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Howling Terror |
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Posted: 16:44 - 03 Jan 2020 Post subject: |
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You'll have loads of opportunities to make great memories with your children.
Keep things in perspective. Better to have 2 stable homes.
Kids will remember if you snipe about this new fella. One day they'll remind you of how well you handled things...or not.
Your job is to see the children through this transition and whatever happens with the ex you'll always be their Dad.
Try not to spoil them but always have something planned to do with them. I tried lots of different activities with mine and only a few cost me extra money.
You'll be all reet. ____________________ Diabolical homemade music Bandcamp and Soundcloud
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Thanks both for the encouraging words - often difficult to see through the red mist. This will be the first time in over 2 years she's taken then them anywhere with him - he will be organizing no doubt as she is too crap. You're both making good sense but I will still despise him to my dying day. Brave face for the kids though eh? Got it.
I remain hopeful that one day her mask slips and she will be revealed as the needy, greedy, conniving, stroppy, wind-up, bitch that a few of us have already encountered.. ____________________ Now: A100, GT250A, XJ598, FZ750
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Howling Terror |
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Posted: 19:33 - 03 Jan 2020 Post subject: |
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The interesting part will come if you meet someone new.
Oh and before you give it 'Never ever again...I like masturbating'.
Life, as we know loves to throw a curve-ball when you least expect it. ____________________ Diabolical homemade music Bandcamp and Soundcloud
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Tracey Suntan-King World Chat Champion
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Posted: 20:44 - 03 Jan 2020 Post subject: |
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You've had some good advice here.
All I'd add, as a child of a broken home is that I remember my Dad (who was the cheater) being absolutely vile about my Mum. Telling us things we didnt even understand and generally being a right bastard about her when she was the innocent party!
Conversely, she never said a bad word about him despite the destruction his cheating wrought on her and us 4 kids, the eldest of which (me) was 12, the youngest , 4. Only once we were all well into adult hood, did she give her true opinions an airing*.
I have always admired her for this, it must have been so hard to button her lip for all those years.
So, yes to keeping a dignified silence, you can tell them more when they're grown up, then you'll have their eternal love and respect.
*I'll admit it was quite shocking, but at the same time thrilling, hearing my mother say the words "that c*nt" ____________________ Whether you think you can, or think you can't, you're probably right |
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It is kinda sad story if honestly. But if you want a professional oppinion, you should ask for help here https://onlinedivorcer.com/helpcenter. because all negotiations with her lawyer can lead to a dead end. Since he knows his job and will be able to turn the negotiations in the direction he needs. |
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A100man wrote: | Thanks both for the encouraging words - often difficult to see through the red mist. This will be the first time in over 2 years she's taken then them anywhere with him - he will be organizing no doubt as she is too crap. You're both making good sense but I will still despise him to my dying day. Brave face for the kids though eh? Got it.
I remain hopeful that one day her mask slips and she will be revealed as the needy, greedy, conniving, stroppy, wind-up, bitch that a few of us have already encountered.. |
It's been that long, staying angry for this length of time is doing nobody any good, make the best of what's left. move on, be happy, you're a long time dead !!.
When I split with my ex fiancee, granted no kids, but plenty of the other usual trappings, mortgage, home improvement loans etc, as far as I was concerned, really wasn't worth fighting over, within a wekk, was pretty much back to normal, no anger, no bitterness, just moved on. Maybe it helps that I'm an atheist, I know there's nothing once you've corked it, which, in many ways is quite reassuring. ____________________ Beware what photos you upload, or link to on here, especially if you have family members on them |
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 4 years, 105 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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