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Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

My girlfriend has been nagging me for two days to woo her Rolling Eyes

Why all of a sudden she needs wooing I don't know? She lives 200 miles away so the majority of our relationship is on the phone. How the f*ck do you woo someone on the phone? Should I write her a poem? Should I write a list of reasons why I love her?

Come on people help a fellow biker Wink

I'd would interested in the girlies opinions especially, although all suggestions are appreciated.

Sparks! · Sir Tart-a-lot Joined: 30 Aug 2003 Karma :

Have a courier take some flowers and a box of choclates direct to her house with a little card or something...
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WILDECELT · Scooby Slapper Joined: 12 Jun 2004 Karma :

this always works ,tell her she is the first flower to greet the morning sun Very Happy

i have copyright Laughing

Adam_P · World Chat Champion Joined: 23 Jan 2004 Karma :

How many things do you want listing?

Write her a letter, telling her what you feel for her (properly, not just; 'I love you' Tell her how you actually feel when with and without her, so long as its good, obviously! Wink

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As said before, send flowers, with a personal message

Send her postcards from wherever you are, it will let her know that you're thinking about her (and it only costs the price of a stamp!)

Take her away somewhere for the weekend, somewhere romantic, or just special to you both

Goand visit her unannounced, surprise her and show how much you care.

Write her a poem, or, if you can't write, find one that you like and send it to her, or tell it to her over the phone.

Buy her a gift that is special to you both.

Arrange to meet her half-way between where you both live for an evening or overnight somewhere, even if its just for a drink, it shows you want to spend time with her.

Of course, all of the above is down the how much you actually love/care about her and whether or not you have a romantic bone in your body?!
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Sacarius · Scooby Slapper Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Karma :

Well if she has asked you I suggest getting to the woo quite soon or it may end up being someone else.
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Smoto Bob · World Chat Champion Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Karma :

k, this might sound a bit sad Rolling Eyes

but ...

i wrote out in bike parts in my back garden " i miss you " (mainly cos i was bored Razz

) and sent a picture of it to my Girlfriend when she was back home for holidays Embarassed

Worked very well Wink

(good luck)
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Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

No mate, I really don't think she's going to leave me. She rings me every night, she's talking about the holiday we are having in september and she can't wait to come home from uni for the summer so I can spend my 1 day off a week with her. Rolling Eyes

She is always talking about the future and getting married and kids etc.

Not sure what brought it on...

Anyway I think I'll take her to a hotel I know overlooking a welsh valley not far from where I live. Just for the night as I work so fucking much. (As I said before I have 1 day off, I normally work 10 hours a day and it takes 40 mins to get there.) So time is something I don't have much of Crying or Very sad

Back to the topic...

I'll send her a card with a list of reasons why I love her and do the hotel thing but there is still the phone thing... I could put the poem in the card and give her the list of reasons down the phone Thinking

And it's not like we never do romantic things either. Only a few weeks ago we took a rowing boat out onto the lake at roath park (Cardiff) and ate ice cream whilst we went for a walk around the park n' shit. But the past two days shes bugging the sh1t out me with it. And because I'm full cold (really heavy cold) it really does feel like so much effort Confused

The annoying thing is she knows that I really do love her Confused

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Sacarius · Scooby Slapper Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Karma :

I agree with Adam, woman will always be more pleased when you show your appreciation at a random unexpected time, rather than just birthday/anniversary.
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Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

Oh I have sent cards before for no reason and she loves that sh1t.

Adam_P · World Chat Champion Joined: 23 Jan 2004 Karma :

Then, I have to ask, why are you asking for advice if you already know what she likes? Laughing

I reckon, from what you've already said you're going to do, that you're on a winner! Wink

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Robby · Dirty Old Man Joined: 16 May 2002 Karma :

tie a ribbon around your testicles and go see her.

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bennyb24 · Renault 5 Driver Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Karma :

Would steer clear of list's & reasons if I were you mate ! you'll always miss out something she thinks in important and get yourself in trouble Confused

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karen_moomin · World Chat Champion Joined: 11 Apr 2004 Karma :

What an odd request! Well, I suppose everyone likes to be "wooed" differently, so without knowing your girlfriend I can't think what she is hinting at.

Maybe just do something spontaneous and romantic (even though this may be difficult since she's asked you to "woo" her) to show her how you feel.

Sorry I'm not much help! Rolling Eyes

Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

It is an odd request, but then women are odd aren't they Wink

Just found out she has been out drinking for the past couple of nights...Beer has a lot to answer for I feel Rolling Eyes

She never sounds pissed on the phone, she hides it so f*cking well. B1tch. Wink

But I'll still take her to the hotel, I think it'll be nice for both of us.

karen_moomin · World Chat Champion Joined: 11 Apr 2004 Karma :

Good plan

tgabber · Crazy Courier Joined: 03 Jun 2004 Karma :

You could try dumping her - make her realise what she had and what she's missing - or not... Smile

But seriously if you need to ask other people's advice on what to do you are in trouble. She's your girlfriend, you should be able to tell what she wants - and if you can't....

... she'll end up dumping you. Crying or Very sad

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Flip · Super Spammer Joined: 28 Feb 2004 Karma :

She won't

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Nighteyes · Dirty Bint Joined: 05 Aug 2003 Karma :

The confidence people all seem to have in young relationship is overwhelming Laughing

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Susi · Whitton Girl Joined: 06 Jun 2003 Karma :

Hmm, wooing... When someone asks to be wooed it's because they're bored, have started to go off you or want there to be some spice. I find that after being with someone for a certain amount of time the only thing that seems to make me go 'wow' are surprises and I don't mean corny stuff like cooking a meal, flowers and chocolates, etc. It normally has to be something that's has had effort and thought put into it. Basically think of the biggest 'baddest' out of this world thing you could do and go for it.
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