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Just one point... Marriage does not equal kids.
Everyone at my wifes work started goign on about how she'll be having kids next etc, and simply we dont want them.
I wouldnt mind the maternity leave tho.
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Understandable really.  |
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She is a temp for a reason . . . you can sack her with no obligation and owe her nothing.
Its just unfortunate for you that the job she is covering takes almost 1/2 a year to train someone in. . . . .
I don't know of any jobs that takes that long to traain someone in!Perhaps from a management point of view this should have been thought about a long time ago.
Managing people well is not easy, I'm sure. Sounds like she is taking the pee a bit with all the 'I feel sick', perhaps she does, but again your not obliged ot keep her.
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Work hard, earn lots, retire early and have years to yourself with plenty of money. Or do as you do, work basic wage jobs day to day to keep you going for your entire life, probably struggle for money most of the time but happy to spend your life sat in the pub growing a beer belly. Different folk, different ideas, different interests, you shouldn't be pitying anyone. |
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That would be sexist but I agree. You cannot have equality when people are different.
I think it should be best person for the best job. If you want to hire a man because he won't fuck off after lots of expensive training there should be nothing stopping you.
nb. not saying all women piss of to have sproggs or that men stay in jobs longer.
Edit didn't really address the point
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Well I suppose you could take it in the light that if it wasn't for women having babies, then there would be no up and coming workforce to join the ranks eventually, and let you retire at a reasonable age and start enjoying your life, rather than being stuck in a work - work cycle.  ____________________ Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter won't mind - Dr. Seuss |
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I think Hetzer hit the nail on the head and I've to agree with him. It's also not an easy situation to get out due to the reasons He described.
It's very easy to say "don't worry about it" but when something is programmed into you so deep, it becomes really difficult.
Spending a bit of a time with meditation, trying to think through the problems that're affecting you from different viewpoints might be useful sometimes. Once you realize and understand a few things (that many of your worries are not necessarily yours) it's easier to change - if you want to.  |
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Well, that's one way to slow population growth.
Stop maternity leave
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In all seriousness, it seems grossly unfair to me as a man that women are getting shoehorned in to higher jobs as part of a quota system, yet can then bugger off for a year at company expense... then come back at reduced hours.
Whereas blokes, to get to the same level, have to basically become a corporate bitch for the rest of their lives.
As G said, it can seriously tank small businesses. ____________________ China traffic/travel bike vid - When I make a sweeping statement, please add the word 'statistically' in to the sentence before you bitch...
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 16 years, 190 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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