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Dragonfly
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PostPosted: 20:32 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Back stabbing bitches! (need advice) Reply with quote

OK here is the situation and i need to know what people would do in my situation.

Two girls i work with wanted me to cover their days off in my home town so i did and they said they where telling the boss they wanted me there all the time so they could have mentioned days off. They didnt!

they lied to my face right before a meeting which was about time sheet discrepancies, they said they said no such thing and are not giving me hours! Twisted Evil They told alot of lies basically.

now for the real backstabbing moment!

Since i mistrusted them i asked to see my time sheet as this girl had been accused of didling. So off to the office i went without them knowing and i was shocked! i worked 10 days for them while they had there days off , i even worked my days off as i need the monet and they said dont worry we will write yuor hours down as that was their job and they didnt! they said they did it all! said i only worked 1 day! Twisted Evil WTF? the boss believed me as i had it all wrote down and changed it all, they have been caught now. They troed to take my wages, steal from me! they were not even present yesterday and i done all the work and they said i wasnt there! Twisted Evil

They are now being investigated and possibly sacked or disaplined. The boss gave me a nice check and paid me rmore without my training wage which was nice of her as i was broke and wasnt suppose to get paid anyway till next month. they sent people down to pick all the files which one them girls asked me to fill in their names (which i didnt fill in at all as i knew something was up)

Thing is now i wanna txt them! should i let them know i know? ahould i call them thiefs and how dare they try and take my wages! ? Twisted Evil

few mates have said leave it and let the office deal with it but i will have to work withthemif they keep their jobs when i am coverin for them and i cant work with people like that. I plan on following it up and making sure something is done about it though.
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PostPosted: 20:42 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

My advice is to allow the correct diciplinary procedure to be followed before you stick your oar in, let your boss know how you feel about it as well perhaps but don't actually interfere as it could compromise the firm's position with regard to diciplinary action and might even get you in a difficult position as well.
Once it settles you still have the option of getting your own back, revenge is a dish best eaten cold etc and you will have the opportunity to carefully plan something appropriate Smile
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PostPosted: 20:45 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd let the boss handle it. Act as though nothing has happened, keep on maintaining your own records that you submit to your boss. Give 'em enough rope...
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PostPosted: 20:46 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really am bitting my lip here. I said to boss if they go i want a one of their jobs in my own town as i know all the clients and the run. I made sure they where doing something about it to as i believe they should be sacked, but i think they are digging up stuff on them now to have a case. They def have a case from me. they where told to give me the time sheet yesterday and they didnt thats because my name wasnt on it and they didnt want me to see it.

I was thinking of texting "opps you made a few errors on the time sheet but me and the bosses fixed it" but i think keep stuimp as they may not know yet they still havnt got their wages!

or bite my tongue for a bit i have to work with them on the weekend to!
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PostPosted: 20:49 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheShaggyDA wrote:
I'd let the boss handle it. Act as though nothing has happened, keep on maintaining your own records that you submit to your boss. Give 'em enough rope...


They moved me to another location where they make the time sheets and there is no messing about as its the city where they are and said least you know yuor hours will be right here. I kow why eithr of them have not texted me now and where off with me last night,. on the time sheets they even said i wasnt there last night and i was!

Is this not gross misconduct?
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PostPosted: 20:58 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Put on some ice-skates and kick them in the fanny Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 21:16 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would IMO stay out of it or the boss could come down on your aswell.
But other then that, just smack em one! Thumbs Up Theiving bastards
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PostPosted: 22:33 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let the channels at work deal with it first, then have your go.....

If you get involved personally the work may then discipline you which defies the point.....
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PostPosted: 22:55 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Humm good advice, will let them deal with it but i am still fuming that they done that to me.

I am a health care worker, liek a care assistant that calls round houses etc.
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PostPosted: 23:02 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know it's hard but don't let them see that it bothers you, if you do they'll gleam some sort of victory out of it.....

Bide your time and be smug in the fact that the work knows they're full of shit and they're dealing with it.....
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PostPosted: 23:39 - 19 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:


I am a health care worker, liek a care assistant that calls round houses etc.


