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Is this my behaviour or not?
Yes, its controlling
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 40%  [ 4 ]
No it is not controlling
20%
 20%  [ 2 ]
Just ungrateful
40%
 40%  [ 4 ]
Total Votes : 10

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Poecilotheria
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PostPosted: 13:39 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Behaviour survey Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 13:42 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pics of other half?

It's the only way we can give valid opinions.
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PostPosted: 13:47 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 13:54 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

( ) Yes, its comprehensible
(X) No it is not comprehensible
( ) Just nonsense
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PostPosted: 13:57 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Poecilotheria wrote:
My OH looks exactly like harley quinn in arkham knight only with red hair. Cant see how its relevant but there you go LOL

You definitely have to post pics now...
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PostPosted: 13:58 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Re: Behaviour survey Reply with quote

Poecilotheria wrote:

My partner ... claims I am controlling




She doesn't want you to do it so stop. Simple.


Personally it sounds OTT, but there is probably more to the story.

If it were me I'd stop doing anything that benefits her without being asked. If she questions anything sarcastically reply "I don't want to be controlling" But I'm petty and not very nice to live with.
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PostPosted: 14:03 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

My OH bought me an advanced motorcycle course for my birthday last year. If I'm completely honest I'd have
preferred wheelie school, if only she'd asked what I wanted. She probably thinks you think she's fat. In
a "get down the gym Jabba" kind of way. It doesn't matter if you even said or thought that to be what she took
from it as they are all completely mad and appearance obsessed.
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PostPosted: 14:07 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 14:09 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need a "typical woman being typical" option in your poll.Then I can vote.
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PostPosted: 14:14 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm with Chris-red on this one. Stop doing all the things, when she complains tell her she clearly didn't want you doing those things and be controlling.

It actually sounds like she is the manipulative and controlling one of your relationship.
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PostPosted: 14:33 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I keep reading this as "behaviour surgery"
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Edit: Sounds like she's a diva, luv.
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PostPosted: 15:15 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Write in option:

🔘 Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

The correct answer is: talk to the missus about it.
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PostPosted: 15:19 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bear in mind that this isn't just a loving thing. This isn't a massage or spa day or track day or fun day. It's basically booking exercise sessions.

What you've done, is tell your other half she's fat, and that you're going to book her into fat camp. That's not a good thing from my point of view.

Yoga may have other benefits, but at the moment the reason why it's so big with people is for it's supposed weight loss benefits.
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PostPosted: 15:33 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's impossible for random strangers on the internet to judge such a thing without knowing you both. Speak to her and sort it out between you.

If she does look like Harley Quinn then good effort! Hope she doesn't have the same personality though...
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PostPosted: 16:01 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

MarJay wrote:
What you've done, is tell your other half she's fat, and that you're going to book her into fat camp. That's not a good thing from my point of view.

I read it as "you'll be out of the house on the following evenings... don't go changing your plans now"

Except, run through Google Translate a few times.
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PostPosted: 16:14 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

If she is claiming to all and sundry and you yourself, that you are controlling, then in my experience, your relationship is going to end soon.

Buying gifts isn't controlling, telling her she cannot go is.

She is making excuses to make herself feel better about telling you it's over. She is telling people around her you are controlling, to get them onside for when she decides to drop the bomb on you.

My advice is to shit in her handbag and then tell her it's over.

Have some dignity.
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PostPosted: 16:18 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Poecilotheria wrote:
My OH looks exactly like harley quinn in arkham knight only with red hair.


If life has taught me anything, it's that anything with a rusty roof has to have a damp cellar. So you have to keep it well maintained.


She's fucking someone else
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PostPosted: 17:57 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes it's controlling. However not controlling of her, you are trying to control what others think of you.

As in, "look what a kind, generous bloke I am doing this thing (that she never even asked for) for my woman".

You intruded where she didn't want you to, she exercised (not a pun) her own choice but you over-rode that in order to elicit gratitude from her and draw admiration/envy from her friends.

I call narcissism. You're a narcissist. You need to work on yourself. Narcissism is a harmful and destructive condition, mainly for the people around you, but also for you.

Even your post is further evidence of narcissism because now you're asking strangers to tell you what a good guy you are. You only see yourself reflected in the reactions of others.

Sadly, science says there no cure, just better self-control on your part.

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PostPosted: 18:06 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

The fact that the word "controlling" has been mentioned indicates that there is reasonable grounds to assume you are.
What ever she is/however she behaves, she didn`t pick that word out of thin air did she?
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PostPosted: 19:31 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

a) you're an idiot
b) inb4 the divorce
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PostPosted: 20:07 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 20:11 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Suntan Sid wrote:
https://fishinguide.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/P1010050.jpg


Is that what you do Sid? Is it? ... Really?

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PostPosted: 20:17 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 20:23 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

Poecilotheria wrote:
As people know I do not care what people think

So you're asking what people think because...?
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PostPosted: 20:48 - 17 Feb 2017    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think you're autistic like me.


She probably doesn't like the autistic retard you are and is making excuses saying that you're controlling.

By the sounds of it you overreact anyway, you seem to be making a big deal over 2 yoga sessions. What are they? £2 per session?

From the sounds of it you made it a big deal as LIMITED SPACES and put pressure on her to go, maybe she doesn't really like the sessions but you're autistic so you don't understand. ThisIsBCF
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