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Andy levitt
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PostPosted: 12:07 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Best way to get over somone Reply with quote

Hey im going to keep it simple, I recently have been dumped by my gf which i loved. We been going out nearli a year, A week later shes now with anther guy but i still like her even if she has done this to me. I cant get her out of my head and im constantly feel jeolous. Mad Sad

Whats the best way to get her the fuck outta my system? anyone thanks! Smile
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PostPosted: 12:11 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

There isn't one, you just need time to adjust and move on... Karma
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PostPosted: 12:17 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Best way to get over someone is get under someone Wink



I cant actually offer more advice as it does take time these things.
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PostPosted: 13:25 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Date others and shag her out of your system,

Now and again I do fall for a woman and think she is utterly perfect, at which is she?...

And then go out on a binge , with the most recent example being March 2008 where in the space of 3 weeks I shagged a very large number of women which is easy in Asia and I'm not talking about hookers as I stand out and I'm different from the locals in Asia whoa a long haired outlaw biker type (which is the image I appear to convey when I'm not an outlaw).

And think back is she that special after all? , the answer that will come back will probably be no...
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PostPosted: 13:33 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: 17:12 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Time
And beer
That will do it

I have been in your situation about 10 times, each time thinking it was 'the one', and it wasn't
Just some twat who turned out to be a tard

If she found someone else so quickly she doesn't think much of you, and you deserve better
Trust me
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PostPosted: 17:37 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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If she found someone else so quickly she doesn't think much of you


My money's on her having someone lined up long before the dumpage occurred.
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PostPosted: 19:45 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Shaggy D.A. wrote:
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If she found someone else so quickly she doesn't think much of you


My money's on her having someone lined up long before the dumpage occurred.


I concur
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PostPosted: 19:52 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

do what you did when you were single, see your friends, get drunk and check out skirt in the street

Seriously, when you've got a bird you want to be single and when you're single you want a bird. The trick is to just make sure you don't let yourself want a bird (at least not full time)
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PostPosted: 20:38 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like time to empty the plums.
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PostPosted: 20:53 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fucking young tarts is your only option. Off you go, the world is waiting.
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PostPosted: 21:30 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Or try the Hetz method ie fly out to Japan work for the Yakuza (ie an english teaching school).

And many Japanese women will date you probably maybe , as gajin are a novelty item there and you become an opportunity for a complete life style change. As Asian culture is ruthless corporationism which offers little for the average working man or woman in Japan.
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PostPosted: 22:05 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think there is a way really.

Spending time with your friends and people that care, may be the best for you if your miserable.

I dont think jumping in the sac with someone else is the answer. Ive tried it! Your X girlf prob doesn't feel great about herself for doing it. But, one question, was it him she left you for?

On another note . . you can't help when you meet someone. I've had a 1yr break, a 14 month break and this time it was only 6-8 weeks Shocked

Take it easy, you will soon see that its a big world out there, so many folks, so many strokes . . . . . .
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PostPosted: 22:10 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Monkeypie wrote:
I don't think there is a way really.

Spending time with your friends and people that care, may be the best for you if your miserable.

I dont think jumping in the sac with someone else is the answer. Ive tried it! Your X girlf prob doesn't feel great about herself for doing it. But, one question, was it him she left you for?

On another note . . you can't help when you meet someone. I've had a 1yr break, a 14 month break and this time it was only 6-8 weeks Shocked

Take it easy, you will soon see that its a big world out there, so many folks, so many strokes . . . . . .



yes but he is a bloke jumping in the sack works for men, it doesn't work so well for women though.
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PostPosted: 22:13 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonfly wrote:
Best way to get over someone is get under someone Wink



I cant actually offer more advice as it does take time these things.


You did that and now you're up the duff Laughing

Foolish Tut Tut Wink
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PostPosted: 22:17 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Itchy wrote:


yes but he is a bloke jumping in the sack works for men, it doesn't work so well for women though.


How would you know? Women just don't brag about these things.

