Dilemma........... Do I? Dont I?

[Louise]

Well, I think im the only gay in the village on here
But im after advice on what you would do, wether your gay/bi/straight. (I know ill get some digs, so im waiting)

Basically, ive not been on the Gay scene for around 2-3 years.
This because of work, my son and other commitments.
One of the lot of mates I knew have invited me out to Gorgeous (Every gay fucker is there tonight)
I want to go, but its the thought of seeing everyone I knew those years ago, What if they 'blank' me, what if they dont wanna know.
Its so hard....... Bet yer thinking sad twat, but the gay scene is tricky.
How would you feel going to meet a bunch of mates you havnt seen for years not knowing if they will talk to you again.
Do I go, Or do i stay in drinking this bottle of champagne I accidentally opened........... ( and yes it was by accident)

Opinions please.

[bob a]

Go.

If they are mates they will speak to you.

If they dont they are not worth it.

[JodieWodie]

I would go out..

I mean, you are going to have to do it eventually,
unless you are planning on sitting in the house/not being gay/ not socialising in the gay set ever, ever again, for as long as you live

Fu*k people (in both senses of the words), get out there and have some fun !
You only live once

Just be you

Have a couple of those champagnes to get yourself all confidenced-up and bolsh on in there !!

JO xxx
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[Whosthedaddy]

Go out and enjoy yourself

It was hard to go to the 10 year school reunion as I have not seen or spoken to some of those people in years, literally. Once there you pick up exactly were you left off.
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[colin1]

try to meet someone you havent met b4, and if that doesnt work, hang around your old mates like a bad smell until they talk to you

as long as they drink, they probably will talk to you

ring one of your fireman work mates and ask for tips on chatting up girls in bars

better still turn up in your firewomans outfit-nice twist on women like firemen

wear a t shirt saying "wanna snog a fireperson ?"
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[Louise]

Well, what can I say.. you really made me happy with those comments Taxi is in 20 mins. and I still gotta do hair!!!!!!!
But im out... If they blank me, fuck them and fuck them heavyly!!!!!!!! (hehe champaine aint good lollol)
I will repost how the evening went tomorow.
Thanks for the replys guys!

[TOM M]

Just go out and have a good un
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[Dragonfly]

Glad you went as you could have missed a good night. You have to tell us how it went now.
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[Clanger]

I have mates I dont see for years n years, and all I have to do is walk back into their lives...and they accept me as though I never left! You dont have to be in people lives constantly to stay friends... if they do insist on this, then they arent really mates!!!
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[colin1]

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[Annabella]

Glad you went out - I hope you had a good time!
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[Louise]

I was a good night But, I didnt see half the people I knew which I found weird as there always there.
proper heaving the next day. Worked out I did 11 hours drinking. Not again

[BanditBitch]

[Louise]

Tonight ive been asked to go out again. This time its at the only gay club in Portsmouth (other was once a month gay night in another place)
Im 100% sure I will see everyone.
Well up for it, but depends how I feel after work. Tonight is the tester
Gotta take it easy tho, new bosses, not sure if they wanna see me drag myself in the door at 10am!

[LustyLew]

Go for it! Where's this pub?

Last time was down that way, they'd all shut down...

Oh, btw, there are a few of 'us' around!


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[bob a]

Go for it, keep us updated.

[Louise]

Its Marthas in town central.
They are slowly shutting the seafront clubs and moving them to town/guildhall. Will be easyer for the police in the long run. And I agree to that as well.
Also saves cab fares as I live 10 mins walk from them.

[Rob]

[Rob]

LOL
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[Louise]

lmao

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