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Jai466
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PostPosted: 20:46 - 08 Nov 2008    Post subject: I want a dog! Reply with quote

Today, myself and my brother went to a dog show down in Earl Court...now I really want a dog... only problem is my Dad is nooo where agreeing for me to get one.

I've asked him why but he just says that, he dose not have to give me a reason why?

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Any advice please.
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PostPosted: 20:57 - 08 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get your own place, then you can do what you like.
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PostPosted: 20:58 - 08 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Shaggy D.A. wrote:
Get your own place, then you can do what you like.


lol I wish it was as easy as you said mate
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PostPosted: 22:07 - 08 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get a dog and tell him it'll act as a guard dog when you are out and slippers when you are in. (sitting on feet !)

I have a Springer and my house would be empty without him.
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PostPosted: 22:52 - 08 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

shellywoozle wrote:
Get a dog and tell him it'll act as a guard dog when you are out and slippers when you are in. (sitting on feet !)

I have a Springer and my house would be empty without him.


Already tired that...

I've got a 7 week staff coming over on Sun for about 6 hours we have to look after him... hopefully that will help.
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PostPosted: 00:49 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well it is your dad's house so ultimately if he doesn't want one there's not a lot you can do about it.
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PostPosted: 01:15 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Getting a dog is one of the best things you will ever do. Dad is probably worried that he will end up doing all the hard work, while you and your brother enjoy the nice stuff.

He is probably right, similar memories from my first dog, its not to be undertaken lightly. He pays the mortgage, so his decision goes unfortunately.

If you get your own place, as shaggy says, you can live by your own rules.
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PostPosted: 07:52 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

at 7 weeks that staff should still be with its mother for another week although there are always exceptions. as for owning a dog its a life time commitment, nothing iratates me more than people who want a dog then soon as the hard work begins, decide to get rid, having a well behaved dog takes time and effort, there are lots of ups and downs and costs involved, but if its what you want its very rewarding, we are currently looking after a friends staffordshire bull terrier for 12 months whilst she goes travelling personlly i could never just up sticks and leave my dogs for 12 months once you have a dog thats it as far as i am concerned you owe it to the dog to look after it not to shunt it from pilar to post, incidently we have 3 of our own stafordshire bull terriers, they are great dogs but are alot of work. think long and hard about what you actually want, do you have any plans to go travelling, uni? etc be honest with yourself, at the end of the day you have to do the right thing by the dog.
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PostPosted: 08:27 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

base wrote:
at 7 weeks that staff should still be with its mother for another week although there are always exceptions. as for owning a dog its a life time commitment, nothing iratates me more than people who want a dog then soon as the hard work begins, decide to get rid, having a well behaved dog takes time and effort, there are lots of ups and downs and costs involved, but if its what you want its very rewarding, we are currently looking after a friends staffordshire bull terrier for 12 months whilst she goes travelling personlly i could never just up sticks and leave my dogs for 12 months once you have a dog thats it as far as i am concerned you owe it to the dog to look after it not to shunt it from pilar to post, incidently we have 3 of our own stafordshire bull terriers, they are great dogs but are alot of work. think long and hard about what you actually want, do you have any plans to go travelling, uni? etc be honest with yourself, at the end of the day you have to do the right thing by the dog.

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PostPosted: 10:39 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

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at 7 weeks that staff should still be with its mother for another week although there are always exceptions. as for owning a dog its a life time commitment, nothing iratates me more than people who want a dog then soon as the hard work begins, decide to get rid, having a well behaved dog takes time and effort, there are lots of ups and downs and costs involved, but if its what you want its very rewarding, we are currently looking after a friends staffordshire bull terrier for 12 months whilst she goes travelling personlly i could never just up sticks and leave my dogs for 12 months once you have a dog thats it as far as i am concerned you owe it to the dog to look after it not to shunt it from pilar to post, incidently we have 3 of our own stafordshire bull terriers, they are great dogs but are alot of work. think long and hard about what you actually want, do you have any plans to go travelling, uni? etc be honest with yourself, at the end of the day you have to do the right thing by the dog.


Thanks

There are five member of the family in my house... Almost everyday my Gran and Dad are home... mums at work and myself and my brother are at school/work

My Dad goes for walks in the morning for 2 hours at 6:30am and can take the dog out in the morning...

I'm currently working and I'm home at 5 where my brother is home at 4... as soon as I get home and the staff has its dinner I was thinking of taking him for a walk in the evening.

Feeding the dog and keeping an eye can be done by my Dad and Gran.

I also planing to get it trainned, I have spoken to the Staffordshire club member and they and adviced me on where to go.

I totally agree there are hard work but I'm willing to put in the time and effort and money for them. Also I not only want it to be a dog I want the Dog to be part of the family in totally there will be 6 members.
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PostPosted: 11:12 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

And there's the rub. YOU want the dog, but you expect the others to do the caring.
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PostPosted: 11:19 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shaggy's right.
That's why your father doesn't want a dog.
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PostPosted: 13:56 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really cannot understand why people want dogs. They take so much looking after, they're noisy and they stink.

Get a cat. Classy, (relatively) maintenace and smell free, much better IMO.
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PostPosted: 18:20 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Its an interaction thing, a cat has nothing to offer short of falling asleep on your lap for a bit if the mood takes it. It leads its own life.

