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killa
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PostPosted: 10:21 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Is it a rebound...err...? Reply with quote

I should be old enough to know better i guess.
I split with my partner of 5.5 years early October, we had been struggling for a few months, no abuse or anything thrown about just changed and were no longer compatible.
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Shit happens...

But the thing is now that i'm single some ladies have got in contact with me. A girl mate of mine has been trying to hook me up with her friend who has liked me for sometime. She is a really sweet girl, and now i've got to know her a bit better i really enjoy spending time with her. I cant stop thinking this is a re-bound or something, but on the other hand i feel at ease with her and we have loads to chat about.
Reason i ask i guess is because she know's what i've come out of and asked me if i was cool with whats going on. I dont want to mess her about.

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PostPosted: 10:51 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shoot first, ask questions later. You know it makes sense. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 10:54 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Re: Is it a rebound...err...? Reply with quote

killa wrote:
...she know's what i've come out of and asked me if i was cool with whats going on. I dont want to mess her about....

So just go with it, life's too short for what ifs and maybes.

Also from what you're saying I'm not sure if you're asking if it's ok for a sympathy shag or if you're wanting something deep and meaningful straight away to replace what you had.

Either way, just go with the flow, don't rule anything out or in.

killa wrote:
...we have loads to chat about...
So good if you can talk about your extensive porno collection and kinky sex habits Wink Very Happy
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PostPosted: 10:55 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

move on.

you will normally find that when your ex finds out she will want you back.
through past experience going back is a waste of time. im sure they do it out of jealousy Confused

fook it, i will be blunt......get used to regular sex again and watch your dick dont drop off Thumbs Up
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killa
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PostPosted: 11:05 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for that guys, always such a warming feeling from BCF. Very Happy

Yeah i will just take it as it comes i guess.
It's bloody weird going on 'dates' after over 5 years of a pretty solid relasionship. I took her for dinner last night and as it happens she's at Uni until May this year, she hangs around with some 'boys' who basically wouldn't even hold a door open for her on a night out.
She thinks i'm a gentlemen just for buying her drinks! Laughing
Bless her...

Oh and as it happens one of my ex's best mates came into the restaurant last night and saw me out with this lady. Shocked

Ah all good fun i guess.
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PostPosted: 11:31 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rebound or not go with the flow and have some fun. Dont waste time fretting weither its a rebound you will miss out. if it works it works.
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PostPosted: 12:15 - 03 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just go with the flow, if it goes further then sweet, if not, just be a bit of a 'player', it's fun. Wink
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killa
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PostPosted: 11:00 - 11 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

*update*

She doesn't swallow

Game over im afraid


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PostPosted: 12:03 - 11 Nov 2008    Post subject: Reply with quote

killa wrote:
She doesn't swallow

You must be doing it wrong.
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