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chillpill
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PostPosted: 17:15 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: leaving home Reply with quote

situation at home with my mums boyfreind is getting a bit "complicated" , i might be getting thrown out or leaving in a few weeks i wont go into the details because its really not important

but my situation is , currentley uemployed and going to sixth form (college) in my own time to do my course independanly. ive been accepted into uni (unconditionally from some uni's) so ill be sorted for accomodation when it comes to september but im a bit stuck at the moment.

just after a bit of info as to what sort of goverment helps avaliable for people in my situation e.g hostel housing etc

cheers
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chillpill
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PostPosted: 19:25 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

well anyone know where i can go for advice then ?
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PostPosted: 19:41 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dependent on the circumstances:
If its simply a case that you dont get on / coming to minor blows:
Then man up/suck it in ... until September ... then give him the finger and prepare to stand on your own 2 feet for the next few years.

If he is buggering you at night / you are close to killing him:
Then start talking to family and friends, so you can stay somewhere until you move into Uni halls.


I have never seen eye to eye with my mothers partner.
He is a total cock.
BUT, even at the age of 40, I still need my mum every now and then Smile.
Its often best to just turn the other cheek and put up with the pratt.
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chillpill
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PostPosted: 20:27 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

silky666 wrote:
Dependent on the circumstances:
If its simply a case that you dont get on / coming to minor blows:
Then man up/suck it in ... until September ... then give him the finger and prepare to stand on your own 2 feet for the next few years.

If he is buggering you at night / you are close to killing him:
Then start talking to family and friends, so you can stay somewhere until you move into Uni halls.


I have never seen eye to eye with my mothers partner.
He is a total cock.
BUT, even at the age of 40, I still need my mum every now and then Smile.
Its often best to just turn the other cheek and put up with the pratt.


yeah its just minor things that get blown up and up in ridiculous arguments , with my mum always taking his side and never standing up for me. seeing as shes only with him for the money and needs him to pay the bills she would much rather him stay then me and with the way things are at the moment i dont see how im going to be able to suck it up for another 5 months without doing something ill regret

i know it will be alot easier if i do just put up with it but hes pushing my temper alot these days and since hes been living here for 4 years its all starting too timebomb on me
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PostPosted: 20:41 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know how old you are, 16-18? If so there isn't a lot of help for you. You are unlikely to be considered for council housing as an emergency unless you have special circumstances. You should go in and register with the homeless dept though.

Your best bet would be to go to a young persons advice centre that is local to you to see what is available in your area, different areas have different policies. You should be entitled to housing benefit etc. so could look for private rented, or somewhere like the YMCA.
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PostPosted: 21:39 - 08 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Find out where your local Connexions office is.

https://www.connexions-direct.com/
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PostPosted: 01:29 - 09 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scoop his eyes out and then skull F**K him... If that fails then get yaself down to the YMCA, they like to help young people in need out..
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chillpill
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PostPosted: 16:46 - 09 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

strag wrote:
I don't know how old you are, 16-18? If so there isn't a lot of help for you. You are unlikely to be considered for council housing as an emergency unless you have special circumstances. You should go in and register with the homeless dept though.

Your best bet would be to go to a young persons advice centre that is local to you to see what is available in your area, different areas have different policies. You should be entitled to housing benefit etc. so could look for private rented, or somewhere like the YMCA.


cheers some usefull info there , ive called up my local connexions office and booked a meeting with an advisor for tommorow Thumbs Up

i always thought the ymca was some sort of gay-club thing becuase of the song but after a quick googling its actually a housing programme

id love to skull fuck the cunt , i think there is some sort of law against skull fucking though Thinking
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PostPosted: 18:04 - 09 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Make sure you dont let this affect your relationship with your mum.
You WILL need her at some point over the next 50 years or so !

It sounds as if you are doing things the right way tho - ie: get yourself out before you do something that could affect relations with your mother Thumbs Up
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chillpill
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PostPosted: 18:15 - 10 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

silky666 wrote:
Make sure you dont let this affect your relationship with your mum.
You WILL need her at some point over the next 50 years or so !

It sounds as if you are doing things the right way tho - ie: get yourself out before you do something that could affect relations with your mother Thumbs Up


tbh shes a large part of the problem, shes not right in the head
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PostPosted: 22:11 - 10 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are planning on leaving, I'd keep it all a secret until you are out, nothing like spilling the beans to complicate matters !
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PostPosted: 02:59 - 11 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

best advice was stick it out till september until you go uni so your in the position where you dont need to him....then if you feel the need to twat the cunt do it Thumbs Up whats he guna say you cant live hear anymore ? University mate Middle Finger
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PostPosted: 02:00 - 12 Mar 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do what i did. If your parents piss you off, move onto a canal boat and relax, no bills or fuck all Cool
You just need to find a really sillly old man that will give you the keys for free Wink
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