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PostPosted: 01:38 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: I met the most despicable little man tonight Reply with quote

I met the most despicable little man tonight.

Little guy acts like a hard man, hurts his girlfriend to feel like a big man, she’s too scared. Right infront of the group.

She's thin as rake and nervy as hell, doesnt risk smiling if hes watching.

I’ve met his type before: will only attack someone he doesn’t have power over when their backs turned... has a black belt in karate and drops it in to conversation.

Why did no one else in big group we were out with seem to give a shit? None of their business? He'll make her life a living hell till she escapes or she'll snap and kill him or he'll just end up killing her through driving her to suicide or attacking her so badly she doesnt survive.

I wonder how he turned out like that?

Some adult who had power over him when he was a kid?
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PostPosted: 10:35 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why question that no one else did anything when you didnt?


And theres a variety of reason he could be like it, none justify the acts though.

I hate scummy fuckers like that.
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PostPosted: 10:58 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Its self reinforcing in that because nobody dares to stand up to him, it causes confirmation bias.

You see related behaviour everywhere, in that because people will not challenge 'bad' things people continue to do these things. Last experience which is teniously related was the 10 items or less queue at morrisons. woman bought a full trolley and started to put things on.

I said quite loudly I guess some people can't count these days, the woman gave me an incredibly dirty look and yet became incredibly embarrassed and moved to another check out.

I personally blame shaggy, since he's been spreading that be more selfish book which virtually encourages such behaviour!.
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PostPosted: 11:07 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know about 6 black belts in karate and one has 4 in different styles. the funny thing is never heard of any of them bragging about the fact, cos karate usually instills a sense of self control.
He sounds like a cock your right she needs to get away from him, don't let the fact he knows a bit of karate bother you cos one good punch to the nose, a punch to the throat (best thing about this is even if he drops his chin he still gets a smack in the chops) and a kick in the balls will drop 99% of blokes.
Might also show that a bit of chop sooey means fuck all. so if you that worried just drop the cunt, pick her up in your arms and stroll off into the sunset.
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PostPosted: 11:45 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Itchy wrote:
I personally blame shaggy, since he's been spreading that be more selfish book which virtually encourages such behaviour!.

You mean this one?
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PostPosted: 12:09 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fawbish wrote:
Why question that no one else did anything when you didnt?


It's a damn good point, I was thinking about exactly the same thing last night. I spose I didn't want to ruin a nice chrimbo meal out with my mates cause one cock turned up.

I had a chat to a few mates there but they gave me the "none of my business line" which to be fair is true.

Still didn't stop me wanting to lay the little fucker out... but then I'm just scared that there'll be a witness/CCTV and a bit of ABH on my record will fuck up the career I'm going for. That make as much of a coward as him?

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PostPosted: 12:41 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

My guess......

Stepping in and flooring him sure might have been a fine thing, but you will have made it worse. He will take it out on her, so unless you can offer her 24/7 protection and a new life, it's pointless.

He obviously has her in the grips of fear, else she would have left him before the situation came to be as it currently is, so once you floored the guy, she'd have gone back to him, of this im 99% sure.

Either that or the minute you belt him in the face, she'd have jumped on your back as well telling you to fuck off - she might do this again out of fear that you're only making it worse and trying to look as if she is on her fellas side to avoid more of an ass-whooping, or simply because she is a female and is thus her actions largely make no sense whatsoever by default Razz

One of my g/f mates is in a similar situation, went out with a guy, he starts slapping her around, dragging her out of her house and effectively kidnapping her, threatening to kill her etc but "she loves him" and then a few weeks later "he's changed" lol yeh ok love.

Then she has a kid with him (after several miscarriages which I'm told he was responsible for, the old slug in the guts method). Still slaps her around, chokes her near to death whilst the baby is in the cot next to her. But "I love him" keeps coming from somewhere. Maybe from the same place she buys all her make-up to cover up her blackeyes that she goes into work with. She's expecting their second kid now, and the fact that it's going to be a girl didnt please him one bit. I'll be surprised if she is alive by the time it's due.

I guess the point I'm making is some people cannot be helped because they don't even want to help themselves, for whatever reason they have in their minds.

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PostPosted: 14:37 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Either that or the minute you belt him in the face, she'd have jumped on your back as well telling you to fuck off - she might do this again out of fear that you're only making it worse and trying to look as if she is on her fellas side to avoid more of an ass-whooping, or simply because she is a female and is thus her actions largely make no sense whatsoever by default


Happened to me and a few mates some years back. Some dick head was slapping his Missus around in the street as we were walking to a club, my mate ran in and lamped him one. Then it took 3 of us to get the woman off our mate. Crazy bitch!!

