The one that keeps getting away.

[warped one]

There is a girl I like that works at the local shop, when we talk it is constant jokes and laughing and I do have a feeling that she likes me from the way she talks to me. But the problem is, is that she has a boyfriend. And i'm to much of a wuss to ask her for her number.

I keep talking to other girls but I can't get this one out of my head.

Any ideas on what to do?

Mark
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amnesia - Never in the history of usernames has one been more accurate. Warped indeed. You sir are a fecking oddball.

[Itchy]

Do as many other women as possible, it will make you look back and think hmm she isn't that special after all. i.e. there is some sort of attraction now because you feel that there is some special quirk about her.

But if you've done say 100 other women and still feel the same way then I have no advice.....
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[Carl_steveo]

Find what that quality is in her that you can't keep away from. Then find that quality in another girl who is single. Forget about aforementioned girl and have fun.
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[Redoko]

[warped one]

It's not tjust the fact that she works in a shop and I talk to her. It's the way we talk. Something wierd about it.

Also I do post a quite a few happy posts thankyou very much.

Warped
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amnesia - Never in the history of usernames has one been more accurate. Warped indeed. You sir are a fecking oddball.

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[warped one]

Lol my hitchhiker thread in general? That was happy, also my post to DF was a joke I mkae loads you lot just ignor them. The problem I find is I speak the truth and my mind in my posts.

Warped
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amnesia - Never in the history of usernames has one been more accurate. Warped indeed. You sir are a fecking oddball.

[crazymotorbik...]

I was wondering why you had been going to the shop so much lately lol

If she has a boyfirend how do you know she'd give him up for you?

How do you know their not happy together?

Why waste your time on what will probably never be?

I'm sure someones going to come along in a moment and tell me that anything good is never easy to get etc etc etc

If it were me i'd move onto someone else. I wouldn't waste my time or my energy. But thats just me.

Cheers,
Shaun.

[Itchy]

Who was that guy years ago, in that he used that killer line...

"Well are you married yet?,"
"no,"
"I see,"
"Oh what do you see?"
"Welll the fact that you aren't married yet seems to me that you are still looking for your soul mate, and I think that soul mate might be me,"

However he tempered it by saying, if she has such a weak will to be convinced by such a sappy line the she will invariable be talked into somebody else too.

King Lear I think it was, I'm sorry but you are not welcome, in that if you have betrayed your baron once you have the potential to do it again, now leave before I cut you down.
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[Bubbs]

I say find out how strong this relationship is. Just stick as friends with her but with some flirting until she makes a move.

The girl im with now I stole from her then boyfriend. I know it sounds like a bad thing but I was going to have her no matter what. Kind of felt that special feeling with her that I never had before and just kept talking to her not making a move (we both worked together in the Alps). Eventually we were out at a club both drunk and she came over and started kissing me. In the morning I played it down in case she felt like she had done something wrong but the next night things got a little more serious and ended up in her bed.

I did feel bad about the whole boyfriend thing up until she told me she really liked me and started telling me how rubbish her boyfriend was... From then on I was on a mission to stop her from being with this guy, didn't care what it took. Been with her now for almost 3 years. Hottest, most amazing girl ever!!!!

I know it sounds a bit selfish but I never took what I wanted before. What clinched it was after coming home from France she was due to meet her boyfriend who never turned up, so I drove from Swansea to Bournemouth at 9pm flat out all the way and spent the weekend with her.

Game, Set, Match!!!!
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[the grim reaper]

Go for it, if she is interested, she will tell you so and if not then what have you lost? I've got together with women who have a partner in the past, mainly because there is somethign missing in their relationship, you and her may be perfect for each other, more than her current partner.

It sucks to be cheated on, I know, it's been done to me before but if someone is going to stray then you are better off out of it.

One thing I would say though, if she is the type to cheat on her current partner then beware she may do the same to you when a better offer comes along, she might just be that type. If she does want to be with you but insists that she must finish with him forst then she is a decent sort.

Cheers

Grim
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[Redoko]

I was going to say pretty much the same thing as Grim.

If she does it to him, what's to stop her doing it to you? But yeah... Read Grim's post.
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[GhostRider]

Have you entertained the idea that you are merely something that brightens up her otherwise dull day working in a shop? Sure, there's some flirting there to keep you dangling round the hook, but as soon as you go to bite, she reel the line in with the bait still attached.

People will flirt with the regulars, perhaps even people they work with, just to pass the time, remember this is a women you are dealing with, and as such all logic is right out the window, therefore she probably sees it as harmless fun, whereas you think she is flirting in a serious manner.

Regardless of all this, whats the worst that can happen if you ask her out? My mate once walked into a shop and went up to the girl at the counter and said "what would you say if I asked you out on a date", she said "errrr I'd say no", to which he replied "Well, bloody good job I didnt ask you then!" and walked straight out. He used this approach a bit, and because of the cheeky, none serious way he did it, and the fact that it was not direct or confrontational, it worked on a number of occasions, so maybe try that, because if she bases you, you can always make a joke of it and thus avoid any feelings of awkwardness if she tells you to fuck off

GhostRider
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TiTs

Gary

nuff said
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This thread should be renamed to the one that I have seen a few times and fancy
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[Skudd]

Perhaps she just thinks you are a window licker and is being nice just in case she becomes another Jill Dando.
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