands off. We don't do 'dibs', we're not women. You get in the game, you out compete the opposition and you get laid. OR you get in the game, make yourself an intellectual whore and tuck in for the long game. But implying that female friends are offlimits for fumbles is bizarre.

That probably makes no sense but my heads abit frazzled.
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[st3v3]

I get it and you just indirectly helped me in a weird way. Ta.
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[killa]

I don’t think Lee quite knew to what extent Rich liked her. He is treating this whole thing like a bit of a break up but I think this is due to inexperience. It’s tough because as much sound advice as I give, it doesn’t seem to stick in his mind too much. In terms of maintenance this girl would be a level 9, not having a serious relationship before means he’d get chewed up and spat out.

Lee has admitted he was blinded by pussy, I didn’t mention that he’d come out of a 5 year relationship about 4-5 months ago, I think he’s hitting on anything that is female right now.
This girl has said she’s not coming out tomorrow, which is a good thing I guess but now it will be because she’s fooled around with his mate who will be there. I wouldn’t want to be in his shoes.
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[konsoli]

"bros before hoes"

fuck the girl. (metaphorically, as in fuck her off).