. . . I'm just over one night stands. . . feking waste of my good shagging skills Wink


However if it means jumping into bed with someone you would rather be with . . . bring it on Very Happy . . . just for the sake of it shit is bolix and superficial
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PostPosted: 22:17 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shag her sister. Or her mum.
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PostPosted: 22:22 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Monkeypie wrote:

. . . I'm just over one night stands. . . feking waste of my good shagging skills Wink


I can't take that comment at face value, I would like some proof Very Happy
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PostPosted: 22:23 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Itchy wrote:
Monkeypie wrote:

. . . I'm just over one night stands. . . feking waste of my good shagging skills Wink


I can't take that comment at face value, I would like some proof Very Happy


no mate you have been with too many easy asian bints Wink
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PostPosted: 22:27 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

...cue the BCF server grinding to a halt under the weight of PMs heading Monkeypie's way...

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PostPosted: 22:54 - 10 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moving swifty on . . . . . . . . . . . .


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PostPosted: 00:55 - 11 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get yourself down the gym, gives you something to keep you occupied and goals to aim for - if there's a few nice lasses there too then it's a bonus Thumbs Up (That's if you go to those kind of gyms)

Enjoy the single life and use it as an opportunity to do what YOU want.

Yeah it's not easy, I know only too well but like others have said she must'nt be much of a nice lass if she's with someone else already if not before, if that's not too harsh.

The lass I'm married to (my wife Laughing ) used to be a right fecking bitch, we split up years ago for a couple of years, she started seeing someone pretty much straight away (I think it was going on before we split) so I just put her out of my mind and had loads of laughs with my mates and ended up seeing a lass that lived opposite my ex, funny how that didn't go down too well but that's always the case Laughing . A few GF's later and somehow me and the ex ended up back together after a couple of years, not sure WTF happened there like but now we're married with kids and all the other shit.
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PostPosted: 01:02 - 11 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

On an unrelated note, I do think women should make a habit of sleeping with men "below" them in terms of attractiveness.

I mean, you could really make a man's year, he'll be talking about it for for ages.

Really sexy women should make a habit out of picking out average joes like me, and initiating everything. "Yeah, sure I'll sleep with you honey" (cor blimey!!!!) "you asked so nicely, after all". Forget the tall dark handsome scum bags - fuck the twerps and the dorks. We need it!


(Miffed at getting no action tonight, again! Bloody women.)
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PostPosted: 02:04 - 11 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

nasty wrote:
Get yourself down the gym, gives you something to keep you occupied and goals to aim for - if there's a few nice lasses there too then it's a bonus Thumbs Up (That's if you go to those kind of gyms)

Enjoy the single life and use it as an opportunity to do what YOU want.

Yeah it's not easy, I know only too well but like others have said she must'nt be much of a nice lass if she's with someone else already if not before, if that's not too harsh.


Good words of advice.

My GF of 2 years split up with me in September which was totally out of the blue. Her parents had divorced a couple of weeks earlier but I thought i was helping her through the situation. Apparently this is what caused the split and even now she is still off the rails.

It was so hard at first as pretty much all through my uni life i was used to her around, being in a relationship etc. All 3 of my flatmates have girlfriends and for a few weeks i felt so lonely.

I met a girl who was visiting a friend and had a bit of a fling for a week with her before she went back to finland. It took my mind of it and i thought things were going to be ok for me.

I came home from uni for christmas and as im in a new area i dont know anyone and i was so used to having jess around. Recently i have been feeling lonely again up to the point i have text her a few times. (she text me a lot after we split but i always ignored her) I know im only doing this because im lonely and i miss her (company more than anything) yes i loved her but she did some quite nasty things to me and the only reason i make an effort to stay in contact, bar the other night, is that she still owes me money

there is no easy way to get over it. better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all etc.

i know you are probably thinking you will never meet anyone like her again or no one else will like you or whatever stupid reason but its all bollocks. best thing to do is say yes to every opportunity available to you. everyone gets their hearts broken eventually but you just have to move on. she might come back to you eventually but maybe like me after a while you think fuck it, i dont want her back.

might not make that much sense im kind of goosed at the moment Cool
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PostPosted: 14:07 - 11 Jan 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

TIME. And don't beat yourself up if your healing time is longer than other people's. Oh and try not to see her or talk to her, that usually helps.
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