What do you do...

[MementoMori]

... when your boyfriend flirts with other girls and generally treats them nicer than he does you?
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[MementoMori]

Actually, just read Hellkat's reply in Jon B's post. That quote, "the past is for losers, the future's for the brave" is awesome. Think I might take that on board now.
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[MementoMori]

Wow, I'm talking to myself on an internet forum!
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[Kaben]

I'll post so you dont feel too lonely.
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[phantomtek]

[Rookie]

Invite the girl over for a threesome, should be right up your alley.

[phantomtek]

[xlizx]

Tell him to treat you with some f**king respect, or f**k the hell off. Don't stand for anything you don't like. If he's being a nobber, just have it out with him. Playing games is time consuming, dont waste time on it because you'll just get hurt. Its natural to flirt a bit, but if he takes the piss then tell him to go for a long walk off a short pier.

[Josh]

Not that I have seen the situation in hand but take a step back and check yourself, I'm not saying you are anything like this but my ex was batshit crazy jealous, having any kind of conversation with another girl that involved smiling or any general nicities usually sent her into a sulk. That said, if he genuinely is paying way more attention to other girls just hold out on him, don't show him attention or affection, see how he likes it, if he doesn't seem bothered, to the future....
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[senna_f4]

[veeeffarr]

[cheekie monkey]

At the end of the day who is the person he is going home with at the end of the day ..................... you!

When you get home show him exactly why hes with you and nobody else

[Mrs Kickstart]

Tell him to stop it or fuck off. (maybe omit the first part)

Regards
Charlotte
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[WavyGravy]

If he's doing it infront of his mates then he's showing off - demonstrating that you dont own him.

If hes doing it when the two of you are supposed to be out together, and he knows it upsets you, then he's exploiting your insecurity.

either way hes acting like a prize berk! - should have grown out of that sort of thing in senior school
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[whackamole]

Double edged sword this one...

My tuppence ha'penny is that if you're being overly paranoid (like one of my ex's...please don't) if however you're not (I'm not saying that you are by the way) and you really think he's being out of order then TALK TO HIM.

All relationships at every level are fooked to high heaven if you can't and won't talk your problems (and in general). This is a fact I've learnt the hard way sadly.

And if he is a twat knock him on the head. Life's to short to spend it with the wrong person.

Hope you sort it
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Be nice.

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[MementoMori]

I have to admit, he's screwed up no less than 3 times in the past with other women so I do think there's probably an element of paranoia fuelling the fire though thanks to your comments, I can recognise that.

Having done my best to remove this paranoia and look at the situation from the outside, my conclusion is that he's still a giant tit.

I'll talk to him as soon as I get the chance, although I'm not going to see him till Wednesday and I prefer to talk to people face to face. He grows false balls when behind a computer monitor.

Thanks for all your replies. It has helped a lot and also cheered me up a bit too so er yeah... thankyou...
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[whackamole]

I misread that just then and thought you said "..grows a false beard...". That would have seriously put him in my dog house as we all know you can judge a man by the quality of his beard. Don't we now.

Kiddo if he's a dirty little bugger get it sorted. Not only are there plenty more fish in the sea (no use to you unless you jolly round in a boat all day working for captain birdseye) but there are also many many "right ones" out there (I don't believe in 'the one' (for a lengthy existential conversation around this topic you are all welcome to pm me) so don't ever feel tied to somebody unless they give you a world full of pleasure.

Mind how you go.
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CBR600F

[MementoMori]

Was gonna say I do love a bit of Phanny (cos admit it, everyone does love him) but thanks to Rookie, that's entirely inappropriate now!

Well. It was inappropriate anyway...

Excuse me sir, do you sell this spade in a large?
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[phantomtek]

[Cazza]

If you really have come to the conclusion that you're not just being paranoid and he is being an arse with other women then what you don't do is play games!
Been there, done that and caused months of misery because whether your winning or not you always feel like your losing
If it's been going on for a while and you really are unhappy - cut your losses. You're still young and when you find a bloke that makes you feel like you're the best thing in the world you'll wonder why you ever stayed with a knob who made you feel like shite!
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[Katie]

[MementoMori]

Thanks Katie. Yeah he has. Twice. The second time he didn't think I'd find out about.

Another thing, I hate to admit that I once was depressed for a while and he dumped me because I couldn't make him happy.

But these days, he seems to have grown up a bit so most of the time I'm reasonably happy. He can say the stupidest things but he doesn't realise. Maybe he does?

I'm not sure whether he's alright now and just a bit thick, or if he's playing this elaborate game with me to string me on.

Argh!
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[Robby]