need help with decision.

Blunet600 · Nearly there... Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Karma :

There is this girl (who i work with) that im not sure if I fancy/find attractive but i know she likes me. And i got drunk one night when we were clubbing and we ended up making out, but i was sooo drunk! she wasnt.
And now i dont know if i want anything to start, she would like for something to happen.
do i bite my tongue and go for it, or do i stick to my instinct and stop it now before she ends up hating me?
cheers.

TUG · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 May 2007 Karma :

am sure all the twats of life will be in soon, but depends what your like? do you want an easy shag an lead her on then break her down when u tell her u just wanted a quick'un? or do you tell her you dont feel the same?
Sup to you i know i would tell her i dont feel the same, but then again am not normal.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

normally i would say nail it, but if you work with her it could get tricky if things dont work out

depends on whether you have any other options instead of her

depends on how long you intend to stay in your job
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Dragonfly · Super Spammer Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Karma :

You work with her for a start so do you really want to fall out with her? if she wants something and you dont then dont lead her down the garden path because when it turns sour you will still have to look at each other in work and thats where nasty stuff begins to happen. Think with your brain not your cock. Thumbs Up

(unless she wants one no strings attached) Cool

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Blunet600 · Nearly there... Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Karma :

Erm nah she is the kinda girl who will want something or get to know me better before anything happens. There isnt really anyone else in the pipeline, but the fact i have to question and ask myself if i like her or see her in that way must mean i dont...right?

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WildGoose · White Van Man Joined: 21 Mar 2002 Karma :

If you aren't sure if you see anything in here (you shouldn't even need to ask this question to yourself), whats the point, tell her straight (nicely), and don't be a cock, or think like one.
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kitty kat · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jun 2007 Karma :

you sound as if you don't want a relationship with her, so next time you see her tell her you made a big mistake as you were drunk, but emphasize that you wish to remain on friendly terms as you enjoy her company as a friend.

Be honest with her, most people appreciate honesty.
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Irezumi aka Reuben · Carrot Top Joined: 28 Sep 2004 Karma :

If you work in an easy come easy go job (retail etc) then shag her. If you work with her in an office then dont!

Pretty simple.

ms51ves3 · Super Spammer Joined: 08 Jun 2007 Karma :

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Shag her at work Cool

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ZRX61 · Victor Meldrew Joined: 05 Nov 2003 Karma :

I must admit that I'm just a bit curious about why women end up hating you?