I need help

[lonie]

Well, I think it might be about time that I told my parents that I am infact a homosexual... but thething is that my dad is homophobic and I don't quite know how to break th news to him that his only son isn't quite what he had wanted..

also.. i had gay sex for the first time last night and im in alot of pain.. like, is it natural for my anus to bleed?? like im really in pain and i dont know what to do.. tried a ncie soak in the bath but it didnt seem to help!!

any suggestions??[/img]

[Moonie]

Probably worth pointing out he was in the chat room not long ago sounding awfully hacked...
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[Moonie]

Probably worth pointing out he was in the chat room not long ago sounding awfully hacked...

EDIT: Probably not worth saying twice though
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[blurredman]

Damn right, I remember him..


I don't know what to say, how could I?
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[Paxovasa]

So this is not a wind up?
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[pits]

From what I have heard, you are also gay if you push back

[lonie]

thanks for the support :-/ or the lack of it should i say! i put it on here as its more private compared to facebook. really thought i might have seeked some help! clearly not!

[Moonie]

[pits]

[Ariel Badger]

[SirEdward]

How did this faggotry wind up here? Being queer is a choice; you wouldn't see me crying over being dildo'd by two girls with strap-ons on a corporate meeting, now would you.
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[pits]

[The Original Muzza]

[Frost]

[pa_broon74]

Clearly its a cry for help.

One which I'm inclined to ignore.


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[johnsmith222]

I have a lot of respect for people who have opened up to their family and friends and told them that they are gay. I can't even comprehend how much courage that would take to do.

It's worth noting that while your father may make homophobic comments, he may not actually be anti-gay. Plenty of people make homophobic comments because it's what other people have said while around friends etc and it has rubbed off onto themselves without realizing or thinking exactly what the words they are saying mean.

I was guilty of it myself, it is probably just friends' language rubbing off onto me without knowing, until I saw a dance production DVD called "U Fit" that was made by a gay charity.

I regard sexuality to be more of a spectrum rather than a polar concept. Everyone is full of nonsense rules that define whether or not you are gay. The only person that can know that is you.

As for your Dad, you may be pleasantly surprised. I would possibly take him out for a pint and ease him into it. I would expect him to be surprised even if he isn't homophobic, but I'm sure he'll come round.

Best of luck with it, and you do need to tell them. At the same time though, you can take your time to plan it out.

[SirEdward]

[SpicyBlimp]

[Ol]

[The999Kid]

[The999Kid]

[GhostRider]

[Raffles]

Now that Claire Rayner is dead, has BCF become the new shoulder to cry on for everyone that is struggling with thier sexuality?
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[Moonie]

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