At what point do you say 'enough?'

[octane]

Recently, I've become pretty good acquaintances with a woman I work with, and we've been having some really good conversations.

Sex became a topic as it does, and it turns out, she lost her virginity to a guy in his late twenties at 15, and has slept with two guys at once.

Sex and these two things in particular came up again as the conversations continued, she asked if I'd slept with any girls in thier early teens, I said, 'no', I didn't think it was right, she seemed to accept my stand point, but not really understand.
She also asked, why a guy she liked and was seeing suddenly lost interest when he found out about her sleeping with two guys at once, I told her what I would think should my fiance tell me the same, it was a blunt but honest answer, and not a positive one.

She asked why it was I thought as I did.

I told her I was seeing a girl that had slept with 11 guys, and that I had a hard time dealing with it, she loked non-plussed, I then told her that was by the age of 16, having lost her virginity at 16, I asked what she thought of that, and she stayed silent and made a disgusted face, and I said "Yeh, exactly" "You slept with two guys at once, and you enjoyed it, so when are you gonna sleep with 3?" She said that was "too much", I said "Why? if 2, why not 3, if 3, why not 4? 5? What difference does it make?" she didn't see the sense in the reply, so I told her
"If I sleep with a girl of 15, why not 14? and if 14, why not 13? 12?"
"If I said to you I'd slept witha girl of 12 being way beyond that age, what would you think of me?"
At this point she broke down in tears, since I think she got why the guy would lose interest.

So the quesion is, how much is too much? How young, too young? Too many?

How can you define the difference between 'enough' and excess?

I'm not sure if I'm making the point clear, but I hope so, since I thought it raised some interesting moral questions.

Thoughts?

[greatmoorred]

I always find that a topic best left alone.
GF. " so rod, how many girls have you slept with "
ME. " ooh look, the goodyear blimp" and run off.

[conkyDonk]

Girls want to know these things to compare!!

Its like when we have found out how many people you have slept with we can mark you (so to speak)

Too little= inexperienced
Too many= Male slag


We have to find that happy medium.

Dont forget, girls are frowned upon for sleeping with too many blokes, but if a man does it, he's a 'stud'



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[Dragonfly]

thats a personal question that many have differant oppions on. i would not like to sleep with a man who had the entire city really it would turn me off. and yes a girl doing two men at once i would consider a slag (sorry but thats how we are here) most girls i know are very hard to get in the sack(sorry i didnt know what way to put that) even a man to do more than one girl at once would turn me. i am a bit old fashioned.
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[conkyDonk]

Oh yeah, could never do 2 men......
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[Dragonfly]

i respect myself to much to do stuff like that and dont know how anyone could do it. dont know any girls who would do stuff like that but have heard of them.

was a girl round this area who done about 6 men at once on her camara phone and everyone has it and all you have to do is ask and she will do anything! wtf? has she to respect or dignity?

does any girl here think thats ok?
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Muzza on Binge:
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[conkyDonk]

I would never do that.

Like you said, I have respect for myself!
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[Dragonfly]

to you conkydonk!

wonder why some men like it? and they wonder why they end up with nasty girls.
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[Whosthedaddy]

[Dragonfly]

lol
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[Whosthedaddy]

This you Dragonfly?

Grrrrrrrrr
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[greatmoorred]

Isnt two men and one girl techically a "halfsome" for the fellas ?

[Whosthedaddy]

[cqueen]

These girls are fuckin lairs!

''Brad Pitt AND George Cloney both tried to have their way with me last night, but I turned them down simply because they both wanted to have me at the same time''

Oh please!!

[Whosthedaddy]

[Katie]

No such thing as too little IMO. (Well when it comes to the amount of sexual partners anyway. )

I wouldn't regard a man who had slept with a very small amount of girls as inexperienced. He may just have been in a long term relationship, whatever the reasons, they would be his own and I'd respect that. A guy who claims to have slept with lots of girls, or has in fact slept with lots of girls, is a big turn off for me, I wouldn't be interested.

Also a girl who has slept with 2 men at once can't really have very much self respect to be honest, it's all very well in your fantasies guys but if you found out it was your Mrs doing it .....
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[palmer]

Slag.

[McGee]

I dont care I just want nookie now
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[palmer]

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[Visitor Q]

Blunt honesty works.

The current has an issue with alot of things, but generally saying 'yes ive had sex with a lot of women, some of them attractive, but NONE i would want to commit to... and i want to commit with you' seems to pacify her.

As long as you are sincere it doesnt matter what you say.
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