Whats next?

The999Kid · World Chat Champion Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Karma :

Hey folks.

In the last couple of months i've lost My job, My house, My money,

and in the last 60 minutes, My boyfriend.

Whats next seen as though i;ve lost the only 2 things that motivate me (My job, My bf)

Kind regards

Timothy
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NDB 19/10/1989 - 1/11/2010 |Nowhere.Elyseum wrote: I get the distinct feeling that Tim should be our secret weapon for future trolling. I don't know many people that can rip the piss in Iambic pentameter

Itchy · Super Spammer Joined: 07 Apr 2005 Karma :

Don't worry be happy?,

My dad always used to say the passage of time is the same if you are happy or sad, 'Bella seems to be like that.
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MaybeGuy · Super Spammer Joined: 12 Mar 2007 Karma :

Become straight
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TUG · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 May 2007 Karma :

Kinda know how you feel, i lost everything i cared about in a matter of months, then nearly lost my job afterwards.

I think you need to remember sadly that you can't always have your way, things don't work out but as humans we adapt and reinvent to reach our goals.

You ex is now your ex so move on, broken relationships are like glass bottles, sure you could pain stakenly glue it back together but the cracks will always show. Find someone new when you've had a little "me" time.

Job? well i guess in the current time frame and conditions you could get a part time xmas job to get some easy money if theres still some, but then try and find a long termer afterwards. Use this time to reflect and find your footing again. Trust me, you have to or you'll fall apart like i did.
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Haz ER-5, innit!

hellkat · Super Spammer Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

Oooof, thats quite a handful to cope with, isn't it, kiddo.

I'm pleased (and surprised) at xlonewolfx's depth of maturity on this matter.

I mostly agree with what he has to say.
*hugs*
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hellkat · Super Spammer Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

And other people's contributions are interesting, too.
Although ... Numptie - mostly sensible.
But I don't think he meant that the relationship had lasted 60 minutes Rolling Eyes

just that it had died an hour before he got round to discussing it with us.

Bless.
Anyway, P.I. ... you're a nice boy.
I'm sure things will come right.
They just take time, babes.
Mate of mine, who doesnt frequent much here apart from the Scotch forum, says the past is for losers, and the future is for the brave.
Not a bad way to look at life.
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TUG · World Chat Champion Joined: 12 May 2007 Karma :

hellkat · Super Spammer Joined: 12 Jul 2004 Karma :

I'm not knockin ya, xlonewolfx ... good on ya for pulling thru some tough times. I agree with the attitude.
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warped one · Banned Joined: 25 Dec 2007 Karma :

Sorry to hear about your rough patch mate,

One thing you've got to do is keep a clear head, and try stay positive.

When I had my downward spiral I pretty much lost everything. My mates were killing themselve left right and centre, my job was right on the edge, and I had just split with Clo. Nothing seemed to be worth anything anymore. I took to the drink and drown my sorrows every night, hoping to find some sort of happiness in the hours of forgetting my pain that I had. I was sleeping with everything that moved to try and find what i'd lost but in the end it hurt me more and pushed me away from reality more, getting up in the morning just to earn money and keep myself afloat was near impossible, when I felt bad i'd take it out on my family and friends which resulted in me having a major fight out in the sticks and me been left out there to walk.

Don't for god sake do what I did, keep your chin up and you'll get through it. 6months on I am only just realising where I went wrong and am trying to sort my problems.

If you want any help with this just PM me and i'll be happy to help, the stigma I have isn't anything like me.

Warped
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The999Kid · World Chat Champion Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Karma :

Just learned i wont be going back out as an ambulance tech within the next 5 years... oh joy!
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cvntdude · Spanner Monkey Joined: 22 Nov 2009 Karma :

What happened with the job, thought it was ok now .... Surprised

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The999Kid · World Chat Champion Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Karma :

cvntdude · Spanner Monkey Joined: 22 Nov 2009 Karma :

You don't do things in halfs .... Neutral

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the grim reaper · World Chat Champion Joined: 29 Jun 2005 Karma :

Life is like that unfortunately, I went through hell a couple of years back when I found out that the now ex had been sleeping with my mate, she was also pregnant (with what turned out to be my baby but I didn't know that) and my son was about a year old at the time. I literally ended up sat outside a mates house in the car one morning, crying and wondering what the hell to do next. I'd lost my daily contact with my son, my marriage and didn't feel like I had anywhere to turn.

Ironically the bloke my ex ran off with had finished with his girlfriend to be with my ex and she and I were already acquaintances through my mate. We became friends through being in the same situation and next August she and I are getting married, I have my son and daughter every other weekend and life is pretty good.

Sometimes you have to get to rock bottom before you can start climbing up again, just don't start feeling too sorry for yourself or the self-pity can become habit. Try to look positive and remember, you've got a lot of life ahead of you and 99% of it has to be better than you feel right now!

Cheers

Grim
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Clanger · Stirrer Joined: 27 May 2004 Karma :

I had to give up loads of things after finding out my injuries were permanent. Okay, it has not affected my career, per se, but has put paid to a lot of other things.

The best advice I can give you, is give yourself breathing space. Allow yourself to wallow for a bit, but then try and consider the things you can do, and the things you think you'd like to do, and see if you can find something else to aim for.

I know it won't seem like it now, but something will come. You are bright and intelligent, and at the start of your working life...something good will come. Best keep as positive as you can. Thumbs Up

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