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R1stu Shrek!
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Well it kicked off. She went off for 3 hours. Nipper has agreed we can keep all the money from the bike.
If we are lucky we might get 900. It a 2017 lexmoto Michigan. It's in fair condition, usual Chinese rust on downpipes and top fork tube.
I told her if things don't improve I will leave after holiday. I said after 1st instance of 5heft should not be using the tin, but she promised he won't do it again, and itw the easiest way to save change.
Its basically our spending money tin, I've decided to put my money now direct on a post office card. ____________________ Carbon closet tart! https://www.bikepics.com/members/r6stuk/02r6/
Stolen bike. 2000 R1: https://www.bikepics.com/members/r6stuk/00r1/
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R1stu wrote: |
I know they are not my kids, but we have been together 8 years now, so I think I can have some input. |
Where's the father? ____________________ Now: A100, GT250A, XJ598, FZ750
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One of my younger brothers is a bit like this. 26 years old, lived with parents forever and never pays rent/food money (even though he works full time). He has a good education and a chemistry degree, yet he's fucked around so much that he now works in a care home, literally cleaning old people's arses and feeding them pills.
He always has an excuse like he's saving up for something, or has a debt to pay elsewhere, etc etc, anything to make sure he continues getting everything for free at home. My dad hates it, but mum is a pushover. No idea why, me and my twin brother always got a proper bollocking if we were out of line.
He doesn't have a whiff of ADHD either, he's just a sociopathic cunt who'll take anything he can and never offers anything in return because, "Well if you didn't want to give/help/do anything for me then you shouldn't have done it in the first place."
He's perfected the art of manipulation, and knows exactly how to delegate blame onto other people so nothing ever appears to be his fault. The latest was, "Yeah mum and dad know I'm driving my car with no MOT", said in such a way as if to suggest that it'll be their fault if something bad happens.
He's the epitome of the millennial waster who thinks the world owes him everything.
Sorry, can't offer much advice, just thought I'd add a bit of a consolation story. I think a bit of honest tough love is the answer. My dad reckons he's gonna reach the tipping point soon, overrule my mum's soft touch policy and go into ultimate dad-rage mode and cause a massive family upset. |
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Lord Percy wrote: | One of my younger brothers is a bit like this. 26 years old, lived with parents forever and never pays rent/food money (even though he works full time). He has a good education and a chemistry degree, yet he's fucked around so much that he now works in a care home, literally cleaning old people's arses and feeding them pills.
He always has an excuse like he's saving up for something, or has a debt to pay elsewhere, etc etc, anything to make sure he continues getting everything for free at home. My dad hates it, but mum is a pushover. No idea why, me and my twin brother always got a proper bollocking if we were out of line.
He doesn't have a whiff of ADHD either, he's just a sociopathic cunt who'll take anything he can and never offers anything in return because, "Well if you didn't want to give/help/do anything for me then you shouldn't have done it in the first place."
He's perfected the art of manipulation, and knows exactly how to delegate blame onto other people so nothing ever appears to be his fault. The latest was, "Yeah mum and dad know I'm driving my car with no MOT", said in such a way as if to suggest that it'll be their fault if something bad happens.
He's the epitome of the millennial waster who thinks the world owes him everything.
Sorry, can't offer much advice, just thought I'd add a bit of a consolation story. I think a bit of honest tough love is the answer. My dad reckons he's gonna reach the tipping point soon, overrule my mum's soft touch policy and go into ultimate dad-rage mode and cause a massive family upset. |
Narcissistic is the psychological term. (From Greek)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/narcissism
Cannot be reconciled and better avoided or kept at arm's length. ____________________ Disclaimer: The comments above may be predicted text and not necessarily the opinion of MCN. |
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For those without ADHD, it can be best characterised as a state of perpetual boredom. You can't get interested in many things, you can't concentrate, so you're bored and a bit restless.
In children, this can show up as the kid being an annoying little shit. Combination of child energy levels and nothing to concentrate on, so bouncing around like a pinball instead.
Medication is simple and effective, using stimulants. The hyperactivity bit of reduces through teens into twenties, or gets more controllable as the brain develops. It is also common for people with the condition to have a few things they can absolutely focus on, with hours of uninterruptible concentration.
Which is a long winded way of saying, bollocks is it ADHD with that kid. That would be a valid excuse if he was 8. Now he's an adult with an excuse, and needs to learn that actions have consequences. |
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Someone does something naughty? Give it initials and call it an illness.
Now I'm sure there are people who really have whatever disorder the alphabet spaghetti has fallen in today but the vogue of having a medical reason for every transgression masks the IJAC a lot of the youth of today suffer from.
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 5 years, 106 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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