Getting your own back

warped one · Banned Joined: 25 Dec 2007 Karma :

Right not sure on the full story but this what i've been told by my dad and sister.

As a few of you know my gran is very ill and will probably not make it through the rest of the year. The other night the district nurse was called out to my gran because she was feeling unwell and unsettled.

Eventually she was settled at 4am and the nurses went to leave. As they did one of them 'slammed' the car door apparently. And then later on the person living opposite went round to complain about it.

This is one of alot of silly cases that have build up, from cars been parked outside my grans house and they couldn't get their massive van round there.
The security light been to bright.

And well generally, my dad has said enough is enough, and if he goes to confront them again he will most likely kill them for their arrogant attitude, (Had to be pulled of the bloke once already)

So this is why i've been asked to sort something out.

So any suggestions?
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Cut yourself up into many tiny pieces and then post yourself piece by piece to someone who gives a shit.

That'll learn 'em.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

How about taking a step out and looking at it from their point of view.

They got woken in the middle of the night, maybe didnt get back to sleep afterwards, and had to go to work still tired.

They complained. They didnt necessarily know why. I guess it might be a little awkward asking a nurse on a future visit to close their car door quietly as they have come out in the middle of the night, but if you explain about your neighbour, they may not hold it against you.

I'd say getting revenge on someone who lives close by, is just going to come back and bite you, and I dont think your nan needs the stress of things escalating.
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I know someone who started grief with his neighbours. He moved after the petrol bombs started. You don't shit on your own doorstep. Karma

warped one · Banned Joined: 25 Dec 2007 Karma :

As has been said grief will only cause stress to my Gran.

I am against the idea of it and that was my first answer when asked.

I am totally up for gratuitous violence and been a general pain in the arse when the times need be.

But this is different and rather against my moral grounds for such stupidity. Like I said to my dad, "What about the problems towards Gran." His reply was, "I'll tell ****** and he'll tell her."

My dad is dead set about me and my mates causing havoc for these people, yet I can't see any real just cause for it. If things do escalate I will come in, but as of now my sister (usually a very calm person) is wanting to go brawling with the woman.

Anyway. Shall I stay out of it until it escalates or not?

A quiet word maybe in order just to tell them, before going to full scale means.

If I go for a quiet word what should I say, as when they go round it just causes problems for the nurses as she gets upset at them been there to sort her out because she knows it will cause problems for her mate who cares for her 24hrs.

It is a delicate position I am in. On 1 hand I want to help my dad and get revenge on his behalf for them causing his mum stress but on the other part of me knows what I do will go to far and cause her and my family more stress.

Common sense is clashing with family pride in this case.
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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

If you know its not a good idea, dont get involved. If you think you can stop your family from escalating things, do so.

Several people have agreed with me, that your nan may suffer from this escalation, so maybe point that out to your family.
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Marmalade · World Chat Champion Joined: 28 Apr 2009 Karma :

Move her out, then go back with a hand full of ashes from the barbeque, knock on the door, when woman answers, blow hand full of ashes in her face and say "that was my gran, the stress you caused has killed her, hope you are happy now"

And walk off sobbing

Before peeing yourself at the first corner, she'll feel like a total cnut for a while if they have any feelings
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schooleydoo · Trackday Trickster Joined: 31 Mar 2009 Karma :

Your gran, is she on your dads side?

If I found out my mum wasn't going to be around much longer, aside from being distraught, I would probably be looking to make her life as good as possible for the short time she has left. If she had neighbors that were being a pain in the arse, I would see that as a negative attribute. Your dad can't fight whatever is wrong with your gran, but he can fight everything else for her.

Sounds to me like he is struggling to come to terms with losing his mum. People react differently, I guess this is his way of coping with the oldest fear every child has. Give him a break Thumbs Up

If your gran is on your mums side.... your dad is just looking for a fight Laughing

colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

I agree, the heightened emotions at being about to lose someone, is escalating tempers I reckon.
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nick606 · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 Nov 2006 Karma :

what is wrong with you Laughing

your just causing problems for yourself when there isn't a problem. I think you and your grans neighbours are being incredibly soft. I can't believe their moaning about such little things and i can't believe your after revenge for it Neutral

Just do what ste said and leave it at that.

If you start shitting on peoples door steps or acting like a complete dickhead towards people you can expect stuff like happening to you too or worse. You might even find out your grans neighbour is related to some hardcase who ends up knocking fuck out of you. So its your call on that one. Thumbs Up

I think you need to grow up and actually start thinking about your options instead of just doing the stupidest ones and causing yourself unnecessary problems.

edit: actually ive just read your second post and it looks like your doing the right thing by staying out of it Laughing

so you can just ignore this post if you want Thumbs Up