Small Room Four Doors

[J0Al1]

Crap best off gone

[D O G]

Door 1
Bloke is now up to his nuts in Thai pro. Contemplating why bother with a western woman when you can have thai girl with an arse like a 5 year old boy who thinks you're great just because you're English.

Leave well alone.

Door 2
Bloke on rebound from a long term relationship who wonders where he can next get his beans and have someone prop up his failing self worth.

Leave well alone.

Door 3
Some random bloke who you have 'met' on the interwebs, don't know anthing about (really), and presumably lives away from you.

Potential for some lovin, but will probably be a bit weird since he met you on the interwebs (i.e. can't do it in real life), and will be hoping you are like all interweb chicks and be a filth bag (perhaps you are - I dunno). Not a real sure fire prospect.

Door 4
Devote some time for yourself and son. Learn to realise that you are a worthy person in your own right and don't need some bloke to prop you up. May well increase your confidence, making you more attractive to men who live in the real world, which it would appear none of these 'prospects' do.

There you go, Uncle Dog at your service.

[Shaun]

[MarJay]

If you're that confused then its none.

Generally speaking if you loved one above the rest then you'd know it. The fact that you contemplate a male friend and a blole from a dating site implies you're just desperate for any kind of relationship.

No relationships, and leave it for a few months/a year and then see how it is going. It sounds like you're a serious relationship dependent. Go out on your own for a bit and see what the world is like.
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[J0Al1]

1) I keep on keep on being told that it is prostitute city. I know!! The thought is making me ill. What guy cant resist the temptation offered there? Especially when mixed up, hurt and worried. However, he is 100% addiment he will not as doesnt like Asian girls. he said he would not touch that filth! he said last night they look like monkeys or men!

He bought me a phone that does cheap calls (his choice) so we can phone each other every day.

2) Good friendship much more important, I'm not going there, it just an extra spanner. He needs to sort his own issues and I'll always be there as a friend for him

3) I don't really want to go as I love number 1. No, I'm not a filthy date room girl, never met anyone off a date site in my life (or done a web cam). I'm am pretty sure he is not after sex, he wants to meet someone special. I did it to please my family and try and move on from number 1, but can't.

4) Yes, I very much agree it as the best option and the right person will give me some space. This is also why I booked a holiday

I'm no way near a relationship dependant (just want to make the right decision and be happy). I was on my own for 2 years after I split with the father of my child - I walked away from him with a baby in my arms!!!!! I was on my own again for a year before I met number 1 and was perfectly happy

[Chriss]

[panrider_uk]

[J0Al1]

Well . . . . yeh! I do, just don't trust the situation he is in. . . away from it all, beer . . . very cheap n beautiful offers (im not oil painting). Not sure I could say no, if I were out there.

Just saw an offline message from him . . . he said he would come home next week to show me how sincere he is and that I've been very silly to worry about the Ho's out there as he would never do anything to jeopordise us.

ALL girls would worry esp as every single bloke Ive spoken too has said the same as above. LOL

[J0Al1]

[MarJay]

I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him, and why should we give you advice when all you do is rubbish it immediately? You clearly know what you want, so why the fook don't you go for it?
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British beauty: Triumph Street Triple R; Loony stroker: KR1S; Track fun: GSXR750 L1; Commuter Missile: GSX-S1000F; Cheap project: CBR900RR FireBlade
Remember kids, bikes aren't like lego. You can't easily take a part from one bike and then fit it to another.

[Suitor_Stu]

[MarJay]

[D O G]

It is diffrent in Thailand. All of my very good friends have been there. One is married to a Thai girl (not a pro). The girls hang around with you for days, effectively are your girlfriend when you are there - you just have to pay for everything they do, and then give them some cash on the top.

It's not like $10 for a Blow job, $30 for sex etc, it is more of a paid girlfriend thing.

I never went, as I met my missus before they all started going, but it is not as seedy as western prostitution.

Plus the girls are fit.

[J0Al1]

[JonB]

Hang on a sec. Guy No1 isn't the guy that almost beat the living daylights out of you is he? If so, you are a complete and utter twat. If not, my apologies.
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[J0Al1]

[J0Al1]

[map]

So, to summarise from my alleged one track mind perspective

Door 1 = Normal sex
Door 2 = Friends with benefits sex
Door 3 = Kinky sex
Door 4 = Toys with batteries sex



On topic, and only my opinion, but go with what feels right for you right now.
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[JonB]

[MarJay]

Well... *none of the above* is looking like the democratic winner so far Monkeypie...
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British beauty: Triumph Street Triple R; Loony stroker: KR1S; Track fun: GSXR750 L1; Commuter Missile: GSX-S1000F; Cheap project: CBR900RR FireBlade
Remember kids, bikes aren't like lego. You can't easily take a part from one bike and then fit it to another.

[panrider_uk]

[Tonka]

Door 1
Lock with at least a dozen padlocks / bolts and throw away the key.

Door 2
Leave on latch, but don't open, just peek through past the chain.

Door 3
Don't even open. Was that a door bell I heard? No, must be hearing things!

Door 4
The only door you'll not be able to close or walk away from.

(Hey, is it me or does this feel like an Advent calendar?)

Come on Monkeypie, I really, genuinely understand how you feel and how incapable you are of making such a big life changing decision, but only you can do it. Your self belief and respect has been slowly but surely eroded and the only thing you seem certain of is your responsibility to your son. See that for the positive it is and make sure you do the best thing by him. I think you'll also find it's the best thing for you too, just you don't care enough about yourself at the moment.

I've never been so lonely as I have been whilst in a bad relationship. Being on your own takes a little getting used to, but it's really very positive and the only way in this situation.
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[J0Al1]

Yer. . screw it!

And no, I dont just want anyone and am fine on my own.

Thanks for all the comments, some very valuable ones.

[J0Al1]

Conclusion:

Now I'm going to buy a beer, I deserve one.

[Phoenix]

He's gonna be pissed off when he comes home a week early from his holiday then?

If he thinks all the Thai girls look like ugly monkey men why is he there, just to look at the lovely pretty scenery for 3weeks? Given what you've said about him and your situation, I doubt it.