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Dragonfly
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PostPosted: 23:28 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: i am very annoyed! Reply with quote

i broke up with my prat bf over a week ago, he said he wanted to get back and that he would speak to me when he got back from scotland. i later on found out that night he wasnt in scotland he was at a mates drinking. so i was totally fed up with the lies and i went to find him and battered him, and yes he battered me to. but i am glad i done that cause he deserved it big time for all the crap he put me through. he dumped me every week and i feel for him again and again.

anyway i got all his stuff out and was then chucked out of my house cause i could not afford rent.

i am back in my parents but his lil sis is spreading round net that she is going to give me a kicking and everyone feels sorry for him! they wont even let me speak to him or anything.

of course i am concerned about him but he wasnt when he lied to me all time.

how the hell can i turn off?

i get asked out loads but i cant get that prick out of my head.

it dont help i have the flu now

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PostPosted: 23:38 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why the FUCK do you want to speak to him?

If he's such a lowlife walk away and get on with your life cos he's not worth all the shite you're going through.

Although to be honest you sound as bad as him. If you'd chucked him what the hell business of yours was it where he was? Rolling Eyes And how did that justify going to find him and getting physical with him? What did you think that would achieve? Rolling Eyes

You need to grow up. There are millions of men out there who will treat you better than this one, but not if you continue to show such a blatant lack of self-respect.
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PostPosted: 23:41 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

he chucked me and then we got back etc, only for him to stab me in back. so i lost the rag cause of the lying and thought i feel better if i battered him and i did.

i know there plenty of men out there. and i am not ugly so i can get a few lol.

though i think i will treat men like crap cause i am really bad at choosing them.

only thing that annoys me is his sis has a mob out for me now. and i dont fancy anotehr kicking especially when on the bike.
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PostPosted: 23:43 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why the hell do you want to be going out with someone a week after ending a relationship like that?

If I was you, I'd chill for a few months before I even thought about going out again.
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PostPosted: 23:47 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have already had a big party and got wee bit carried away with someone lol

i am just natrurally worried cause thats all i done is worry about him for years. he prob got the sorry vote somewhere. well i am miles away from him now. about 20 to be exact. Rolling Eyes

i hate being at my parents though. its a cool house with everything mine dont but its like a boxing ring in a train station! Sick
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PostPosted: 23:57 - 14 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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his lil sis is spreading round net that she is going to give me a kicking and everyone feels sorry for him! they wont even let me speak to him or anything.

So his little sister is making indirect threat's over the internet. She's as likely to do anything as I am to become a samaritan. Laughing

Also have to agree with Yam, youve split up with him and you think he's a back stabbing low life, so why do you want to speak to him?

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i have already had a big party and got wee bit carried away with someone lol

One of the advantages of being single is that should you wish to you can shag who you want.

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though i think i will treat men like crap cause i am really bad at choosing them.

Or just take thing's slowly with them. That way you can sort out the good from the bad before it get's too serious for your liking.
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PostPosted: 00:03 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i like your thinking reuben Smile

i def like being single but its crap being in parets for one reason, how the hell can i get a shag here?! lol
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PostPosted: 00:10 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Either don't or just don't do it on the kitchen table anymore, simple.

I found sticking something in my partner's mouth stopped her from making too much noise.... Laughing
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PostPosted: 00:16 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

my bro dont even bother coming home cause of this cause as soon as you put your foot on stairs they all up lol

i could invest in a lock and gags lol
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PostPosted: 00:22 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

How old are you?

My parent's accept that I will bring women home occasionally, even I do on very rare occasions. Why not speak to them and say your going to be dating again so may bring blokes home, simple.

Or go to the blokes place.

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i could invest in a lock and gags lol

You may restrict (pun intended) who you can sleep with then. Laughing
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PostPosted: 00:24 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

for some reason blokes all seem to live with there parents? i mean i moved out at 17 i am only back now again. and intend going once i have got on my feet and finish partying lol

they ok but i dont like them knowing. and they have seen my bad choises in past, so i get lectures then.
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PostPosted: 00:29 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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for some reason blokes all seem to live with there parents?

All my male mate's do live with their parent's actually. Laughing

Suppose waiting until you move out will be a good incentive to find a new place ASAP then. Very Happy
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PostPosted: 00:31 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

true, my bro 28 and still lives at home not with his woman Laughing
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PostPosted: 00:32 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me and my mates are all 20/21 so it isnt too bad. I'm not going to be living here the same time next year.
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PostPosted: 00:39 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
for some reason blokes all seem to live with there parents?


