Fathers Rights!

[R1stu]

Why dont we have any? And yes I am going to CAB as cant afford solicter.

I have good advice here I am just feeling low at the moment and I am alone and feeling crap! My wife walked out last night while I was taking my son for dinner. We came back and she had gone, taken her stuff.

I had to pop out for 30mins and left my son with his nanny. Time I got back she had come back and taken him from my care!

Now I had it in writing she was going to let me have him, I took time off work to make sure she didnt snatch him and now she has!

But of course being a women she gets all the rights, and I just get escorted home by the police when I try to bring him back to where he lives.

No he is staying with my uncle which Im not happy with as there are heavy smokers and I mean so bad I cant stay in the house longer then 10minutes, He is on regular medication including ketimin injections *(one arm ripped off) and lets just say I didnt want to live there when offered as that part my family isnt the place for my son!

And becaise she has a bit of paper (which she said she never use) That says I cant take him from her care without her permission! (Which I did have in writing) I get shaffted.

Yet she can walk in and remove him from my care with out my permission!

Ive lost my wife ok! but I cant lose my son. I have been through this once, not again! my mum in law now needs me to pay more rent now shes left. so I cant afford a solicter even more now.
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[Kwaks]

Been there and feel for you.

You do have rights, were you married when he was born or was he born after dec 03? If named on birth certificate both grant you parental rights.

From my reading you are staying with her mother whilst she stays with your uncle? seems a trange situation
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[P.addy]

Firstly, sorry to hear you are having such a bad time

You have rights, in fact my brother has custody of his child...which was granted over the mum (she is a few sandwiches short of a picnic though.)

I'm not sure how my brother went about it...think social services were the first people he called. Pretty sure if you are on the birth certificate, she cant just up and run with the kid.

Sorry I cant help you more...but I hope you resolve this

[Ol]

I know how you feel - these women folk are all fcuking mental really, despite first impressions.

cant really offer much advice, as i'm in a not too dissimilar position myself at the moment, however as above - the safety and happiness of you son has always got to come first, and if that means social services need to be called to show them that him being at your uncles isn't the best place for him then that should be first on the list i'd have thought IMO.

genuinely hope you get it sorted mate.
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[J0Al1]

Sorry to hear this. How awful for you.

Why did she change her mind?


Women don't have all the rights, far from. I think it is just more usual for the man to accept the kid lives with the mother therefore it is 'standard practise'.

Feel really sorry for guys in this situation, because it should be equal.. Tho I am not one for 50/50 - a kid needs one stable home.

You have to be strong and persistent...

[thx1138]

https://www.fnf.org.uk/

might also be able to get some advice from here, they have a help line which is open a few hours weekday evenings too.

[Skudd]

I really do feel for you.

Mine left two weeks before Xmas 5 years ago but left me with the kids and loads of debts to sort.
It has taken a few years but I'm now in receipt of the family allowance and have a roof over my head.
She has the kids at the weekend and I have the rest of the time.

It is the little things that get me. My son needed a passport for a school trip but I had to ask her for her signature to say he could have ne, but she wouldn't need mine if she had applied for it.

Also any benefits go in the females name first and the bloke has to fight for anything.

Everyone also thinks it is the blokes fault too.

There is light at the end of the tunnel though, just don't use the kids as a weapon, give a little and sometimes you will lose the odd battle, but I have won the war in the end and i hope you do too.
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[neatbik]

I really do feel for you mate.
I cant offer any advice, but i wish you luck.
It does get on my wick when women bang on about equality, but only, it seems, when it suits them....

Obviously not all women are like this, only the mental ones.

[Clanger]

I know lots of one parent families where the Dad has got the kids. It's a long uphill battle, but I suggest you get all the ammunition you can. Get Social Services involved, and then get yourself some legal aid.

Dig around for evidence, keep letters, texts etc. Get it from writing from the mother-in-law (you are living with her, so she must know the deal).

Sell stuff if you need to raise funds, material goods can be replaced further down the line...

https://www.childsupportlaws.co.uk/child-custody-rights.html
https://www.afccnet.org/
https://www.gingerbread.org.uk/

Good luck.
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[Skudd]

I'm just about to come up to the best time of the week................. when my kids come back home after being with their mother for the weekend.
i can't wait for all the clothes being left around loud music followed by shouting and the few arguments. Brilliant feeling.
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[Rogerborg]

You're too honest to fit her up for an indictable offence, right? Just checking.
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[pits]

You would feel better if you posted pictures of her tits for us so we can establish what type of vile harpy she is.
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