Help needed with a girl...

chris-red · Have you considered a TDM? Joined: 21 Sep 2005 Karma :

I like this girl and she seems to like me but, I can't tell weather she just likes me as a mate or more. I want it to be more but I don't want to lose the friendship in the process of finding out. Any ideas? She seems to be the most amazing person I ever met I can't get her out of my fucking head.
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Well, you know what they say. If you want to save the world, you have to push a few old ladies down the stairs.
Skudd:- Perhaps she just thinks you are a window licker and is being nice just in case she becomes another Jill Dando.
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stinkwheel · Bovine Proctologist Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

Don't ask me, I only ever score accidentally when I'm pissed.

Whosthedaddy · Super Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2005 Karma :

Thats a toughie Thinking

How long have you known each other?

Do you work together?

Do you have mutual friends?

Any shared hobbies or past times?

Any 'moments' that could have been construde as something between you?
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ZRX61 · Victor Meldrew Joined: 05 Nov 2003 Karma :

Fuck her, if she screams rape you probably misread the signals. Thumbs Up

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chris-red · Have you considered a TDM? Joined: 21 Sep 2005 Karma :

Thats a toughie Thinking

How long have you known each other?
I met her at the start of summer but we only got to know each other in the past month

Do you work together? no

Do you have mutual friends? yes

Any shared hobbies or past times? yes (bikes and computers)

Any 'moments' that could have been construde as something between you? I don;t think so
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Well, you know what they say. If you want to save the world, you have to push a few old ladies down the stairs.
Skudd:- Perhaps she just thinks you are a window licker and is being nice just in case she becomes another Jill Dando.
WANTED:- Fujinon (Fuji) M42 (Screw on) lenses, let me know if you have anything.

stinkwheel · Bovine Proctologist Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

You could try looking at her body language. Extended eye contact, leaning forwards, touching face, touching elsewhere, sideways glances, fiddling with hair, mirroring your posture, adjusting your clothing/hair for you and sudden intense interest in their fingernails are often good signs.

Whosthedaddy · Super Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2005 Karma :

It would have been a lot harder if you have known her for years, but a month or so then just ask a couple of feeler questions with your mates and suck it in and ask her to go on a date.

Get in there my son Thumbs Up

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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

try flirting with her, compliments etc
half jokingly at first so anything is deniable
if she likes it, move from flirting to an excuse to touching her, read her palm, neck massage, any excuse

if she doesnt like it, it doesnt mean she doesnt like you, but you might need a different approach

if she enjoys this too go to kiss her.

she might like you, she might not, but you can get her to like you and this is better than just asking if she likes you

a simple way to get her to like you is get her to feel good and give her a thrill

so yeah, fuck her
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Shaun · Likes 'em bent Joined: 17 May 2003 Karma :

If you take any advice from colin, you're retarded.

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colin1 · Captain Safety Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Karma :

ok u give some advice then

im sure you are excellent at pulling women
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daveyb · Two Stroke Sniffer Joined: 10 Sep 2006 Karma :

The best thing to do is simple.

Be Honest and see what she say's

Dave

Marcg868 · World Chat Champion Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Karma :

Sick your cock in her hand ! Laughing

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numpty · Scooby Slapper Joined: 20 Jun 2006 Karma :

If youve only really started to get to know each other in the past month then there shouldnt be too much danger of you bein in the 'friend zone' (forgot which film that was off Razz

)

If you dont try then you'll never know.

Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

there is also the school of thought in once you got into the friend zone its wayy too late ,

if you are in the zone it comes to a nuclear situation ,

I did this on Friday , and come today she's not talking to me,
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tomkapsalis · Trackday Trickster Joined: 06 Jun 2006 Karma :

I was in this situation and I couldn't tell the girl how I felt. So I went out and got pissed on cider and told her how I felt, she felt the same way. Six weeks and still going strong Very Happy

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Whosthedaddy · Super Spammer Joined: 11 Dec 2005 Karma :

tomkapsalis · Trackday Trickster Joined: 06 Jun 2006 Karma :

My libido has slightly dropped. She's not the one saying 'I'm tired'.
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