In that case definately let it go through the correct channels first and do nothing at all to prejudice the process, keep careful records in the meantime though so you're able to quote chapter and verse at a later date if necessary.
nothing to stop you chalking their mobile numbers up in a few public toilets though offering dirty sex, or massage / escort services in the local free ads paper Wink just make sure it can't be traced back to you!
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PostPosted: 07:56 - 20 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since they moved me to another location because of them two liars, Its hard already for me to get there. There is gale force wind outside and its lashing down and the road there is long and dangerous on the bike and my parents believe it or not say no. I am expected to drive round till 1.30 in that and then come up at 8pm and drive round till about 11 or midnight and come back down the hazzordous roads. If they had of left me in my home town i could have gotten run around by dad or walked. I explained this was difficult on a bike but no one is listening there just worrying about cover.

So i am looking out the window and i really dont know what to do as even yesterday the wind near had me dead on them roads. Shocked I have applied for other jobs anyway .
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PostPosted: 10:55 - 20 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Punch their tits!!! Cool
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PostPosted: 11:07 - 20 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Adam_P wrote:
Punch their tits!!! Cool


good advice i mag just take your and joe's advice right now as i didnt go to work, prob would not even make it on the bike anyway. I am in full bitch form now. Twisted Evil
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PostPosted: 19:58 - 20 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let the boss sort it out in there way, after that done leave it they are gits that are after a fight take the cheeky ground and totaly ignore them. But i would get there mobile numbers put up on bog walls etc in as many places as you can
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PostPosted: 00:24 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
I am in full bitch form now. Twisted Evil


Ah stilettos, leather basque, fishnets and a riding crop. I can see it now you naughty little minx you:twisted:
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PostPosted: 10:33 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was in the shop last night and one of the walked in after me and was nice as pie to me and stil working away, her mum was in the car looking like she was having a full scale rant to her BF. So maybe the office are still investigating but they should have been suspended until they had it looked into at least. If they where trying to steal my wages what else where they at?
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PostPosted: 11:55 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dragonfly, don't let the bitches get to you. Evil or Very Mad
Keep smiling at them in a " I know something you don't " way.
Get really friendly with the boyfriends & that should cook their goose!! Laughing
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PostPosted: 12:10 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

All you need is a Tec-9 and a trenchcoat.
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PostPosted: 13:14 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not on at all.......they weren't mates or anything right?? As that's seriously harsh....

I think I'd get into one of their handbags steal their tampons, open carfully then coat with something like deep heat or bazooka gel or contact superglue, then slip back into the packet and carefully re-seal.....

they at least deserve a boot in the chuff.....
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PostPosted: 15:57 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ive heard a few people mention getting even with deep heat, i thought it was for pain relief?

Im guessing its unplesant then if used in such a manner?
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PostPosted: 18:59 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Better off rustling thru their bags and putting tiny pinpricks in their condoms (if they use them).
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PostPosted: 22:33 - 21 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

ah healthcare superb, please tell me you work for some major local healthcare trust.....if so you should have a union.....?

Dont say a word to these girls, at all, before, during or after, let your workplace deal with it through correct disciplinary procedure.

Smile sweetly if they do return, makes it all the harder for them, being nice is far easier than being nasty, far less effort and will really piss them off.

If your work place have not dealt with it and you get grief or hassle from these two, raise a grievance, you should have a company handbook etc explaining how to do this.

If they carry on diddling your hours, then again raise a formal grievance with your employer, if they dont deal with it satisfactorily raise another one (raise all grievances in writing, clearly stating your issues and what you want achieved) in that grievance meeting and they should have one if they know their stuff, mention the two words constructive dismissal and how they have not dealt with the problem......
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PostPosted: 01:14 - 22 Sep 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well looks like i am moving to the next stage as they are still working and i let it out to them as i said i was not covering them on saturday and sunday,i txt them to letthem know and they asked why, so i decided since i wasnt working there anymore that i would tell. Seems they sorted out the time sheets and they made it look like i was lying apparently. I have the txts which start off that they said they didnt take anytime off and then they admited to the days they took off Rolling Eyes

So there will be phone calls to the office in the morning as i thought something like this would happen and all i care is that i get my pay and it dosnt look good at the moment. Can i sue if they dont pay? even of them girls fabricated the time sheets?
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