Free food, free ironing, free cleaning and if i leave my room in a mess for long enough i will come home one night and it will be clean Thumbs Up what more could a bloke want?(apart from the obvious Wink )

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PostPosted: 00:44 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

since i moved back home tonight i been thinking about that lol, means i got more money for me now Very Happy
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PostPosted: 00:51 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jesus, I moved 250 miles when I was 16 1/2 for a laugh.
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PostPosted: 06:40 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Same here when i was 17 i moved from one end of the country to another, was 300 miles away.

I only knew one person, no job only some clothes and bit of money.

All worked out nice in the end im back in manchester, got a kid and a good job.

Life has a funny way of working out!

Hope your situation improves and you get the love/respect you deserve.

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PostPosted: 08:42 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i woke this morning completly seathing with anger cause i am wondering what cra he told his ones and why i am up for a beating myself. i feel like rining his house. i bet he went into the mental home again and i am getting blamed on it. cause there no way a slap in the chops causes this sort of thing, cant speak to him and all people all concerned, and everyone being funny and beatings on the way???
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PostPosted: 09:07 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i woke this morning completly seathing with anger cause i am wondering what cra he told his ones and why i am up for a beating myself. i feel like rining his house. i bet he went into the mental home again and i am getting blamed on it. cause there no way a slap in the chops causes this sort of thing, cant speak to him and all people all concerned, and everyone being funny and beatings on the way???


<tounge in cheek>You are in N. Ireland... everything results in a beating there.</tounge in cheek>

Seriously though, walk away. Leave this guy, leave his family and just walk away, because contact will only prolong the drama.
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PostPosted: 09:13 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

when I left my previous ex, it was due to various things, but I'm glad I did, only regret not doing it sooner.

I moved back in with my folks, having only ever lived there, or with my then wife. I moved down here in '05 and was rentuing till I could be sure the job worked out, and now I've bought a nice 3bed house. Despite recent happenings (see my other thread) I know that underneath the immediate pain and upset, I'm happy to have made the choices I did.

You will get yourself together, you Will move out and find your feet again, and you will enjoy yourself. In a few/several months when you are back on your feet, you'll look back and wonder a: what all the fuss was about and b: why didnt you do it sooner.

at least that's what happened to me.

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PostPosted: 09:18 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i phoned his house this morn to see if his older sis wanted her matress back for her caravan and she was nice. she said he is in a bad way alot worse than most are letting on. yes i am worried about him and i said that thought it would be ok in while if we just apoligised for beating life out of each other as i wasnt proud of what i done and i dont think he was. i just want to clear bad air. she was appreciative of call though. but i leave it for a while he is alive barely anyway apparently.
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PostPosted: 09:33 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i phoned his house this morn to see if his older sis wanted her matress back for her caravan and she was nice. she said he is in a bad way alot worse than most are letting on. yes i am worried about him and i said that thought it would be ok in while if we just apoligised for beating life out of each other as i wasnt proud of what i done and i dont think he was. i just want to clear bad air. she was appreciative of call though. but i leave it for a while he is alive barely anyway apparently.


I don't know your exact situation, but I know my previous ex and I did fight, physically, and I don't think I'll ever get over that completely. I'm as upset with myself for letting it happen to me, as I am for retaliating, and I've also found myself being scared in later relationships when bad shit happened, in case I fouind myself doing it again. That sort of stuff DOES affect you.

When I finally left, after going back up north to collect my stuff, there was a degree of 'bad air' but I believe that trying to clear it with someone who, in my case, could be unreasoonable and vindictive, and was trying to hurt me, trying to clear that air would be pointless

Sometimes it's better to cut your losses, swallow any pride or stubborness, and just go.

principles can be expensive.

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PostPosted: 09:45 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

but angry unforging thoughts can be harmful, you need to release.etc

no bitter thoughts and move on sort of thing. but there will be cause my heart is broken.

why do i get men like this? do i not deserve the nice ones?
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PostPosted: 09:50 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
why do i get men like this? do i not deserve the nice ones?


possibly for the same reason I used to get the same sort of women.. because I didn't think I could do any better, so never TRIED to go beyond what I thought I could live with.

i was too accepting of a "this will do" situation, and didn't go out of my way early on in a relationship to make a decision yay or nay.

it's hard to be tough on yourself, and do something you know will hurt you, even tho staying does eventually hurt more.

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