Is this normal?

Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Right straight to the point after 1 year and 1month Me & Girlfriend have split up, basically due to the fact i was sick of how un hospital her family have been to me over a year. And to prove a point her sister kicked off on me afterwards was the iceing on the cake.

I apperantly treat her like shit because made her cry a few times, and also because i apperantly followed her when she went on a night out which was after 3 months of going out.

But anyway you dont need to know all the gory details, her sister stuck her nose in and ruined our relationship.

But one thing is, why do i not feel any sorte of emotion, i felt upset last night, but that was probably due to the alcohol, im not even angry, in fact i just feel as if nothings happened.

So what do i do now im lost and havent got a clue what to do, my gf was really my social life.
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fast_tzr · World Chat Champion Joined: 02 Jul 2005 Karma :

Tbh mate I made my ex cry a few times, but all I did was apologise to her dad(though through her cos I'm a pussy) and her family didn't really treat me any different.
And really even if her family had hated me, I would have still gone out with her, so if you broke up with her because of it, sounds like the bond wasn't really there between you two anyway.
Nevermind, go out and get pissed with your mates Thumbs Up

Handsome · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 Dec 2005 Karma :

As you've been arguing for god knows how long you've resigned yourself to the fact that you were going to split up in the long run so your mind has readed itsself to the event of splitting up therefore no emotion.....If that makes sence.....

If she was your social life you were hanging on to closely to her...now that she's out of the picture you've got a few choices, go out and socialise with old mates or make new ones or get on your bike and think Bollocks to the lot of them or sit in the house and mope.....

If any of this sound/s/ed harsh it wasn't meant to be.....
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Well yeah i must of been ready for it, the love was there, it was fine between us i just was sick of the dirty looks, i stood there on my own with none of her family spoke to me while she was on and off the bar. I felt stupid, i must of looked stupid. I dont even know what id done to be treated like that and ignored.

And to be honest, it is for the best, now i can just cancel the holiday and probably use some of it for a new bike.

I'll miss her and maybe it will hit me in a few weeks, just feel weird at the moment.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Nah, she never listened to what i had to say or suggest to make it a better relationship, it always when i suggested something or didnt like something with her crying her eyes out saying " Well if your not happy just finish me" so last night i thought fuck it and did as she asked and finished her, and tears went to loud sobbing.

Fucking Mancunian head cases that family. Fuck um.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Nah i kinda of spelt it wrongs as in they had crap hopsitality for me, or in simple terms. They didnt make me feel welcome. Middle Finger

to the manc bastard scruffy twat family living in a shitty pub in a shitty crime ridden shit hole.
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ZRX61 · Victor Meldrew Joined: 05 Nov 2003 Karma :

Would the desired word here be "inhospitable"?

I think the problem you have with her familiy is that they probably see you more or less as you come across on BCF:
A directionless twat without the first damn clue about anything....

Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Get fucked dick head. Middle Finger

Ive said it many times and ill say it again, you dont have anything valid to say, fuck off.

Im young im still fucking learning, and its called getting advice.
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Irezumi aka Reuben · Carrot Top Joined: 28 Sep 2004 Karma :

However much you dislike the way in which ZRX gives his advice, it is nonetheless sound advice and you would be wise to take it on board more often.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Its the way its put across that annoys me. This although not to the same extent, is nearly as bad as losing my step Dad, its like theres a big gaping hole there and it hurts.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Not always the case, hell even my scally mate came round see i was alright. Had nothing but support from mates all day. i'll get over it. Have done in the past.
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Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

you feel no emotion because you've mentally preped for this for months recalling old BCF posts you seem to have thought it was inevitable anyway.

or you are one of those sociopaths who feel nothing a 2%er , which in WWI and WWII were the blokes that did all the fighting, (before military conditioning made soldiers ALL into killing machines),

anyway , fancy a game of pool? , rose n crown Sort of a little way off radcliffe moor road.

and so what? ,there is always tommorow.
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Aiiii i do actually fancy a game of pool, Rose and Crown just next to traffic lights?
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Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

hows about the one in Harwood? , near the morrisons on the iffy junction corner near the indian a bit down from the shell gas station
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Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Any will do me, you wanna meet me at that morrisons, because ill have to go to the cash machine first anyway. Oonly got £6 in an assortment of coins Laughing

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Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

yeah, you dont mind me popping in Chae's do you? I need some scran.
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Chavs, they're bloody everywhere Rolling Eyes

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