dating/knobbing collegues

[dransy]

Where i used to work you have a 3 month trial first , ive slept with 3 new starters and they all got sacked after 3 months
I started seeing one but that was the physco bitch.

But its well crap working with your partner because you gotta behave and you cant flirt with other people at work ?
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[camby]

well see I can cause she doesnt mind andddd she only works saturdays and sundays but im off sundays.

See I thought this one through
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[GSXR Tricky]

[LondonBiker]

[Itchy]

[spitfire]

When I moved to a new area the majority of my social life was built up around my work colleagues, only natural really as there were lots of us in our 20's and 30's who had just joined the company. We used to go out to bars and clubs etc, I began flirting with this woman who was attractive but was not normally my type. We began to text, call and MSN, one night I went around to hers for dinner, I never thought that anything would happen as we worked together but after a lot of wine we ended up in bed. The next Monday at work she was really cold towards me, I assumed this was because we worked together. Much later down the line after she had met someone else she told me that she regretted sleeping with me because she wanted a relationship and not a one night stand, she thought I was jack the lad and didn't want the same, the ironic truth was, that I was looking for a relationship as well.

The next year I met my current partner at work, she started as a temp, after a bit of a party at my place I cooked her some breakfast as she was giving me a lift to work.....Although I knew I should probably not do it, the next week I invited her around for dinner. After that we began dating in secret, eventually we had to tell everyone as people get suspicious (always being seen out together at lunch time etc, people talk), anyway my boss was OK about it, although he was worried as there were now 2 couples in his team. I don't know what the company policy is and to be honest I don't think there in much they can do legally anyway, human rights and all that.

Things did get tricky with us working together, sometimes the pressure and arguments were unbearable and I wondered if I had done the right thing, that said one of the reasons I stuck it out was I knew she was a good person and if things went wrong we could sort things as adults. Fortunately however, I moved into a different group and now we are in different buildings about a mile apart so to all intent and purpose we work for different companies, only crossing paths on the odd occasion and when we travel to and from work, what I would say however it that you need to be very sure your relationship is going somewhere if you do work together for any period of time and be prepared for one of you to move on asap.

A year ago she moved in....

Last week I asked her to marry me and she said yes

If I had never taken that risk I would have never met my future wife, but my advice is be prepared for a rough ride!

Cheers
Pete

[GSXR Tricky]

BLIMEY PETE,

You should put that story onto "My Song" on Radio 1. I'm in floods here.

Best of luck.
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