How much are you expected to take

[-Savage-]

Sorry folks, i was quite drunk. please ignore my post
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[Alexio]

Seriously mate I would cut your 'losses' and just leave.

Relationships have to go two ways and clearly yours isn't. Give her an ultimatum if you really want but make sure you communicate to her properly everything you have just said here and exactly how you feel. Write it down to her if you must.

Then leave if nothing changes quickly because ultimately you probably deserve a lot better. It doesn't mean you can't try again if at some point she becomes more mature and likes you again but until that point I promise you that you'll even be happier single.
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[Tonka]

I think that one of the hardest lessons I've ever had to learn is 'that it takes two to have a happy and successful relationship.'

The tough bit is that it doesn't matter how much love you have to give or how hard you try, some people will always be ungrateful and difficult. Can you ever get them to realise before you both lose out? IMHO unlikely, as it will take your absence for them to understand what they have lost and hopefully by then you will have broken the chains and found yourself and good and happy life, either single or with someone new.

Alexio is spot on ^^. Don't undervalue yourself and understand that you do deserve to be loved back and to be appreciated, as sometimes being on the receiving end of such bad treatment can have a much more deep seated affect than you truly understand. Ask your friends and family for support if you think that you may not be strong enough to start with, as what you don't want is to become a puppet to-ing and fro-ing as she decides whether to keep the relationship going by pleading for you to give her a chance.

Really feel for you, it's a horrid place to be - chin up and all that!!
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[Itchy]

If she is moody and doesn't appreciate you then what is her stichk? why are you going out with her.

Do not say love as this is unquantifyable justifying things on the basis of love is as bad as those women who get kicked around by their bfs yet will defend them to the core.

Is she a 9 maybe a 10?

Does she have a special trick in the sack, oh man this girl I met in HK 3 years ago had this special internal milking trick and she was a 10 AND she was friendly, she moved away though.

Anyway I digress

Although it sounds ruthless its give and take, a girl friend or a boyfriend is supposed to make you feel good not bad, and therefore I think you are doing the right thing in re-evaluating what you are getting out of it and thus having doubts.

I think if it has pushed you enough to come on a public forum and ask then you should cut your losses and run, plenty of fish in the sea and all that.
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[Handsome]

A one sided relationship will never work, you're giving, she's taking...

Two options, sit down ask her what, why and how come or leave, or actually both...

I'll be as blunt as that, normally I type a pages worth but it really is that simple...
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[Dr. DaveJPS]

[GhostRider]

Honestly.............

Come on man you already know what response you are going to get here, you already knew your answer before you even clicked the "New topic" button. I guess maybe you just wanted someone else to confirm it in case there was something blatantly obvious that you were missing.

Grow a pair, dump the bitch, find someone that appreciates your efforts. She sounds like the kind who will find her way into a relationship where the guy decides to give her a taste of the back of his hand to listen and pay attention to him, strangely enough, it will probably work, but thats women for you.

Chin up, stiff upper lip, move on.

GhostRider
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[Fawbish]

Realise that there is no spoon - it is only yourself that you are trying to bend.


And become your penis.


Fawbish
Philosophically insightful to the last
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[CaNsA]

"How much are you expected to take?"

Elbow deep

[the grim reaper]

She's a bitch, walk away and make her realise that she ain't all that after all. Women like her need to realise that blokes won't take her shit, by staying with her you are actually doing all of us a mis-service. When she has finally left you a gibbering wreck, she'll move onto treat the next poor sucker like crap. Ditch her now and hopefully she'll realise that you reap what you sow.

Cheers

Grim
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[PsychoHippy]

Allow me to be the first to say:


Punch her in the tits and do her up the gary!



Oh, and unless she is the person you genuinely want to spend the rest of your life with, get out now.
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[Redoko]

Damn I missed this...


But yeah... Recently split up with my other half. It's hard at first, very hard.

But you do realise you deserve better, although you love her, and I'm sure you do. When you're out of the relationship, you can see her for who she really is and you will the true extent of how badly she treats you. I'm not digging her, just saying you will notice that she does treat you very badly and that you deserve better.

You will fall out of love with her, but you will still love her. You always will, there will always be something.

There's a vital difference between in love with someone and loving someone.

I hope you make the choice that makes you happy mate, and you will find someone else.

[Alexio]