Your actions directly affect the life of the dog, for better or worse in some cases unfortunately. It's a pack animal, depends on your approval/interaction depending on where it percieves itself in the food chain. A well trained dog is a joy to have around, wouldn't be without a dog now I don't think.

Hilarity is guaranteed on a daily basis, due to their simple mindedness/stupidity. Definately a lift when you are feeling a bit down.

If you are one who is quite happy in their own company sometimes, like me, then I have found a dog is the ideal compliment to that.

Kids are far noiser than dogs by far Wink
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PostPosted: 19:05 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Damofo D.O.G. wrote:
I really cannot understand why people want dogs. They take so much looking after, they're noisy and they stink.

Get a cat. Classy, (relatively) maintenace and smell free, much better IMO.


Dogs are fantastic companions and tend to have more empathy. They are mobile and on the whole where you go, they go (well mine do), but I agree they are hard work if your life style doesn't fit easily. Until they get to about 3 or 4 years old they need a great deal of attention, after that it does get simpler. The barking thing is down to how you train them. I cannot abide a noisy dog, so mine are not allowed to bark incessantly, just once or twice as a warning. Smelly? I don't think mine are (possibly just different), but I think that's down to how you keep them (indoors, not kennelled)and what you feed them (dry food). Incidentally, they produce the white dog poo when given raw bones to chew Wink

I've just gotten 2 kittens and it would seem that you are right that cats are definitely easier to keep. However, the litter tray is pretty niffy in the morning and I'm not keen on giving them wet food as it really pongs Sick
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PostPosted: 19:09 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is Dear Auntie BCF. I was at least hoping for some brain damaged pre-pubescent to be avowing his undying love ("I'll respect it in the morning!") for their neighbours' red setter.

This forum is definitely going down hill Confused
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PostPosted: 20:46 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dogs are stupid.
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PostPosted: 22:46 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

base wrote:
at 7 weeks that staff should still be with its mother for another week although there are always exceptions.


I'd disagree, get it at 7 weeks and it's bang in the primary socialisation phase where everything it sees is new, exciting and regarded as friendly.

This effect is wearing off by 8 weeks and they start to view new things with distrust, more so as time goes on.

I also agree that dogs are smelly animals that wreck your house and take over your life.

Before any dog owners respond to my comment with self-riteous indignation:
1) The smell is just something you get used to, believe me, others notice.
2) Take a long, careful look at your house.
3) What did you do for a summer holiday this year?
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PostPosted: 23:01 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

stinkwheel wrote:
I also agree that dogs are smelly animals that wreck your house and take over your life.

Before any dog owners respond to my comment with self-riteous indignation:
1) The smell is just something you get used to, believe me, others notice.
2) Take a long, careful look at your house.
3) What did you do for a summer holiday this year?


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Add a few kids to the mix and its great fun... Confused
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PostPosted: 23:29 - 09 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dogs are inherently stupid and friendly, with an occasional swing into aggression for no particular reason. A bit like drunk chavs.

Cats are inherently clever and non-violent psycopathic (the real sense of the word, not the hollywood version). A bit like accomplished crime lords.

Cats suit me well. Dogs smell and dribble, cats let you know exactly where you stand. You provide food, warmth, and cuddles, but you are ultimately so far beneath them that you can't comprehend your worthlessness. If a cat pisses on your carpet its not because they had an accident, its because they can.

And they smell nice.
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PostPosted: 10:15 - 10 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tonka wrote:
I've just gotten 2 kittens and it would seem that you are right that cats are definitely easier to keep. However, the litter tray is pretty niffy in the morning and I'm not keen on giving them wet food as it really pongs Sick


Mingles (who has now figured out how to use the internet) stopped using his litter tray once he was allowed to go out, I kept him inside until he was 6 months old and had his injections.

The smell of the food didn't bother me because it was consumed within minutes.
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PostPosted: 10:48 - 10 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

stinkwheel wrote:
I also agree that dogs are smelly animals that wreck your house and take over your life.

Before any dog owners respond to my comment with self-riteous indignation:
1) The smell is just something you get used to, believe me, others notice.
2) Take a long, careful look at your house.
3) What did you do for a summer holiday this year?


Dog owner, but I don't do self-righteous indignation Wink

1) To a degree I confer on the smell thing, but hard flooring and leather furniture minimises this and I live on a farm, so smells outside house help to kill anyone's sense of smell long before they get through the front door!
2) Looks fine to me however, I'm home with them 24/7, so I wouldn't let them do any damage and they have their own outside dog room for when they are left alone. The house is infinitely less "damaged" than when I moved in after a family with 2 small children Shocked
3) Summer stuff is around and about home - camping with the dogs, beach etc. as Dorset is a great summer location. Last year autumn holiday Cyprus for a week, winter holiday 2 weeks in Caribbean sans pets as have family to housesit for me. Just about to book holiday overseas for December and snow holiday for Spring, Mum on standby Very Happy

Your (ones) life and home are what you make them and the pets are all an integral part of my life, else I wouldn't have got them. Not sure which came first to be honest, but it is essential for a happy life for all concerned and I think too few people take that into consideration, which to be fair in your career you will see all too often, Mr Stinkwheel Thumbs Up
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