Trust.

[connornrg]

How do you trust your girlfriend when she goes away, we are both 16 and she is never short of male attention but i can moderate it when shes with me, violence sometimes necessary. But anyway she's in turkey atm til friday..... how do i trust her?
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[Hetzer]

Refer to her Operating Manual?

You're both 16, you won't be growing old together. Think of it as training and don't be so hung-up on her. She'll do what she does, either way, regardless of how much worry you do or don't put into the mix.
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[thegubner]

Stop it.

[LordShaftesbu...]

Kill every human male in the world.

[Carl_steveo]

What's the point in worrying about this at 16? I know at that age you "love" her and you want to spend the rest of your life with her but trust me it's never going to happen. Like Hetzer says look at her as training. You'll need to go through 6 or 7 different girls before you find a real girlfriend. Then you can use the tramps you had before to analyse your relationship. Your current girlfriend is just statistics and data on a scatter graph of ballache that is women.
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[connornrg]

Meh, i do love her, but i know we wont last forever..... but still a nice honest relationship would be nice
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[Hetzer]

[potato]

She is probably thinking the same about you.
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[rumppole]

Right now, at this very moment in time, she's getting her back door blown open by Azmi the poolside waiter.
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[DrDonnyBrago]

I've been with the same girl since I was 17 (i.e. for 8 years), the basis of any long term relationship is trust - if you have reason to doubt her then it wont last and if you have to ask then you clearly don't trust her.

Girls will get attention from other blokes it's a part of life, let her do her thing and if she rises to it and fucks around then call it a day - simple.

[colin1]

I've no idea if she will be faithful. Some girls don't consider kissing cheating. I can't resist posting this educational pic again.
https://pics.netnuke.net/All%20Women%20Are%20Filthy%20Lying%20Whores.jpg
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[cornish]

In my last serious relationship (whilst we had other problems) we had it sorted in this area. We each trusted the other completely and i had no problems with him going to pubs, clubs etc without me and had no jip at all from him when i did the same. We lived at opposite ends of the country at the start of the relationship and had separate lives as a result for a fair time. We were both happy that if things were wrong we'd discuss it/end it rather than going behind each other's backs.

Also, worrying about someone cheating is ultimately pointless as no amount of stressing about it will stop it happening whether they're in another country or just out on an errand.

As has been said above, trust is the basis of a relationship so you need to think about how much you are concerned about this. If it's eating you up it could be that something is wrong in the relationship. So, if you can, try not to worry about it and have a think about whether or not this is a fleeting worry or a proper concern based on a deeper problem
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[kerr]

if shes with family, your probably fine, mates? shes goin to be getin it at least once, shes 16 and on holiday who cares?
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[WannaBeDude]

It's very good

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[Wilson12345]

Hope it isn't the cheeky little 16 year old blondie that I pounded last night from the seafront

Your name isn't Connor is it?
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[Polarbear]

you're 16 and having sex - DISGUSTING

In my day you had to have a chaperone till 21, then be engaged BEFORE you were allowed to hold hands and then ...........blah blah

On a politically correct note, if you haven't had sex with at least 1 female member of every different ethnic group, how can you make an informed decision about which you want for a long term relationship without being accused of being racist.

Get shagging
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[CaNsA]

Brain Trust?

https://images.wikia.com/scrubs/images/2/2d/BrainTrust.jpg

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[dogbot]

[J0Al1]

If you trust yourself, you should be able to trust others.

If your partner turns out to be a cheat, be glad you found out.

[Wilson12345]

[yuri2085]

You want an honest relationship yet you need to moderate her male contact with violence if necessary.
Unless she is scared of violence from you this kind of behaviour (unless merely mildly protective behaviour) will make her feel smothered and probably encourage her to cheat.
Also, I don't recommend making her scared of violence from you. If you do that tell people on here with your name and address and I'm sure hetzer or someone will come and be your friend.

Although agreeing with other comments earlier you will probably cheat first, and there is nothing you can do to stop her cheating while she is away apart from making her feel like she is trusted (although not invincible I guess...).