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AngelGrinder
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PostPosted: 20:05 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Just split up with girlfriend of 4 years... Reply with quote
Don't really know why I'm posting, think it's just because havn't many people I can speak to right now, and just wanted to let you all know Laughing

Don't think it's quite sunk in yet, I'm sure later on tonight it will.

I've already decided I'm never going back, no matter what happens, I must move forward!


New years eve is going to be fun!

Anyone else want to talk/celebrate/mourn their recent singledom?
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PostPosted: 20:11 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Sorry to hear that mate, really. Chin up for when it does hit you. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 20:18 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Big_Ham wrote:
Sorry to hear that mate, really. Chin up for when it does hit you. Thumbs Up


I'm just reminding myself that it's more money for the bike and trackdays...


Then I remember I will be bored alot of the time, and will actually have to work for the poon.......damn.

I've been out of the game along time!
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PostPosted: 20:25 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
AngelGrinder wrote:

I'm just reminding myself that it's more money for the bike and trackdays...


Then I remember I will be bored alot of the time, and will actually have to work for the poon.......damn.

I've been out of the game along time!


Definately, and I'm sure it'll all come back to you. Laughing

You know I'll be up for some trackdays next year, funds allowing. Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 21:09 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
I found not being able to share the little things that got to me.
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PostPosted: 21:18 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
covedude wrote:
Skudd wrote:
I found not being able to share the little things that got to me.


Nice ..... why not send him a rope ... !! Thumbs Down Smile

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Don't talk utter crap.

Empathy is what it is called.

Go rip yourself another arse, perhaps the shit you say will get better.
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PostPosted: 21:33 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Your arse only knows shit so it wouldn't know empathy.
Pull your head out your backside long enough to smell the coffee boy.
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PostPosted: 21:48 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
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You are a bit of a prick yourself .... no doubt .. you think he wants empathy at this time of the sort that offers no encouragement, he needs cheering up and your post was misguided to the situation ... and i guarantee others will agree, but lets not let it go down that route, the OP don't need it ... Arrow


Don't try to get on the high ground, you failed first time round with your first comment. I guarantee you wont change.

My first post on the matter gave empathy and an opening if required, it also put forward a point that he may be feeling and that it is normal.

Your reply was down do it's usual standard and not needed, but there again you like posts turning into a spotlight on you and your shite. Well done................ prat.
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PostPosted: 21:55 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Casual sex (not with her) is in order. Don't get too drunk and don't spend too much time alone. You'll be fine, just don't dwell on things. Karma Smile
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PostPosted: 21:57 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thats your twisted imput.
You really do fail on so many levels.
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PostPosted: 23:48 - 29 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
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The only thing you know about fail is the numerous students that A rebuke you lecherous advances, and B mostly fail their tests caus of your spazzy instruction ....

Fail on many levels, list them m fer ... !!! Middle Finger


You like the 'spaz' insult ? or is it one directed at you so many times that you feel you need to use it on others to big yourself up?
Very moronic of you.
Get yourself out of the play ground, boy.
You fail again and again.
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PostPosted: 00:11 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
The number of threads I see Skudd and Covdude bickering in is making me begin to suspect they're actually the same person on two accounts...

Surely no-one could actually take the bait so often Laughing

Hope your NYE isn't too rough AG, best of British with sorting things out and moving on Karma
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Good comes after bad...You seem levelheaded so you're not the doing summat daft type. So its just a case of living abit at a time. Sometimes no matter how much people persuade you to get out and get jiggy..you can't force yourself...thats fine...but when you do get those days/moments you gotta take them, and start getting some enjoyment back.

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PostPosted: 01:29 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Just go have an epic wank and be done with it. Cool
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PostPosted: 01:33 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
Cheers for all the replys, I'm definately going to try and move things forward. Got NYE with one of my best mates, so will hopefully have an alright time!

As said, I'm not going to go back with her, no matter how much it hurts, I am moving forward!

Will start going out a bit more I think now, make some new friends - they have been a bit short on the ground lately due to alot moving away, and me losing jobs.....so, new friends are the order of the day I think.

Think I'm gonna need to work on the confidence with meeting new girls again, being that I'm currently 22, I was 18 when I met her.....which equals a rather large portion of my adult life!

Hopefully 2010 will be awesome!
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PostPosted: 07:39 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
AngelGrinder wrote:
being that I'm currently 22, I was 18 when I met her.....which equals a rather large portion of my adult life!



Fuck me....18-22 is a large part of your adult life?? Laughing Razz Rolling Eyes
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Trust me on this...you havent even started it yet.

I know break ups are hard though,been through 5 bad ones myself and they never get any easier, so no doubt you`ll live through others as you rack up your "adult" years and go through all this again,and again,and probably again. Razz

Just deal with whatever mental processes you have to and move on.See you on the other side Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: 09:13 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
i got with my ex when i was 17 and broke up not long ago at 26, i think at 22 your worrying far to much, remember people in their 70's get together so i shouldnt think you'll have too many problems at 22!
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PostPosted: 10:01 - 30 Dec 2009    Post subject: Reply with quote
I think I worded that badly, I meant most of my adult life so far...not overall.
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