The most harrowing thing i've ever witnessed...

Dark · World Chat Champion Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Karma :

At 3:20am 24th June my mum died in mine and my dads arms of cancer Crying or Very sad

My parents were happily married for 35 years, my pain is nothing in comparison to the pain in my dads eyes the moment his deepest love died in his arms

I hope no-one on here has to witness that ever, that moment will haunt me for the rest of my life Crying or Very sad

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McGee · O RLY? Joined: 24 Jun 2005 Karma :

Sorry to hear bro.
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Rookie · World Chat Champion Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Karma :

Sorry mate.

anders · Banned Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Karma :

Sorry mate, my heart goes out to you and the rest of your family.

Karma

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Kwaks · I'm not a fast rider Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Karma :

Be there for your dad m8
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Kam · Crazy Courier Joined: 03 Sep 2005 Karma :

Words escape me. Im very sorry for your and your dad's loss and hope all goes well Karma

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Rob-B · Trackday Trickster Joined: 21 May 2006 Karma :

Sorry man

Icey · World Chat Champion Joined: 18 Apr 2006 Karma :

Thoughts are with you Dark. Be safe and Take care! Karma

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killa · Won't Shut Up Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Karma :

Surprised you had the energy to even post mate, your Dad still has you mate, let him know how you feel when ever you feel like it.

Take it easy bro, PM me anytime for anything…..

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bindy · Borekit Bruiser Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Karma :

Sorry to hear that mate. Sad

Whosthedaddy · Super Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2005 Karma :

Sorry for you both.

Keep your chin up Thumbs Up

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G · The Voice of Reason Joined: 02 Feb 2002 Karma :

Not very nice for, my thoughts are with you.

In the future, hopefully you may take some comfort from the fact that she died surrounded people she loved, who loved her.

southlondoner · Scooby Slapper Joined: 14 Feb 2006 Karma :

Sorry to hear it.. Can't imagine losing a parent myself - you just gotta keep strong I suppose! Karma

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lozzypop1 · Certified MILF! Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Karma :

Sorry to hear about your loss...

They say that you're not a grown up until you lose a parent, Be there for each other and remember to tell one another that you love them regularly.
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msgander · Brolly Dolly Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Karma :

I am sorry to hear of your loss Dark.

Losing a parent is not something I have not experienced yet, but my mother recently turned 70 and obviously it is something that prays on my mind since my mum is my only parent.

Be there for your dad and he will be there for you, dont be scared to talk about it with each other, it will help, however painful and try in time to think of the good times and know that your mother is out of her pain and somewhere peaceful now.

If you find it hard to let go of your feelings and get them out, I song that helped me when I had a great loss some years ago was by Sarah Macloughlin, Angel.......pm me if you want me to send it to you.

It hurt like nothing at the time but over time it did help me and I began to hear it in a more positive peaceful way.

Take care of you and your dad and know that your mum had the two people she loved most there at the time when she needed you. This really does matter, so many people are alone these days and you can take comfort that you did not arrive too late. Harrowing though it is, in time you will be glad you were there.

[hugs}
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Katie · Spanner Monkey Joined: 17 Apr 2005 Karma :

I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you must be going through. My thoughts are with you and your family. Karma

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Dark · World Chat Champion Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Karma :

Thank you all for your kind words, you've no idea how much they are appreciated Karma

I'm starting to get my head round it now, which is good as it means i can be strong for my dad
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Annabella · Like a person, only smaller Joined: 03 Feb 2002 Karma :

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. I can't even begin to imagine how much it must hurt.

Our thoughts are with you and your dad.
Karma

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Misc · World Chat Champion Joined: 15 Aug 2005 Karma :

Sorry to hear that mate, thoughts are with you & the family.

Ork12 · Brolly Dolly Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Karma :

Sorry to hear about it mate, be strong! At least she was surrounded by the people who she loved most and those that loved her equally.
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Silver · World Chat Champion Joined: 03 Oct 2004 Karma :

Must be horrible for anyone to go through that. Hope you all pull together and come through it.

Handsome · World Chat Champion Joined: 30 Dec 2005 Karma :

Sorry to hear of your Loss Dark.....Thoughts are with you two and your Family.....

I lost my Dad when I was about to turn 18 to a Heart Attack at work he was only 47 ( 12 in the head, he Refused to grow up ).....That was 9 years ago this year, it gets Easier with time but I still think about him on a Daily basis and miss him Immensly.....

If you need any help/advice/comforting words Don't Hesitate to drop me a PM mate.....All the Best..... Thumbs Up

I Draw the line at Hugs though.....Unless they are Manly..... Whistle

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Phil_G · Traffic Copper Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Karma :

sincere sympathies to yourself and your family for the loss you have encountered. My thoughts are with you all.

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Crash125 · Trackday Trickster Joined: 29 Oct 2005 Karma :

Hey Dark I am realy sorry to hear about you mum, you will never forget her. My dad died infront of me when i was 9 that was 13 years ago now and i can still remeber it was if it was yesterday, so you have my deapest sympathy for you and your dad. Karma

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king kong · Nearly there... Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Karma :

Hi there Dark,

Firstly may I pass on my condolances to you and your family. I know how you feel because I lost my Dad in 2003 to cancer. He died peacefully in his sleep in a hospice. My family were by his bedside also.
3 years on the image has subsided and I remember him how he was in his prime.
Time does heel, things will be bad for a while, its only natural. Just take each day at a time. Your mum will always be there.

Take care,

Sean