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[dransy]

Hey all one of those months where everythings on top of me and draining me physically and mentally . I dont know why i just need some advise i dont know what to think.

Basically ive been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and she doesnt give me any attention (ie) if i cuddle her she just flops her arms around me like im not there . And if i ring her and shes with her mates she just talks to me like im her mate and talks bitchy to me , even when i go to kiss her its always a peck on the lips she wont give any passion or anything , i jsut dont know what to do, its killing me but im scared of finishing it . The thing is i dont know why im scared of finishing it.

Also been in the job im in for the past 2 years managers treat you like shit and enoughs enough so with my personally problems and crap i just walked out and im not going back .

Arrgghh i dunno i dont know if i need advise or a rant or owt
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Dump the bird and get a new job.

[Zimbo]

Seconded. A complete change should help out a fair bit. the bird doesn't really seem to care about you, and there are plenty out there who will, life's too short to waste it! A new job may well be great too, don't just walk out though, leave officially and get a reference.

[dransy]

They dont give references anyway lol, and maybe your right about the change
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[cheekie monkey]

Can you honestly see yourself staying with her if she is like that after just 9 months??

Your obviously not happy, think about yourself.

[Itchy]

that old righteous brothers song , you lost that lovin' feelin' (which I can karaoke to fantastically) , ie try patch it up one last try putting everything in , if its not meant to be look elsewhere.
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[Dragonfly]

Its not the same girl that you found out was doing someone else or have yuo a new bird?

anyway not much love there time to move on with her and get a new job, new start , new everything. Easier said than done sometimes.

https://www.bikechatforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=93317&highlight=
this was only like a month ago.
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[cheekie monkey]

I just think it shouldn't be like that after 9 months, it should be exciting and fun and from what you have said its the complete opposite.

If she has cheated get rid anyways, theres much nicer girls about. Then again you don't need one. Sort your job out and feel happy in yourself and it will all fall in to place after that.

[TheShaggyDA]

Turn gay and shack up with Palmer
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[froggeh]

Well. You have to dump her. I'd suggest a 3some first, you never know - Then dump her. The job probably wont feel so bad after that - In the end jobs are shit... unless you happen to have your hobby as your job, so I'd keep at it... In a few years it could be you in the managers job, and maybe you'll be nicer than the ones you hate.

[Itchy]

I just found a very old CD , Fat of the Land , take the tip from the song 'no good'
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[phantomtek]

Marc, stop being a nob. You know she wasn't any good for you when she slashed your tyres and held a knife to you, why did you stay with her?

Then she stopped you from coming on that rideout, I mean for me that was the final straw as it was a good run but come to your senses mate!

And then that other bird came along and she seems nice and she came and told me you are back with the crazy bint again and I was OMGWTFBBQ but it seems it was true.

Leave her before she ends up killing or maiming you. No bird is worth what she has done to you.

Honest.

Even a really fit one.

[msgander]

what he said...

And if your other half isnt showing you affection then forget it, its not much effort, it shouldnt even be an effort!

Dont bother with her.

game over.

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[SoulRider]

Dump her and get out some more. Dont waste your time with a girl that doesnt care, i was scared of ending with my ex even when i caught her cheating on me. Since ive been free as such ive realised and actually been able to see what she was doing to me all along, they say love is blind, but i dont think i ever really loved her or could have, must have just been the sex that stopped me seeing what she was doing. But anyway since i have been single i am so much happier, im not feeling like ive done something wrong, no more worry on my shoulders and i can live my life and dont have to tip toe around.

You will find someone else eventually, and with your career dont rush into it, take your time to consider your options and what you might want to do.
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[Marcg868]

Get rid of her, im not the best person to take advice from because im always moaning about my ex.

But ive had time to sit and think about it, whats point in me bothering and still loving her if she doesnt feel the same.

Get rid of start looking for a new job and bloody enjoy your life, having a girlfriend is not what lifes all about, more to life than women.
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[Trixie]

Sounds like you need an injection of self confidence.

Go for a new job and dump the girl. Everyone in a relationship deserves respect from their other half, and from what you've said it sounds like she's dissing you.

A new job will soon come along, providing you go out and look, and ditto a new girl, if that's what you want.
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[Susi]

Speaking from experience...

People who treat you like sh1t aren't worth it, but then again when you're in that type of relationship it doesn't matter what other people say to you because you'll only see and do what you want to. Eventually when things do reach a breaking point (and you find someone who is willing to make the effort) reality will kick in and you'll wonder why you ever bothered to begin with.

One of the best things you can do is break off any contact. If someone isn't healthy to be around then you don't want them to slowly be inching their way back in.
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[Marcg868]

[killa]

Ok, do I take it she is really a pretty girl, your pussy whipped and she wears the trousers?

It’s a horrible situation to be in, and TBH, I can say I’ve been there mate.

Think of it like this…..You haven’t got the balls to dump her……or have you?
Question it and see what result you get.

If the obvious doesn’t work i.e. dumping the twat you’re going out with, then I recommend treating her like shit, pretend in your head you’ve dumped her, so when she calls you (if she does) be nice but not overly, don’t make suggestions to go out and so on.
She will either start getting all soppy and try her hardest to get your loving back, or she’ll be as cold as ever and you’ll realise she is a bigger twat then you first thought.

Oh, and just to add, when you look back on this in 4-5 years, you’ll look like a dick head if you don’t sort it yourself.
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[Itchy]

Gring out the last of your evil passion on her wait a week and leave,

if she is a psycho don't shag n leave , you may get a rape allegation thrown at you , mud sticks , ITWC you'll go on remand get raped by various bubba types and have your life ruined.
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[Susi]

[Marcg868]

Never play mind games with a woman, we ( Men) will never ever win. Just if she is treating you like shit get rid straight away, lifes too short to be mugged about.

I had my moping about for my ex, but these last couple of days the tears and fucking pecking head saying she misses me but cant have a relationship with me got too much and i blew my top and told her to fuck off.

Just sack her off mate plenty of decent women out there.
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