Female troubles

[Pie-Roe]

Hi all, I'm not normally one to post about female troubles, or anything relating to non bike/job related but meh.

Right. To start off with THIS IS NOT A WHINY OMG SHE HATES ME BUT I WANT TO FUCK HER BADLY post.

I've been with my ladyfriend for about 5 months now. This is the second time we have been together, the first ending because she cheated on me and neglected to tell me. I'm 18 in a month, she was 18 about 3 months ago

Well I went to her school ball last night, made an effort to look good for her, was nice to her friends, didn't get too drunk etc etc.

So we go outside for a nice quiet smoke (this is myself and another chappy who is in the same position, 'outsider' not really knowing anyone) and there low and behold is my girl with 4 guys round her all laughing and joking with her back to me. Me, not really being the jealous type just continued what I was doing and assumed she knew I was there. The next moment one of the guys is trying to hug her and she suddenly realises I'm within sight. She comes over and was like 'don't worry, these are just friends, though one of them did try and get with me before, but I said no'

Fair enough, I thought that was the end of that and left it, (fair play to the guy, shes fit and he probably didn't know I was back on the scene) went back inside and continued the nicey nicey (incidently with some of the most boring people ever, think 'oooh you ride a motorcycle? Thats organ donor material, my dad said so ') and then the night came to a close. I had been informed previous we were going clubbing, so I tried to find her, and again she was talking to these guys and ignored me when I said hello.

The other chappy mentioned above is the bar manager at a pub en route to the club, so we stop in for a pint of good ole master brew, and low and behold the ladyfriend disapears once more. Resurfacing at the club again with these four guys. My friendly chappy from the bar points out to her nicely that she should probably spend some real time with me, as apposed to any other male in sight. She relents and decides that rubbing my back and giving me a kiss is 'I'm sorry but let me carry on' and continues.

So we get into the club, and there is the guy she cheated on me with the last time. Who has the nerve to say hello and talk to me like I'm a friend of his. What sort of cunt does that anyway? I loudly pointed out that I thought some scum were talking and that they should be removed from my presence via a swift fist to the nose.

She then gets pissed off at this, makes some sort of rude remark about me being a bastard and then gets angry when I tell her it's not my fault that her and her friends are pretty much a pack of (albeit hot) whores, who are out for anything they can get.

I may have lost my temper after this and told her to stick it all and go fuck whatever skank will have her (bad move I'm aware) and then this leads to her crying about how I have no trust in her.

I don't have any trust in her, I don't see why I should. Her behaviour doesn't prove shes changed at all.

So people of BCF. What would you do, ditch, keep, beat, ruin?

And am I in the wrong? overreacting completly to a little thing?

this isn't good for my health or sleep


Pyro
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[MaybeGuy]

do as i do...

girlfriend cheats?

get back with her and cheat twice!

in all honesty, fuck her. she sounds like a right stuck up slapper (sure its your girlfriend, but im not sorry, its a personal observation). sounds like this other guy you were talking to is your new pulling partner, go and be appauling.

get chlamydia or something, then pass it onto her, dont tell her, get sorted for the STI then laugh a few years later when she's settled down with someone, but is now infertile because of the STI.
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Kickstart wrote: Hi I tend to agree with Matt. All the best Keith

[Handsome]

Voice of experience here...

Pack her in and move on mate, she wont change as she sees nothing wrong in what she does, you don't trust her so there are no grounds for a good relationship, move on and don't contact her as she'll ultimately end up doing your swede in...
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[CaNsA]

Camelpunch, then leave

[Harold_Shand]

Aye, I've had one of these. She was fit as fuck and so I put up with it, put up with it, put up with it... This was 14-17 years old. Got to a point where I was fucking anything and so was she and we was both trying to keep it quiet because we loved each other

Completley ridiculous.

Despite what some people might think, there are plenty of good women out there. But that's the point... GIRLS are dumb sluts, WOMEN are as cool as fuck.

