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hellkat |
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hellkat Super Spammer
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Posted: 01:30 - 22 Oct 2017 Post subject: |
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I don't know what you mean.
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Sun Wukong |
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Sun Wukong World Chat Champion
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Jewlio Rides Again LLB World Chat Champion
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Nobby the Bastard Harley Gaydar
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nowhere.elysium The Pork Lord
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Sun Wukong |
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Sun Wukong World Chat Champion
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raak Spanner Monkey
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Joe wrote: | Sun Wukong wrote: | And we have another one. A possible future boss and currant course coordinator.
No attempt at preserving her boundaries, forces closeness and then feels that allows childish levels of pushiness. Controlling and coercive, possibly just fancies me and flirting funny, but not pleasant at all
Had just applied for a fairly cosy job,ultimately managed by her, and now think it would be unwise to accept it.
My fault somehow, but no idea how
She has gone above and beyond her direct duties for many people many times, and is a great person to have in your corner. I made sure to only show strength around her though, and have not accepted physical charity at all.
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Have you tried raisin this with her? |
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asta1 Scooby Slapper
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Sun Wukong |
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Sun Wukong World Chat Champion
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Yes, I have now sworn that I will accept no more charity from people.
And I just opt out of situations that bother me, like the women borderline harassing me. I opted out of a plan we'd made, and I'm not rushing to get some money she owes me back.
The risk she will appear out of nowhere at parties etc concerns me though... There are certain types of people, and I can feel the toxic attraction in them. It's hard to explain, but I really don't feel comfortable in the same room as her anymore. In just one evening's behaviour.
Trying to cut that feeling without full bridge burning has always been a challenge for me ____________________ Top cat
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Old Git Racing World Chat Champion
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Are you someone lacking in self confidence? You seem to be affected by everyone and anything.
You don't attract any more weirdos than anyone else, everybody gets them be they friends, workmates, family or whatever. You fundamentally can't change anyone to come around to your view of how they should be, the only thing you can change is how you deal with them.
I don't know you or how you should react, wouldn't presume to tell, but my experience is to judge people as a whole person, are they a twat or not? Moral or mental bullying is just fucked right off, If they are being a twat they get told and if they can't deal with that then I can't do anything about it but it won't get in my head.
Fundamentally if a person has decency I will get on with them. They can make mistakes, be weirdos or what. The others I don't even think about, lifes to short.
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M.C Super Spammer
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 6 years, 170 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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