Fucking help me!!!

[anders]

[Itchy]

the important thing to say to her is this

"its YOUR choice and I will respect that"


Then whatever happens in a couple years to you or her or the new guy , its not your fault since saying that absolves you of any responsibilities you had.



But whatever , forget about it , go for a ride clear your mind (works for me) and focus on your exams , as a partner maybe here and gone in a few months weeks or days , but exams and their repercussions can last a helluva long time , fuck this company I went for an interview for wanted to know my fucking GCSEs which were more than 10 years ago.[/b]
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[msgander]

[murphyD]

Be Strong,

Do something with your friends that'll cheer you up.

I want to send you a big hug.

Do well with those exams. Ok

xxx
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[Flip]

[Marcg868]

Get Exams passed
Get to Uni
And get Nobbing, and then perhaps after a while get with someone and start the process all over again.

Im dreading the day Me & GF split up, its gonna come , and its going to hurt like fuck, but you will get over it. Its life, your young just like me, just move on and go out with your mates and shit.

Iim just taking each day as they come and enjoying my gf, but i know that even tho we love eachother, her being 18 and me being 20 and this is her first serious relationship, it wont last forever. But now im just talking arse.

So good luck wi exams and get out with your mates and get nobbing
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[king kong]

Hey Jon take from a boring old 40 year old, you've got your whole life ahead of you and you will meet other girls and have relationships. Seems like she felt that you were to smart for her. Concentrate on your exams, knuckle down, work hard and play hard.

It seems worsr than it really is, believ me mate and goodluck with the As'.

[Andy C]

man thats a real sh*tter, i hate break ups as you feel like poo for ages!! Rebounds make it easier though

Like its been said your hopefully going to uni in 3/4 months, time of your life and you dont need a GF for that!! lots of sex to be had and good times

[andrea]

Hey Jon,

sorry to hear this hun, have some time apart and maybe you'll start to see things in a whole new light. Uni is about finding out who you are and experimenting, it wont neccessarily be a bad thing if you end up single. I know it'll hurt, I remember that feeling well (like my now ex husband deciding the grass was greener not long back - he regrets it now because i have a whole new life and he is the one in a relationship he's now decided he doesn't want to be in). It'll take time, but you'll be fine.

Andrea

[RI_HA]

Fuck her

woman are scum

[Flip]

Homo.

[RI_HA]

[hellkat]

*pats Jon on the head*

You sound like you need a nice cup of tea and a Rich Tea biscuit, love.

Now hop into bed, have a nice wank and I'll leave the tea by your bedroom door before I go out and get my own heart broken for about the 450th time.

It's called "Life", babe, and nobody ever said it was going to be a walk in the park.

Be good if it was.
But that's what builds character.

Think about hot chicks yet to be met, study hard, and try (difficult, I know!) not to let it get you down.

But sod off with the trial separation thing. Its for losers.
One of my best mates gave me the "The past is for losers, the future is for the brave" speech once, and its dead good. No point looking back, especially at your time of life. Save looking back till you have a rich, rewarding and riotously fun-filled life to look back on.

Just get on with your life and have a damn fine time doing it.
Its the best form of revenge. When she's barefoot and pregnant and rings you out of the blue in (x) years time, you'll be dead pleased to hear her wistfully sigh, "I shoulda stayed with you..."

... before you hang up on her

I wish for the best for you, kiddo.
I hope you do well in your exams

xx nice old aunty hellkat xx
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[DEN MONKEY]

Sorry to throw a spanner in the works here with an alternative concept but after doing a similar thing 2 months ago after talking about moving in and having kids I got the big A.

All of the advice above is spot on if you choose to follow it.

But and this is a big but.

If you still want her then fight for her (not litterally of course). Could be messy and you could end up right back where you are now.

I must admit I spent a lot of time and effort for it not to work out.
At least I can say to myself that there wasn't damned thing I could do better or differently that would have changed it.

In my mind that was enough. I gave it my best crack and it didn't work. So I have no regrets about my actions.

You make the choice. Just keep your cool and maintain your dignity what ever happens.

Best of luck to ya champ. It's a hard road but you'll make it. We always do.
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[djr]

Am I the only person that thought this was a "dear auntie bcf" pisst-take thread when they first read it :S ?

[colin1]

interesting quote from toby in your sig
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[djr]

[colin1]

yeah ok, put it in random, and put a link to it here, to avoid detracting from this thread
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[Phil_G]

[Adam_P]

I could give you the 'Have a beer and forget about her' speeches too Jon, but there's really only one thing you need to ask yourself and answer...


Does she have a fitter, younger sister??

Chin up mate, get the exams out of the way and then have plenty of fun.
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God is imaginary

[tribal_tiger]

I don't mean to sound harsh, but all the people I knew at uni, only one person made it all the way through in the same relationship.

And that was only because she didn't find out he'd been screwing around.

Long distance relationships are VERY hard, especially when you go off to a uni. (Not so bad if your at one close to home mind you)

Looking from the outside I'd say people are best off going to uni single and living it up, so to speak, at least for the first year. (The things i learnt... )

That said the only person who you can really listen to is yourself. If you got back with your g/f, could you honeslty say you could trust her when you were apart?

It's all down to you.

(P.s. If you do split up before uni, make sure you take the bike and a spare helmet to uni with you. Total fanny magnet!)
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