As horrible as it is to see it happen, one of the worst things you can do is go and stop it. You embarass the guy who then takes it out on the girl behind closed doors. If you want to stop it then disabling him may be the only option.
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PostPosted: 16:41 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^ yeah us do-gooders get the backlash, but it still won't stop me
from wading in time to time.


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PostPosted: 17:01 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

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^^ yeah us do-gooders get the backlash, but it still won't stop me
from wading in time to time.


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It's like a vicious circle. By doing something you make it worse, but can't just do nothing when you see it happen. Either way the lady gets a smack.

Here's one for you, at what point does it become ok to hit a lady? If say your girlfriend is going mental and you can't restrain her and she keeps coming at you over and over again causing you harm is it right to give her a smack?

A mate of mine's ex was beserk, she used to punch the living shit out of him, and after loads of abuse he lost it and gave her one swift smack and she dropped like a sack of shit (apparently, i wasn't there). But at that time I empathised with him and felt it was what she deserved. That was then end of the relationship.

Another lad I know, happens to be his brother, doens't have any qualms about hitting a woman if she hits him first... He'd never beat a girl etc.. but since joining the marines his attitude became "If she hit's me, Im hitting her back, she'll think twice before trying it again".

Anyway what are you views???
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PostPosted: 17:26 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

The hardest people are the ones that don't gob off about it, those that do usually have something to prove.
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PostPosted: 17:54 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

dafyddjohndavies wrote:
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^^ yeah us do-gooders get the backlash, but it still won't stop me
from wading in time to time.


Pat


It's like a vicious circle. By doing something you make it worse, but can't just do nothing when you see it happen. Either way the lady gets a smack.

Here's one for you, at what point does it become ok to hit a lady? If say your girlfriend is going mental and you can't restrain her and she keeps coming at you over and over again causing you harm is it right to give her a smack?

A mate of mine's ex was beserk, she used to punch the living shit out of him, and after loads of abuse he lost it and gave her one swift smack and she dropped like a sack of shit (apparently, i wasn't there). But at that time I empathised with him and felt it was what she deserved. That was then end of the relationship.

Another lad I know, happens to be his brother, doens't have any qualms about hitting a woman if she hits him first... He'd never beat a girl etc.. but since joining the marines his attitude became "If she hit's me, Im hitting her back, she'll think twice before trying it again".

Anyway what are you views???


If she;s going berserk and windmilling at me, even if she gets a punch in, then I'm likely to just restrain her until she calms down ( I have an evil choke hold, I reckon I could put someone out for the nite nite in 10 seconds, though have never had the cause to attempt it). At the end of the day the male has the strength advantage so will always be able to overpower a woman to restrain her, so for this theres no reason to hit them.

If she comes at me with a weapon I'll smack her so hard her grandad will feel it.

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PostPosted: 18:05 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Before we all get serious let me introduce a contender for Worlds Strongest Woman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K23ZBTwuCYQ
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Restrain that, Ghostrider

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PostPosted: 18:30 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Howling Terror wrote:
Before we all get serious let me introduce a contender for Worlds Strongest Woman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K23ZBTwuCYQ
Becca Swanson

Restrain that, Ghostrider

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Lmao, I think I'd rather try my luck wrestling a bear.

Still, fingers to the eyes and her walnut cracking thighs are all in vain.

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PostPosted: 20:55 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

chris-red wrote:
The hardest people are the ones that don't gob off about it, those that do usually have something to prove.


+1 Couldn't agree more there Chris Thumbs Up .

Cabbage if this guy is a blackbelt which I do doubt to be honest you don't wanna get into a fight with him plus why waste the energy fighting when a quick take down will suffice and give a stronger message of power over the idiot.

Must admit though I agree with most on here who have said she'll probably get a kicking or involved, so to be honest as Ghostrider said unless you can offer her something he can't and she's willing to take a way out there's nothing you can do to better her situation.

Also given the circumstances of a bloke beating a woman would I wade in damn right I would Thumbs Up .

Once saw a bloke slap a girl in a club I worked in went to give the bloke a slap and kick him out when the girl beat me to it and sparked him out and I mean ko was one of the best things I've ever seen Laughing
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PostPosted: 21:15 - 10 Dec 2009    Post subject: Re: I met the most despicable little man tonight Reply with quote

EDITED: Pointless question. Laughing

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PostPosted: 00:47 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:
I'm wondering who invited the delightful chap. Confused


She probably thought she would get a backhander if she didnt.

