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smegballs
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PostPosted: 03:55 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Death Reply with quote

How do you see the act of dying? To take pain etc out of the equation suppose you have a "disease". The disease will kill you painlessly once year from starting - just drop down dead with no indication etc....
The harmless symptom of the disease is blindingly obvious so you know exactly when you final year starts.

How would you react to your final year alive? Would you feel liberation and freedom, perhaps depression and fear?

Personally I think I would find it profoundly liberating to know I would die in a short timespan. Long and middle term problems would cease to exist and I would be free to live my life on a purely "now" basis. Fear of personal harm would diminish too as long term function isn't needed. I would hope to end my year totally destroyed and burnt out. You truly could "live" for a year.

I take the approach that a race engine should blow apart as it crosses the line.... If you are going to die at a preset time then there is no need to aim to live healthily beyond that timeframe, if it means that living healthily reduces the ability to embrace all the experiences that are offered.
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PostPosted: 11:13 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Personally I want to go out the way I came in but in a different position with a different woman.

And my general attitude to life is - you get one life so enjoy it from start to finish and better to die of summat you did than at someone elses hands.
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PostPosted: 11:25 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

The thing is, if you live your life like that for the last year, you're likely to be having a bloody good time, and when you've got a few days left you'll be desperate to enjoy evey second. When you've got a matter of hours left you'd realize how much you wanna keep living your perfect 1 year life and knowing that in eg. 34 minutes you'll drop dead I think would be a pretty bad feeling...
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PostPosted: 13:17 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

i think pessimists live a bit longer and serves them right .near the end only have regrets what you've done ,not what you hav'nt .
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PostPosted: 13:39 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

You would most likely experience a range of emotions, from deep despair one day to euphoria the next. It would be one hell of a ride, assuming that the disease wasn't dehabilitatory. I think what was said above about the panic in the last few days/hours would be true though.

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PostPosted: 13:41 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I discussed this with firends earlier and we came to the conclusion that its a bit of a life flipper.

Assuming he/she has the balls, thw lonely worker who has a life of boredom and monotony is now free. They can take all those drugs/ party really hard/ get a dream car/bike.... and enjoy a year of having their life totally changed around.

Rich people who already have "everything" benefit less as when finances are not an issue, the time limit would see them losing their families, lives they love etc etc. Obviously going on the basis that money is sadly the limiting factor in most peoples lives, not to say the rich people couldn't enjoy it of course.
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PostPosted: 16:26 - 02 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bittern wrote:
I discussed this with firends earlier and we came to the conclusion that its a bit of a life flipper.

Assuming he/she has the balls, thw lonely worker who has a life of boredom and monotony is now free. They can take all those drugs/ party really hard/ get a dream car/bike.... and enjoy a year of having their life totally changed around.



That fits me, in a way.

If I knew i'd be dead this time next year, i'd turn into a right monster.

I'd speak my mind when licencee's and customers take the pee, crash and torch the work car into head office and much, much more.....

Ooohhhh the fun I could have with no inhibitions.....
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PostPosted: 13:54 - 03 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would spend the entire year putting on a false pretence of enjoying it while panicking to the point of poo about my missus and daughter.

Very vain to imagine their lives would be made worse by me being taken from them but thats me.

I cant provide a lot but i do provide and the thought of not being able to do that would probably drive me to death before the year was up.

Then there would be the thoughts of her eventually getting another fella and my daughter looking to someone else as a provider/role model. It would drive me mad.

Although to be honest they would probably be better off.

Overall a horrible situation to comprehend.
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pa_broon74
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PostPosted: 14:28 - 03 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Work like crazy and save everything up till the final twenty four hours, then go wild.

Obviously check it isn't a leap year first though.

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PostPosted: 16:12 - 03 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

the_guvnor_1_uk wrote:

Very vain to imagine their lives would be made worse by me being taken from them but thats me.


It takes a while to get used to the idea that one is *not* irreplaceable.

(but I'd miss ya, LOL)

I can't personally imagine coping with life without mr hellkat, and the thought of Anita dying brings me out in goosebumps, I imagine I would simply have no purpose left in life.

And yet I know perfectly well that both Anita and mr hellkat would cope just fine after the initial shock of me being gone.





Its kind of comforting to realise that if I were to die ... they would survive.

Guess it would be kind of scary if you knew you only had a year. But the closer the "end of the year"* got I think the more outrageous I would become, more reckless ... or, quite possibly, knowing me, more insular and hermit-like.

Plus, I'd cry more. Cos I'd be nervous, even if they had reassured me it would not hurt, I would worry that it would.





*(but would you know EXACTLY the date? I don't think I'd like that, I wouldnt wanna know the date I was gonna die, I'd rather just know that it was vaguely a particular period of time)
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PostPosted: 17:07 - 03 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know for a fact, I'd write out that list of 'must do/see' and go and do it all. Leaving the things the doctor said I shouldn't do till the end...so if I did hurt myself badly, it wouldn't matter...because the end was nigh.

I would quite possibly go through my stuff and donate bits and bobs to various family members and close friends, and then boot it around the charities I believe in, and get rid of the rest.

But I couldn't possibly decide how I'd 'feel' because I know I go through all sorts of different emotions about different events as it is, I can never really know how I'll be. I still even surprise myself at my reactions!!
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