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| andrea |
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 andrea World Chat Champion
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 Posted: 02:11 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: Anyone ever feel alone? |
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Like you're in a room full of people who would describe themselves as your friends, but you feel alone all the same?
My friends all go to a place called the Litten Tree, and i used to love this place, but in the past year it doesn't fit me anymore, or maybe i dont fit "it" anymore, so i went in search of somewhere that would play Foo Fighters, and well, the only place that would play it was the Grapes but i had to sing karaoke, so DOA it was  |
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| LUXY DJ |
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 LUXY DJ World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 02:21 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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litten tree,yeah iv been there before (pub/clubby bar,or 2am bar)
aint my cuppa cha though prefer to go out BIG rather then a little 2am bar i sometimes come back from somewere @ 6am but still wana go out & about
they cant be your "MATES" then if yuo feel like that  ____________________ GSXR750
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| Mary Jane |
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| LUXY DJ |
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 LUXY DJ World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 03:30 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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man you 3 need to get some....FRIENDS  ____________________ GSXR750
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| Mary Jane |
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 Posted: 03:34 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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So you've never felt completely alone even when you're sitting with a group of people (people who you are friends with)? It doesn't happen all the time with me, but I do get these weird moments, like I'm watching everythng happen from the outside. |
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 LUXY DJ World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 03:42 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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will only thing i can think of,is if you've got stuff on your mind,etc & you kinda "involved" with them but you still not 100% but thats when somethings bothering me but alot of the time if/when i go out im good @ putting things aside & not letting it get me down or thinking about it & if its so bad that i keep thinking about it then i wont go out in 1st place
does that make sense yea? ____________________ GSXR750
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 Posted: 08:22 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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the story of my life ,
except for a short stay in Plymouth with a group I sort of connected with.
Alas there is no work in Plymouth for me hence I left, ____________________ Spain 2008France 2007Big one 2009 We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will. In the end, your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it is worth watching. |
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 Posted: 10:57 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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Your not alone andrea, never, I've been stalking you for the past 2 weeks.  |
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 andrea World Chat Champion
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 Posted: 11:09 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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Glad i'm not the only one...
They are my friends, one of them i live with and has been my friend since we were 11! And sometimes we do have a laugh. But sometimes i feel a million miles away from them like when they talk away about their "issues" which, honestly, arent problems at all.
And now my poorly head hurts  |
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Yeah, I can identify with that.
Do you think maybe you're just starting to grow apart from them? It happens, it's natural as people grow up and evolve/change.  ____________________ Dead nobodies in company cars... |
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 andrea World Chat Champion
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 Posted: 20:55 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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I feel exactly the same mary jane, i'm not really meant in either world.
And realninja, I have started going into different places with a different group of friends from my bike school. Going to see an iron maiden tribute tomorrow, and we sometimes go to the trough (rising sun) in walsall. But to be honest i'd rather be out on the bike.
I think i just wish that i felt differently and had a better time when i'm with the people ive been friends with for years, but i guess it happens to everyone when they grow up and grow apart.
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 paulthewitt World Chat Champion

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 Posted: 22:02 - 23 Aug 2006 Post subject: |
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i have wat people would describe as "friends". however, i quite often feel very alone. i know that 1 or 2 of them would have my back if i was in trouble (money, somewhere to stay, etc...) but i still feel very different from the majority of my friends.
i never kept in touch with any school friends really - after 3 years out of education i still speak to 2 of them. not too often either. I have always relied on my social group anyway as i went to school miles from where i live. But...
ive got to the age now where people have got married, gone to uni, and a huge amount has changed. sadly the changes havent been the type that has made me feel more welcome. it doesnt help that i am very different to a lot of the group. i like different music, ride a bike, have a different lifestyle. i was also brought up from a poor home (similar to yours mary jane - on a side note, no matter how hard it is, love your kid. even if they cant have x,y, or z. they will appreciate you when they are older, and what you did for them) where getting fed was hard work. most of my mates keep claiming poverty because they just spent their money on some armani or refuse to cut back on there luxuries like chocolate, their one a day yakults and other stupid things! so i am very different to them. i have felt bitterly lonely at times, despite having some true friends. i just get on with it....i think i need a girl or summit!
one thing to point out is a very true proverb i was taught once:
"Aquaintences are many but friends are few."
why on earth did i just poor out my heart to an internet forum!?
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Old Thread Alert!
The last post was made 19 years, 203 days ago. Instead of replying here, would creating a new thread be more useful? |
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