Troubling times

[shazza65]

My mother-in-law is ill, very ill. For the past 4 years she's been in hospital at about this time of year for pretty much the same thing, only this time, her family have been called back to the hospital (today) because her conditions seem to be just getting worse.
So my thoughts are with my partner and his family who are having to deal with the stresses of the situation, and here's hoping my second mom will come through this once again.
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Adios to Bandit and Ninja. Hello VFR.

[Boydy]

What's wrong with her?
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NSR 125

[flat spot]

[The Artist]

[JonB]

When did BCF become Facebook?

Hope she gets well soon, but FFS why the random thread?!
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[shazza65]

[The Artist]

[shazza65]

[Kwaks]

Well all the best to her, not easy for the family and I don't mind someone posting about things like this, beats stories of dragging riderless bikes around without noticing.

EDIT: also if a family member just needs to talk about it to help them through it, then is that not what auntie BCF is for?
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I AM NOT A FAST RIDER!!!!!!!!!

[JonB]

Depends we all have shit to deal with in life, (trust me, lots has gone on for me this year and is currently ongoing) but we keep it private.

An expectation for sympathy on a random forum for someone nobody knows is IMO strange.
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[Kwaks]

If posted under random etc I would agree, but in Auntie I believr it to be in the relevent place. Granted it is a post which you need to look beyond the words, reading it I see a family in distress and the post coming from a "in law" who isn't being fully acccepted into the grieving, instead being expected to be strong and supportive to the immediate family members. As such she needs a bit of outside support.

Or maybe I read too much into it
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Fallen Angel "Nae sniffing my seat now!!!!! "
www.cliqueycuntsmcc.co.uk
I AM NOT A FAST RIDER!!!!!!!!!

[shazza65]

I had no expectation for sympathy at all. I just needed to get it vented and out the way, much the same as all those soon-to-be excited motorcyclists posting thier future tests or those poor ones that post thier failings. Feeling much less anxiety since I did the post, therefore I can be a safer biker. Thanks for your support no matter what form it takes.
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Adios to Bandit and Ninja. Hello VFR.

[garth]

[Kwaks]

can you tell me why you disagree artist? Or will you just find something on youtube to copy and paste?
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Fallen Angel "Nae sniffing my seat now!!!!! "
www.cliqueycuntsmcc.co.uk
I AM NOT A FAST RIDER!!!!!!!!!

[The Artist]

[Kwaks]

[The Artist]

So me disagreeing with your post somehow displays my lack of empathy?

Do you think I will gain more as I age?

[Kwaks]

[shazza65]

[Kwaks]

Sorry to hear that. Wish you and the family the best
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Fallen Angel "Nae sniffing my seat now!!!!! "
www.cliqueycuntsmcc.co.uk
I AM NOT A FAST RIDER!!!!!!!!!

[Skudd]

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