Mate, you don't need shit in your life. It's hard, I remember well, but this is your life, you are number 1, you are not a bit-part actor in this girls life, the world is here for you. Time to cut the ballast, and with respect, leave your teenage years behind.
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[MaybeGuy]

+1 for the pics
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Blue_SV650S wrote: it was a sh1te wheelie, but it proves that he can get it up in 3rd and can do angles. In summery, mattsprattuk is a gobby little sh1tebag, dopehead tw4t, but sadly for all of us, he probably isn't THAT full of sh1te!!
Kickstart wrote: Hi I tend to agree with Matt. All the best Keith

[fortknoq]

wtf! how old are you!!! Like this relationship is worth anything at your age. Nice and easy answer = Dump the skank. Fuck her one more time and dump her actually!

Is she the only hot girl out there? hell no
And most importantly, you said it yourself..you don't trust her. What's the point in thinking about whether she's cheating all the time. what a shitty existence.

[MaybeGuy]

[kitty kat]

If you don't trust her there is no relationship.
It is time to cut your losses and run, she obviously doesn't respect you if she is acting the way you describe. There are plenty more decent females out there who will be totally faithful to you.
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[Paivi]

You're both just 18, plenty of time to find Miss Right, which she clearly isn't.

Dump her and move on. Stop wasting your time on somebody like that.
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[Dragonfly]

I know alot say there is plenty of time for relationships and dont take teens seriously but you have to think back some of you to when you where teens, did you listen to anyone when your heart was broken then? no because you didnt know what you do know through exsperiance. And no one telling you when your a teen will help you at all. It must be gained through age this.

Anyway dump her and move on. It will melt your head eventually when you are with her again and you think she is doing the whole entire club your in and your made to feel like shit in thr cornor holding her coat.
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He's too busy beating the everloving shit out of Lizzie to notice this thread has taken a turn down Drama Avenue and stopped off at the popcorn shop.

[colin1]

You need to explain to her, that if she wants to stay with you after she cheated, she needs to show you that she won't do it again by the way she behaves.

She has to work to regain your trust, and she has to stop putting herself in situations where she might be tempted to cheat.

If she is just biding her time before she moves on to someone else, she will have no interest in changing her behaviour.

If she does want to stay with you, she should change her behaviour.

Whether you dump her or not depends on your chances of pulling again, and how much you need to be with someone.

If there is someone else you like, who you think likes you, and wont mess you around, you should move on. If not, you can just start thinking of her as a dirty little slag that you fuck when you are horny, and turn off the love.

Of course she wont like that, so things then will go a bit bad, but its still shagging and you wont get hurt much.
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[Pie-Roe]

[Moonie]

I just laughed really hard for the first time in ages, Colin if I had to make a list of people least likely to say that in the world you would be right up there with mother teresa
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[colin1]

Yeah the girls tend to be a bit surprised too. Mostly I'm a nice guy, but I'm also practical.
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[Dragonfly]

Collin has spoken https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/whacky094.gif
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Muzza on Binge:
He's too busy beating the everloving shit out of Lizzie to notice this thread has taken a turn down Drama Avenue and stopped off at the popcorn shop.

[colin1]

no, colin has spoken
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[Tonka]

Hey, that's a really crap situation at any age, just more significant when you're younger - you get a bit more ruthless as you get older - not good but true!

Big up yourself (cos you're nobody's fool), don't waste your time on people who don't deserve you and don't do anything you would hate to have done to you.

If you're gonna mess around, go for it, but make sure everyone involved knows the score before you start, then it's just good fun an no-one gets hurt!

Remember - life's very short and very special.
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[colin1]

id prefer to have just one l than a capital c
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[jackw72]

Leave her (yes that is it), but don't cheat back on her that will only make the experience worse for every party involved even the future.

Treat others as you would like to be treated.

You might be mature enough but you know yourself that most of the girls you have met are not, with her going to uni its a pointless commitment.

She is going to be popular in uni.


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[SpicyBlimp]

[reu]

Firstly fuck her best mate then drink a crate of wife beater aka carling then slap her and go you dirty whore go and fuck that lad then ditch the bitch. she ofviously hasnt changed or anything so just get rid of her and find some more pink pussy
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