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steveh
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PostPosted: 10:53 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

your heart only gets broken if you let it get broken, im sure you know already but you dont need him, hes not even worth thinking about, try your best to get him out of your system and start fresh. Why mentaly beat urself up over him, it wont help or change anything, it will just make you worse.

Your a good looking girl and youl get alot of wankers (no offence) its just finding a decent one, there are some out there belive it or not, Try a man in a suit with lots of molar Razz

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PostPosted: 10:56 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

it took me so long to open to him cause iw as scared of being hurt again and so was he. Sad i dont know if i can do it again though. ever.

but now am afraid of missing someone nice cause i dontknow how to act incase i get another loony
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PostPosted: 11:15 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
it took me so long to open to him cause iw as scared of being hurt again and so was he. Sad i dont know if i can do it again though. ever.

but now am afraid of missing someone nice cause i dontknow how to act incase i get another loony


don't look for someone. Just be yourself and someone will come along.

trust me.. someone will come along.

hey, you're a good looking girl, you'll be beating them off with a shitty stick, so can't imagine you'd be stuck for choice Very Happy

it's tougher being a guy, girls are (on average) so much more picky Wink

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PostPosted: 11:17 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i make bad choises, you shoud see my track record. i am not allowed to choose and the ones my mates pick are worse. why do some men not want to be mates? its not like us woman are saying we dont want you full stop we just wanna know you better etc
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PostPosted: 11:31 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i make bad choises, you shoud see my track record. i am not allowed to choose and the ones my mates pick are worse. why do some men not want to be mates? its not like us woman are saying we dont want you full stop we just wanna know you better etc


I'm fortunate in that i've not gone out looking for ym girlfriends, so (with a couple of exceptions) I've been friends before getting 'involved'. I doubt i could have a relationship with someone that isn't also friend first and foremost.

Don't get me wrong, If I see a pretty girl in a bar, I would still speak to her, and see if she's interested (if I had the bottle), but at the end of the day, I'd be looking for any potential friendship before anything else if I thought it was going to be anything more than some mutual fling.

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PostPosted: 11:37 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

pity there wasnt so many sleeze balls looking one thing in bars. they trow psychos when you turn them down here. they call you all names under sun if they dont get whatthey want. and the nice ones dont even bother anymore. its a shame, is why i dont boter with pubs and clubs.
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PostPosted: 14:27 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

I will give you the benefit of the doubt in the first post, I can see it is rushed and full of hate for that bloke.

You explained things like you’re a bit of dummy and you like it rough with man.
Asking people why it comes to blows when you go out with a mentally unstable bloke looks a bit silly.
It’s like watching your mate slowly but surely getting put under the thumb by a psycho bitch that wants to punch his face in after text message and reads his emails to get some sort of drama going because she gets bored of being nice.

If you are that independent and your parents aren’t in need of help, perhaps move over here, or move a town or two away. Either way you need to cut him out of your life and try out some bars where they aren’t all related and more than 4 women come in every night. You never know, you might find someone who is really good to you and generally nice but you find him boring.

Good luck with it all
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PostPosted: 14:54 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cant go throught life being scared of possibly getting hurt, if you did that, you wouldnt ride a bike, so yes there is a possibility youl meet a complete phsyco and there will be a repost, but after him, you may find a decent guy.
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PostPosted: 15:02 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
why do i get men like this? do i not deserve the nice ones?


Possibly because of:

dragonfly wrote:
i know there plenty of men out there. and i am not ugly so i can get a few


You need to raise your standards. 99% of blokes aren't looking for a partner, they're looking for a shag. Of that 99%, if they get one too easily, you're a slut, if you make them work too hard, you're a lezza.

Start being more choosy. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 15:22 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i dont want a partner for a while. i decided to be a bloke really and just go for shags. cause all girls want is relationships and men want opposite. so i do the same then. but then i would be called a ho for that would i not?
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PostPosted: 15:46 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
for some reason blokes all seem to live with there parents?


some blokes have parents that dont mind them bringing girls home

but its summer anyway, so you can find a nice field
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PostPosted: 15:59 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

You get some woman like on those chat shows, the blokes treat them like shit and beat them up but the woman still go back for more.

Wonder what goes on in there head sometimes.

Most blokes dont know how to treat a woman and are just after one thing.
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PostPosted: 16:24 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

some women are after that too, which is why they go back for more
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PostPosted: 17:28 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

Metal_Mickey wrote:
You are in N. Ireland...

Thank fuck for that! I thought I'd lost the ability to understand English for a while..
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PostPosted: 17:44 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

was i speaking in norn iron again? lol
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PostPosted: 18:16 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

ZRX61 wrote:
Thank fuck for that! I thought I'd lost the ability to understand English for a while..


Heh, was the exact same feeling that I had when I moved there Razz
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PostPosted: 18:28 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

even i cant understand them and i live here lol
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PostPosted: 18:42 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's stupid.

If you are a twat with a bad personality and treat women like shit they will come flocking. If you are a caring and generous boyfriend with a nice personality they don't want to know.

Female psychology.

I'll never fully understand it.
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PostPosted: 20:28 - 15 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i like to be respected, if you give it you should get it back. same with love, treat everyone as equal. but it never happens Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: 00:02 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i like to be respected, if you give it you should get it back. same with love, treat everyone as equal. but it never happens Crying or Very sad


I try and live by the adage "treat others as you expect to be treated yourself"

it usually works, except for the occasional hypocritical moment

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PostPosted: 04:05 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i like oral, if you give it you should get it back. but it never happens Crying or Very sad

Bummer... Shocked
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PostPosted: 10:08 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Female psychology.

I'll never fully understand it.


The female choice process improves with age.......we all like a bad boy when we are younger, we get hurt, we take it for years...then oneday when you've had a spell on your own you suddenly grow up and realise you dont want all that crap anymore....

All the things we like as youngsters suddenly dont seem important and in time we learn to choose more wisely.....(god I sound old!!) but it's true.

Mr Reliable and kind who we reject when we are younger because we want excitement etc etc, suddenly becomes what we want!

Also because of the crap you go through as younger women with the so called "bad boys" makes you appreciate Mr Considerate that much more...

So my dear, basically you are fucked! - you will continue the process of wanting what you "THINK" is excitement etc, until you have some time on your own and learn to respect yourself and enjoy your own company.

In time about 6 years judging from your age, your choices will become far more sensible and it will not be a concious thing, it just happens, your brain says ENOUGH!

By the way, what do you mean YOU DONT GET TO CHOOSE??!!! You are the one with whoever it is, its YOUR choice.......

For now have some time on your own, learn to love yourself, do what you want, when you want and sod everyone else.

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PostPosted: 12:12 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

i dont think thats very funny changing my words zrx61, normally i would but not like that. Evil or Very Mad
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PostPosted: 12:27 - 16 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
i dont think thats very funny changing my words zrx61, normally i would but not like that. Evil or Very Mad


took me a moment..

i actually scrolled thru to see if you said that before I realised he'd changed them :\

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PostPosted: 00:42 - 19 Jun 2006    Post subject: Reply with quote

found out why exs ones being all secretive. he is in hospital! apparetly getting part of his intestine removed. i know i had pain there but am thinking its my fault somehow, may explain sisters vendetta.

and silly me is worried. Rolling Eyes
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