Either that or she feared the questioninig she would get about whos' cock she was sucking if she had left him at home for one evening, a sad state of affairs indeed but one that I am sure occurs more often than folk would care to believe.

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PostPosted: 02:11 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

lostboy wrote:
I know about 6 black belts in karate and one has 4 in different styles. the funny thing is never heard of any of them bragging about the fact, cos karate usually instills a sense of self control.


Indeed, he probably has a BlackBelt in Imagination & fuck all else.. He sounds like the perfect candidate for a blanket party Wink
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PostPosted: 04:44 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

lostboy wrote:


Once saw a bloke slap a girl in a club I worked in went to give the bloke a slap and kick him out when the girl beat me to it and sparked him out and I mean ko was one of the best things I've ever seen Laughing

Would you throw me out if a girl slapped me and I floored her?
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PostPosted: 09:40 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

chris-red wrote:
The hardest people are the ones that don't gob off about it, those that do usually have something to prove.


+2
I have found many little men need to feel big and to do this they need to attack. The amount of times I have had little men try it on, just because of my height and build. As for the black belt bit, I have found many people who have black belts in one form or another can't do real world fisty cuffs, they need the rules, regulations and time to set themselves up ready for the move. ( there are some though that are quick as fuck though)
The guy is a basic coward who needs others to fear him to make himself known. hasn't got the personality to stand on his own two feet in any given social setting.
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PostPosted: 10:15 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

dafyddjohndavies wrote:


Here's one for you, at what point does it become ok to hit a lady? If say your girlfriend is going mental and you can't restrain her and she keeps coming at you over and over again causing you harm is it right to give her a smack?

A mate of mine's ex was beserk, she used to punch the living shit out of him, and after loads of abuse he lost it and gave her one swift smack and she dropped like a sack of shit (apparently, i wasn't there). But at that time I empathised with him and felt it was what she deserved. That was then end of the relationship.

Another lad I know, happens to be his brother, doens't have any qualms about hitting a woman if she hits him first... He'd never beat a girl etc.. but since joining the marines his attitude became "If she hit's me, Im hitting her back, she'll think twice before trying it again".

Anyway what are you views???


My bro in law had a psycho GF before he met my sister, when they split he went back for his stereo. She threw one of the speakers down the stairs at him and then ran to the kitchen and got a knife. He laid her out, took the knife off her and used the speaker cable to tie her to a chair. He then left with his stereo and rang her brother to go and untie her.

He said to me it didn't feel right to hit her but it was preferable to getting knifed in the ribs.

As far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't hit a woman unless I was in a similar position, or if she was masculine and strong enough to threaten me with a kicking. I once saw a woman trying to beat the hell out of a bloke in a nightclub, he was in the classic boxer's cover up pose, fists infront of the face, elbows tucked in covering ribs and she was raining fairly pathetic punchs to his head and shoulders. When she had finished he was still laughing.

Blokes should be able to put up with the worst a normal woman can do, unless she goes for the bollocks, in which case restraining is necessary.

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PostPosted: 10:25 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hetzer wrote:


That's weird. My height and size have granted me the blessing of never having people try it on with me, yet you find the opposite? Confused


Possibly because I may have been in more situations where little people have felt the need to show how big they are. There are many times in everyday situations where my size and build is an advantage, I have never needed to walk around a group of people for instance, going into clubs and pubs, the door staff give you a smile and a nod while holding the door open, but in the supermarket or going to the bar or when there is a drunken group, it is the little one that jumps up and mouths of as if he/she needs to prove something.
When in my old job, it was the little persons who were the problem people, be it customers or naughty gits.


I would like to know, as a side issue, why Hetzer has become all Fluffy Bunny like with his posts popping up all over the forum, even going as far as to take me off his enemy setting ? There is something very wrong and it is not natural. There has got to be a catch. The subject may need it's own thread to even things out.
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PostPosted: 10:31 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

yuri2085 wrote:
Would you throw me out if a girl slapped me and I floored her?


tell you what slap this one and I'll leave you to it
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lostboy wrote:
yuri2085 wrote:
Would you throw me out if a girl slapped me and I floored her?


tell you what slap this one and I'll leave you to it


is that the one that hasn't made your tea yet?
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PostPosted: 11:10 - 11 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote

Skudd wrote:
is that the one that hasn't made your tea yet?


If it was don't you think I'd be making her tea? Laughing
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