Judged by actions…

[hellkat]

I don't know what you mean.



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Not nearly as interesting in real life.

[Sun Wukong]

I defintely attract weirdos.

And we live in an equal society, it borders on harassmen in theory. Gender roles reversed I'd expect knuckles wrapping, but yeh, we're just meant to enjoy the attention.

Ooh, femenine attention, I am so lucky.
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"Hard times lead to hard people. Hard people lead to good times. Good times lead to weak people. Weak people lead to hard times." Smegballs
"Oh and STE balloons would be one of the nicer things we would receive at the office, the amount of dog turd in jiffy bags is not funny." Jsmith86

[Jewlio Rides Again LLB]

[Nobby the Bastard]

Tits, gary, then find a new job when you get bored.
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[nowhere.elysium]

Could you not just ask them to dial back the behaviour a bit?
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[Sun Wukong]

[raak]

[asta1]

[Sun Wukong]

Yes, I have now sworn that I will accept no more charity from people.

And I just opt out of situations that bother me, like the women borderline harassing me. I opted out of a plan we'd made, and I'm not rushing to get some money she owes me back.

The risk she will appear out of nowhere at parties etc concerns me though... There are certain types of people, and I can feel the toxic attraction in them. It's hard to explain, but I really don't feel comfortable in the same room as her anymore. In just one evening's behaviour.

Trying to cut that feeling without full bridge burning has always been a challenge for me
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Top cat
"Hard times lead to hard people. Hard people lead to good times. Good times lead to weak people. Weak people lead to hard times." Smegballs
"Oh and STE balloons would be one of the nicer things we would receive at the office, the amount of dog turd in jiffy bags is not funny." Jsmith86

[Old Git Racing]

Are you someone lacking in self confidence? You seem to be affected by everyone and anything.
You don't attract any more weirdos than anyone else, everybody gets them be they friends, workmates, family or whatever. You fundamentally can't change anyone to come around to your view of how they should be, the only thing you can change is how you deal with them.
I don't know you or how you should react, wouldn't presume to tell, but my experience is to judge people as a whole person, are they a twat or not? Moral or mental bullying is just fucked right off, If they are being a twat they get told and if they can't deal with that then I can't do anything about it but it won't get in my head.
Fundamentally if a person has decency I will get on with them. They can make mistakes, be weirdos or what. The others I don't even think about, lifes to short.

OGR
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